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Be Warned! Pornography Can Send You To Hell. by kingsleyarist(m): 4:07pm On Sep 22, 2016
Be Warned! Pornography can send you to hell.
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obody survives in the Kingdom of darkness. It is a Kingdom of death. Whatever Satan controls, he destroys. The Bible says he comes to steal, kill and destroy. (John 10:10a) Satan tells you it is fan but remember it is a shortcut to destruction. Porn is the masterpiece of the prince of darkness himself. It is a destructive invention right from the pit of hell. It has one objective: to rob you of your holiness and foster in you the spirit of lust, which chains you up to immorality. Pornography deposits in you the spirit of lust and lust helps you to cultivate the desire to fornicate, masturbate and commit adultery. Masturbation is a sin against your own soul. As long as you masturbate, your name will be continually in the mouths of demons, and their manipulations; (Reference: Occult grand master, now in Christ.). All who do such things shall not inherit the Kingdom of God. Porn breaks down your focus, destabilizes you psychologically, leaves you with guilt and robs you of your reasoning power. Be strictly warned; as no one can carry fire in his bosom and refuse to be burnt, so is exposure to pornography; its consequences are inevitable. Porn is a trap of Satan against your eternal soul. Beware! Daily dose of porn means a daily fellowship with demons. The more addicted you become, the more reprobate you look, and the more you open your heart for demonic invasion. ( Titus 1:16, 2nd Peter 2:14 ). Pornography is one of the movies that wars against your soul. It renders you cheap for demonic manipulation. Porn stars, the porn industry and porn addicts have war in their gates. They will answer to God. Because of pornography, sexual immorality, abortion, divorce and broken homes are on the increase. Do not be surprised to hear that pornography is an insult against God. Porn stars and the porn industry are trying to tell God that He is not wise enough to keep sex holy and behind closed doors. Take the phones of any ten youth at random, and you will be surprised that out of the ten, only one of them may not have pornographic movies and nude pictures on his mobile phone. What a corrupt generation we are living in! ( 2nd Timothy 3:1-6 ). Dear reader, set yourself apart for the glory of God. ( 1st Peter 1:14-16 ). Olden days Sodom and Gomorrah has now come to live with us right in our homes, pockets, video rooms, and all over the media. (Jude 1:6-7, Genesis 19:24 ). If all you think is that your body is for sexual immorality and sexual immorality is for your body, then bear in mind that you are digging your own grave to imprisonment in hell. (1st Corinthians 6:13). Countless troops of porn actors and actresses have already gone on ahead to a condemned eternity, in the prison cells of hell, and yet another generation of pornographic fanatics are marching and walking to hell. It starts out as a pleasure and ends in addiction that can destroy like cancer. Consumers of pornography intoxicate their reasoning power through lustful thinking. Pornography is full of sexual immorality and perversion, of which Christ warns against. ( 1st Corinthians 6:9-18, Hebrews 13: 4, Ephesians 5:1-5, 1st Thessalonians 4:3-4, Revelation 21: 27, 1st Corinthians 10:8, Galatians 5:19, Colossians 3:5, Revelation 2:21 ).
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emember; Jesus said anyone who looks at a woman with lust (including watching of pornography and nude pictures) has already committed adultery with her in her heart; and no such person has any inheritance in the Kingdom of Heaven; (Matthew 5: 28 ). Pornography is a deadly addiction that has the power to enslave you for many years. (1st Corinthians 10: 6, Galatians 5:16 ). It is a weapon of demons for mass destruction. Angels lost their original estate in the Kingdom of Heaven and are now awaiting the Great Judgment day of the Lord in hell fire because of a miniature pornography in disguise; ( Genesis 6:1-8 ). King David fed his eyes with the nudity of a bathing woman and brought a curse and a big reproach upon himself. (2nd Samuel 11:2-4, and chapter 12:1-14 ). What are you feeding your eyes with? In fact, anybody who consumes pornography will not be able to live a holy life; and no holiness, no Heaven. Pornography makes you prone to setback and limitation in progress. Even marriage couples who consume porn are in trouble. Their marriages are on the verge of collapsing, sooner or later. Demons are given free access to marriages with one objective, and that is to wreck marriages and rob couples of their matrimonial home. Unmarried couples, men and women, ladies and gentlemen, who consume pornography directly or indirectly will find it extra difficult to have settled home, and even if they settle down, it is for a moment. The reason is simple, they are married to pornography with spiritual wives and husbands. Porn will also rob you of your holiness without which no man will see the Lord. And ultimately destroy your destiny through lust, immorality, fornication, adultery, masturbation, homosexuality, incest, and all forms of sexual perversion. Some people even have sex with animals, all because of afflictions from lust acquired through pornography. If you are successful in making money and yet you are afflicted with the spirit of lust, It will be very difficult for you to be able to give account of your money. Jesus is confronting you. He is able to save you, if you are willing to confess unto him. He can break that satanic addiction and yoke over your neck. Ask Him to set you free now.
HOW TO BE SET FREE.
Recognize your need for salvation from this devilish yoke of sin. The Bible says that blessed are they which hunger and thirst after righteousness, for they shall be filled.( Matthew 5:6). Ask Christ Jesus, the only begotten Son of God to make you free from all bondages that holds you down to destruction and you shall be free indeed. (John 8:36). At Hebrews 7:25, we understand that Jesus Christ is always able to save all who comes to God through Him. Bible says there is no name given among men on earth whereby we can be saved, except the name of Jesus Christ alone. ( 1st Timothy 2:5-6, Acts 4:12, Luke 24: 46-47, John 8:24, Hebrews 5:9, John 3: 14- 18 ) Lord Jesus, I confess with my mouth and believed with my heart that you alone can set me from all my sins. Have mercy on me and save my soul. Break the yoke of addiction to pornography over my life and make me a living testimony Read this tract again, photocopy and pass it on. For a free Bible, and other gospel tracts, email me at larderatt@gmail.com

