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Re: Nigerian Men Have No Heart by misspicy(f): 3:49pm On Sep 22, 2016
lezznjr:


Spicy, I think you're afraid that I may love you more than your heart could ever carry. So you built that little shell to live in denial that there wasn't any love to begin with.

That's the reason you keep running like a frightened little bird. The knowledge of my women isn't hidden.

So I cannot promise you exclusivity. But I will guarantee you a body-quivering , heart-stopping, breathless life of fück and happiness.

You will see the moon in a clearer dimension after I have shown you what you have been running away from.
Leslie!!!
Please don't start on nairaland biko grin

How is your day going,or you gonna tell me about out of here?
Re: Nigerian Men Have No Heart by Laveda(f): 4:05pm On Sep 22, 2016
lezznjr:


That's the first smile you have given me in my entire E-life and I have archived it for all time in the deepest recess of my heart, I will pull it out when life's paths get steep.

Has anyone ever told you I find it hard telling what I love more between your writing style and your body accentuation?

Is it? I don't think this is the first, prolly the first you've taken note of. smiley

grin Who would? Tho I think its simple to pick between the two.
Re: Nigerian Men Have No Heart by TheUmbra: 4:06pm On Sep 22, 2016
[b]
It is safe to conclude that the OP isn't on a mission of attention craving. She is sharing a large piece of her life. While it is not a crime to do so, the sheer generalisation and malevolent approach to her relationship woes put her on the spotlight for all the wrong reasons.


Let's begin with her handle "foolinlove". This should serve as a little tease into the soul of the OP. She probably has had more than her fair share of relationships gone askew.

But does she have a hand in her misfortune or did nature just find joy in dishing out all the ills of life to her?

Her past posts would share more light to the truth!

From
"What Is The Worst Dirty Talk You've Heard?"
"Goodbye: A Letter To My Ex"
And
"For All The Men Worried About Exposed Cleavage"


I behold a woman/lady who goes to the market with cheap funds hoping to buy enviable and expensive merchandise. "A letter To My Ex" depicts a woman who has rocked her life in debauchery and waywardness hoping to pitch her tent on a mugu after several hands have muddied her fountain of youthful freshness. Nonsense! Nigerian men know the difference between a good fvck and a good wife material.

"For All The Men Worried About Exposed Cleavage" introduces a disoriented feminist who has failed to come to grasp with the real difference between a man and a woman. She doesn't mind flashing half of her boobs for attention and fashion and parading her sexuality like a motor show event. So men treat you like a piece of commodity and test-drive you for the fun of it. Afterall, test-driving a car is free with no strings.


While you vent your anger on the men who treated you the way they perceived you, it is self respecting for you to draw a healthy line of sincerity and tell yourself the truth, that you attracted your kind. The virtuous woman have decent Nigerian when seeking to share their eternity with her.[/b]

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Re: Nigerian Men Have No Heart by lezznjr: 4:30pm On Sep 22, 2016
misspicy:

Leslie!!!
Please don't start on nairaland biko grin

How is your day going,or you gonna tell me about out of here?
I'm backing up to meet you inside then. What I'm about to do to you is better imagined than stated.
Re: Nigerian Men Have No Heart by lezznjr: 4:34pm On Sep 22, 2016
Laveda:


Is it? I don't think this is the first, prolly the first you've taken note of. smiley

grin Who would? Tho I think its simple to pick between the two.
Intelligence is something I find compelling in a girl and when she adds beauty to that then she has given Leslie a sucker punch. That's what you have done to me, Lavvy.

I think I need the complete package if every single thing that makes you you.

Is that too much of an asking?
Re: Nigerian Men Have No Heart by Laveda(f): 4:45pm On Sep 22, 2016
lezznjr:
Intelligence is something I find compelling in a girl and when she adds beauty to that then she has given Leslie a sucker punch. That's what you have done to me, Lavvy.

I think I need the complete package if every single thing that makes you you.

Is that too much of an asking?
You know? You just have a way with words, words that can make a woman go head over heels for you and I do like it tho sometimes I find it amusing lol.

You can't have just everything you need, you know that right? Make a choice and I'll see to it.wink
Re: Nigerian Men Have No Heart by ted1741: 4:54pm On Sep 22, 2016
Are you done?

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Re: Nigerian Men Have No Heart by HMZi: 5:13pm On Sep 22, 2016
Heartless cos these hoes aint loyal,we c a loyal chic,we settle down.Naija men only deal in hands u gals serve.
Re: Nigerian Men Have No Heart by lezznjr: 5:26pm On Sep 22, 2016
Laveda:

You know? You just have a way with words, words that can make a woman go head over heels for you and I do like it tho sometimes I find it amusing lol.

You can't have just everything you need, you know that right? Make a choice and I'll see to it.wink

All of you or nothing. I have been in the worst kind of prison ever imaginable when I spied you from a distance for so long and never could break my thoughts out to you.

Corresponding with you sets my soul free. But what's freedom if I can't fly away with you?
Re: Nigerian Men Have No Heart by chigoizie7(m): 5:48pm On Sep 22, 2016
foolinlove:
I have spoken with many Africans over the last few months. Nigerians and other African people.

All Africans who aren't from Nigeria seem to say the same thing:

Nigerian men have no heart.
They only love money.
They will make you crazy and want to kill yourself.
They care for nothing but themselves.
They have no regard for their wife or children.
They cheat non-stop.

My closest friend said I am better off getting pet a dog than a Nigerian husband - at least a dog can love me.

When I look at this romance section, I agree. It's all about stupid stuff like men bragging and how to make a girl have sex with you and how to tell of a woman is a virgin - as if virginity is important.

Very little talks about actual love, how to make it work - unless it is clickbait.

Nigerian men are fukked up.