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Re: Be Warned! Pornography Can Send You To Hell. by boss096(m): 4:18pm On Sep 22, 2016
Bro no paragraph at all. you aren't making it easy for one to read o.
Re: Be Warned! Pornography Can Send You To Hell. by hopefulLandlord: 4:21pm On Sep 22, 2016
porn is good even though I hardly watch it these days
try it sometime, you might like it too

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Re: Be Warned! Pornography Can Send You To Hell. by kingsleyarist(m): 4:24pm On Sep 22, 2016
Porn stars, the porn industry and porn addicts have war in their gates. They will answer to God. Because of pornography, sexual immorality, abortion, divorce and broken homes are on the increase. Do not be surprised to hear that pornography isan insult against God. Porn stars and the porn industry are trying to tell God that He is not wise enough to keep sex holy and behind closed doors.

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Re: Be Warned! Pornography Can Send You To Hell. by ColdHardTruth: 4:39pm On Sep 22, 2016
kingsleyarist:
Porn stars, the porn industry and porn addicts have war in their gates. They will answer to God.
eh? wetin be dis?

Because of pornography, sexual immorality, abortion, divorce and broken homes are on the increase.

this is disappointing, blaming Porn for divorce and broken homes?

these Christians are competing for who can be most dumbest

do you know that rape incidence reduced in number when porn went mainstream?

you didn't know? okay click here

so what could be more immoral than rape?

oh! your holy book said a rapist should marry his victim

bullshiit book



Do not be surprised to hear that pornography isan insult against God.

your pathetic excuse of a god should find more important things to bother himself with

Porn stars and the porn industry are trying to tell God that He is not wise enough to keep sex holy and behind closed doors.

so?

I'll stop here

Coldhardtruth

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Re: Be Warned! Pornography Can Send You To Hell. by Ranchhoddas: 4:57pm On Sep 22, 2016
hopefulLandlord:
porn is good even though I hardly watch it these days

try it sometime, you might like it too
Chaaaiii. Repent!
Re: Be Warned! Pornography Can Send You To Hell. by Nobody: 5:11pm On Sep 22, 2016
You talk true my dear. Pornography is everywhere including nairaland. You see so many threads of women exposing cleavage and they promote porn stars like Cosy and Maheeda. Nairaland is not a safe site for children.

But worse than porn, is atheism and I will do all I can to make sure baby Christians who visit this site don't fall prey. For those chained to it already, I look up to Jesus to deliver you because Jesus nah the greatest super star.

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Re: Be Warned! Pornography Can Send You To Hell. by Lordgel: 5:21pm On Sep 22, 2016
Nice one Op
Re: Be Warned! Pornography Can Send You To Hell. by kingsleyarist(m): 9:05pm On Sep 22, 2016
ColdHardTruth:

eh? wetin be dis?
this is disappointing, blaming Porn for divorce and broken homes?
these Christians are competing for who can be most dumbest
do you know that rape incidence reduced in number when porn went mainstream?
you didn't know? okay click here
so what could be more immoral than rape?
oh! your holy book said a rapist should marry his victim
bullshiit book
your pathetic excuse of a god should find more important things to bother himself with
so?
I'll stop here
Coldhardtruth




that's not a justification for sin. keep on watching porn I bet you hell awaits you

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Re: Be Warned! Pornography Can Send You To Hell. by Nobody: 8:31am On Sep 23, 2016
I'll take coldhardtruth's point a step further, the biblical God fully supported rape. And yet these bigots will jump on the porn stars. For those bold or ignorant enough to ask me for a quote where God supported rape, look no further than
David’s Punishment – Polygamy, Rape, Baby Killing, and God’s “Forgiveness”(2 Samuel 12:11-14 NAB)
Thus says the Lord: ‘I will bring evil upon you out of your own house. I will take your wives[plural]while you live to see it, and will give them to your neighbor. He shall liewith your wives in broad daylight. You have done this deed in secret, but I will bring it about in the presence of all Israel, and with the sun looking down. Then David said to Nathan, “I have sinned against the Lord.” Nathan answered David:“The Lord on his part has forgiven your sin: you shall not die. But since you have utterly spurned the Lord by this deed, the child born to you must surely die.” [The child dies seven days later.]

For even more verses of the bibles support of rape look no further than these verses
1.) Murder, rape, and pillage at Jabesh-gilead(Judges 21:10-24 NLT)
2.)rape and pillage of the Midianites(Numbers 31:7-18 NLT)
3.)Murder Rape and Pillage(Deuteronomy 20:10-14)
4.)Sex Slaves(Exodus 21:7-11 NLT)

Hypocrites

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Re: Be Warned! Pornography Can Send You To Hell. by Nobody: 5:52pm On Sep 23, 2016
What? No response from the OP? undecided
Re: Be Warned! Pornography Can Send You To Hell. by kingsleyarist(m): 1:50am On Sep 26, 2016
ColdHardTruth:

eh? wetin be dis?
this is disappointing, blaming Porn for divorce and broken homes?
these Christians are competing for who can be most dumbest
do you know that rape incidence reduced in number when porn went mainstream?
you didn't know? okay click here
so what could be more immoral than rape?
oh! your holy book said a rapist should marry his victim
bullshiit book
your pathetic excuse of a god should find more important things to bother himself with
so?
I'll stop here
Coldhardtruth


watch whatever you say here
cos God will surly judge for blasphemous comment and accusations uttered against him.
the fact that your level of understanding is below reasonable interpretation of what you presumed as rape does in no case gives you that satanic gut to say God supports rape


"" Matthew 12:13
And so I tell you, every kind of sin and slander can be forgiven, but blasphemy against the Spirit will not be forgiven."
hamartiology,eternal sins,unforgivable sins, orunpardonable sinsare sins which will not beforgivenbyGod. One eternal or unforgivable sin is specified in several passages of the synoptic gospels Mark 3:28-29,Matthew 12:31-32, and Luke 12:10state that there is one sin considered eternal and that is "blasphemy against God


watch out for God's judgement
Re: Be Warned! Pornography Can Send You To Hell. by kingsleyarist(m): 1:52am On Sep 26, 2016
Lennycool:
I'll take coldhardtruth's point a step further, the biblical God fully supported rape. And yet these bigots will jump on the porn stars. For those bold or ignorant enough to ask me for a quote where God supported rape, look no further than
David’s Punishment – Polygamy, Rape, Baby Killing, and God’s “Forgiveness”(2 Samuel 12:11-14 NAB)
Thus says the Lord: ‘I will bring evil upon you out of your own house. I will take your wives[plural]while you live to see it, and will give them to your neighbor. He shall liewith your wives in broad daylight. You have done this deed in secret, but I will bring it about in the presence of all Israel, and with the sun looking down. Then David said to Nathan, “I have sinned against the Lord.” Nathan answered David:“The Lord on his part has forgiven your sin: you shall not die. But since you have utterly spurned the Lord by this deed, the child born to you must surely die.” [The child dies seven days later.]