The only reason a Nigerian man is outside the shores of his country is to make a good living(which is ultimately about making money), any other thing apart from their primary objective is nothing.

If u truly want to know if a Naija man is good for u as u said, as a foreigner, pack ur belongings and come live with him in Naija with a well established business and see if he is really loving and caring, but if u can't leave ur country to come live down here forever, then u have no moral rights to judge him. We go outside Naija, to make money so that we can better our lives, we don't go out to live their in eternity, we must retire someday,we must come back home some day, now what is my gain if after going out to hustle, make money but my wife and kids can not come and stay in their fathers country?(we love our heritage so much and will do anything to protect them, but he can't preserve them when our kids who are meant to preserve it when we are gone are living in another mans land with no hope of ever coming home?). So my dear, I know Nigerian men better than u do, because I am one of them, I can not go to the stream with a sole purpose of fetching water in which I will use to cook for my kids, but on getting to the stream, I decided to start playing with women that came to swim for leisure.

Secondly, tell ur govt to make everyone living in your country equal, tell them to stop discriminating and u will see a man who doesn't need to use u to achieve his aims but the one that will love you without conditions attached.




NB. Whatever i,said has no moral justification of men being heartless and all that,but, for every action, there is equal and opposite reactions.

As u think left, also think right, don't be self centred, for any actions a man take, there is a reason to that,weda good or bad reasons, all u need to do is to check his reasons b4 u judge em.

Come to to Naija to live with me and struggle with me to make a better life for our kids, and I will love u forever.

Moreover, a Naija man is not so dramatic, when they want sex, they go for sex, when they want love, they go for love and when they just want to play around, they make it obvious, they give u signs.
That u refused to see the signs is none of his business.
Re: Nigerian Men Have No Heart by Laveda(f): 10:00pm On Sep 22, 2016
lezznjr:
All of you or nothing. I have been in the worst kind of prison ever imaginable when I spied you from a distance for so long and never could break my thoughts out to you.

Corresponding with you sets my soul free. But what's freedom if I can't fly away with you?
cheesy Finally you have..

So, where do we go from here?
Re: Nigerian Men Have No Heart by Domislaz(m): 1:16pm On Sep 23, 2016
foolinlove:
I have spoken with many Africans over the last few months. Nigerians and other African people.

All Africans who aren't from Nigeria seem to say the same thing:

Nigerian men have no heart.
They only love money.
They will make you crazy and want to kill yourself.
They care for nothing but themselves.
They have no regard for their wife or children.
They cheat non-stop.

My closest friend said I am better off getting pet a dog than a Nigerian husband - at least a dog can love me.

When I look at this romance section, I agree. It's all about stupid stuff like men bragging and how to make a girl have sex with you and how to tell of a woman is a virgin - as if virginity is important.

Very little talks about actual love, how to make it work - unless it is clickbait.

Nigerian men are fukked up.

You don't listen. You are making things difficult for yourself. I gave you an advice I would give my daughter in the other thread but you threw it down the drain. I am still seeing the effects of not heeding to that advice in this post.

I think you also need to get a heart too. You came to a Nigerian forum, and made all sort of derogatory and scathing remarks about Nigerian men. Did you for a second think that you might be exhibiting ruthless emotional cruelty? Foolinlove, where is your empathy? Don't you know that opinion without empathy is useless? This is so insensitive of you. I have always thought you knew better.

You listed some bad characters you attribute to all Nigerian men. Do you know that with this insensitive post, you have succeeded in bringing up a wrong picture about the women in your country too? What if I generalize that all women in your country are insensitive, will I be correct?

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Re: Nigerian Men Have No Heart by firstking01(m): 1:45pm On Sep 23, 2016
Seeing your moniker alone i give it up.
Re: Nigerian Men Have No Heart by firstking01(m): 1:47pm On Sep 23, 2016
Ereholuwa:


Dearie... I understand you, but not all of them. Do you wanna tell me that all ladies are saints. NO!

We all choose who we wanna be. Perfect gentlemen still exist out there. its just that good things are scarce.... precious gems are rare.
You get time to preach for her i sweargrin
Re: Nigerian Men Have No Heart by firstking01(m): 1:49pm On Sep 23, 2016
Laveda:
I still love my Nigerian men anyways, ain't no one sweeter than them.

Everyone can't be perfect, that you've dated one or two doesn't mean you should generalize, anyways you weren't forced to date them do yourself the favour and look elsewhere.
Nice Input.

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Re: Nigerian Men Have No Heart by Blackfire(m): 11:29am On Sep 24, 2016
foolinlove:

More bragging. Yawn. Get a heart.


hi .my run away admirer.
or am the admirer?
Re: Nigerian Men Have No Heart by LuvU2: 11:44am On Sep 24, 2016
foolinlove:


More bragging. Yawn. Get a heart.
I am sad thar u are right. The only group of people that hve insulted me for just being a woman , a nigerian woman re nigerian men.

These selfish chauvinistic ingrates might not be the majority bt i must tell u thar they re mouthy, very loud.

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Re: Nigerian Men Have No Heart by FreeSpirited: 12:05pm On Sep 24, 2016
Am sure u can find your way to the embassy......abi na airport....mtchwwwew
Re: Nigerian Men Have No Heart by FreeSpirited: 12:08pm On Sep 24, 2016
IamLEGEND1:
The O.P is a single,miserable middle aged woman who got her heart broken in the not-so-distant past by a guy she thought was finally going to marry her after 35yrs of searching.

I guarantee it.
harsh but true..... I know Op very well...she doesn't knw me
Re: Nigerian Men Have No Heart by WhitegirlonNL(f): 12:10pm On Sep 24, 2016
I noticed it here
Re: Nigerian Men Have No Heart by Nobody: 9:52am On Feb 09, 2017
undecided

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