For even more verses of the bibles support of rape look no further than these verses
1.) Murder, rape, and pillage at Jabesh-gilead(Judges 21:10-24 NLT)
2.)rape and pillage of the Midianites(Numbers 31:7-18 NLT)
3.)Murder Rape and Pillage(Deuteronomy 20:10-14)
4.)Sex Slaves(Exodus 21:7-11 NLT)

Hypocrites





watch whatever you say here
cos God will surly judge for blasphemous comment and accusations uttered against him.
the fact that your level of understanding is below reasonable interpretation of what you presumed as rape does in no case gives you that satanic gut to say God supports rape


"" Matthew 12:13
And so I tell you, every kind of sin and slander can be forgiven, but blasphemy against the Spirit will not be forgiven."
ham aetiology, eternal sins,unforgivable sins, or unpardonable sins are sins which will not be forgiven by god. One eternal or unforgivable sin is specified in several passages of the synoptic gospels Mark 3:28-29,Matthew 12:31-32, and Luke 12:10state that there is one sin considered eternal and that is "blasphemy against God


watch out for God's judgement

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Re: Be Warned! Pornography Can Send You To Hell. by Nobody: 3:24am On Sep 26, 2016
What is wrong in that passage you just quoted. Next before commenting, bring your brain along.
ColdHardTruth:

eh? wetin be dis?



this is disappointing, blaming Porn for divorce and broken homes?

these Christians are competing for who can be most dumbest

do you know that rape incidence reduced in number when porn went mainstream?

you didn't know? okay click here

so what could be more immoral than rape?

oh! your holy book said a rapist should marry his victim

bullshiit book




your pathetic excuse of a god should find more important things to bother himself with



so?

I'll stop here

Coldhardtruth
Re: Be Warned! Pornography Can Send You To Hell. by Nobody: 3:35am On Sep 26, 2016
I always knew this. This is very true.
Re: Be Warned! Pornography Can Send You To Hell. by ColdHardTruth: 4:20am On Sep 26, 2016
Millerz:
What is wrong in that passage you just quoted. Next before commenting, bring your brain along.

hey, why not tell me what's right about a rape victim marrying her rapist?

before replying, bring your brain along.
Re: Be Warned! Pornography Can Send You To Hell. by aaccountable1: 4:22am On Sep 26, 2016
Lennycool:
I'll take coldhardtruth's point a step further, the biblical God fully supported rape. And yet these bigots will jump on the porn stars. For those bold or ignorant enough to ask me for a quote where God supported rape, look no further than
David’s Punishment – Polygamy, Rape, Baby Killing, and God’s “Forgiveness”(2 Samuel 12:11-14 NAB)
Thus says the Lord: ‘I will bring evil upon you out of your own house. I will take your wives[plural]while you live to see it, and will give them to your neighbor. He shall liewith your wives in broad daylight. You have done this deed in secret, but I will bring it about in the presence of all Israel, and with the sun looking down. Then David said to Nathan, “I have sinned against the Lord.” Nathan answered David:“The Lord on his part has forgiven your sin: you shall not die. But since you have utterly spurned the Lord by this deed, the child born to you must surely die.” [The child dies seven days later.]

For even more verses of the bibles support of rape look no further than these verses
1.) Murder, rape, and pillage at Jabesh-gilead(Judges 21:10-24 NLT)
2.)rape and pillage of the Midianites(Numbers 31:7-18 NLT)
3.)Murder Rape and Pillage(Deuteronomy 20:10-14)
4.)Sex Slaves(Exodus 21:7-11 NLT)

Hypocrites
feel so sad for u!
Re: Be Warned! Pornography Can Send You To Hell. by Nobody: 4:32am On Sep 26, 2016
Troll, always spamming christian threads with balderdash. There's absolutely nothing wrong in that verse you quoted. According to the old law, he is to marry her (obviously with the consent of her parents and elders) and treat her as a wife and never divorce her. Most of our parents or grandparents married at the time when they had no say about their impending marriages.
ColdHardTruth:


hey, why not tell me what's right about a rape victim marrying her rapist?

before replying, bring your brain along.
Re: Be Warned! Pornography Can Send You To Hell. by ColdHardTruth: 4:39am On Sep 26, 2016
Millerz:
[s]Troll, always spamming christian threads with balderdash.[/s] There's absolutely nothing wrong in that verse you quoted. According to the old law, he is to marry her (obviously with the consent of her parents and elders) and treat her as a wife and never divorce her. Most of our parents or grandparents married at the time when they had no say about their impending marriages.

yeah babe

nothing wrong with a rape victim marrying her attacker because its old law

your holy book has next to NO regard for women, at no point in that passage did they even consider what opinion the woman has

"rapist should pay money to the parents of his victim and must marry her"

I'm talking to a female, a female is actually defending this?


NB: I'm still waiting for anything good in a RAPE VICTIM MARRYING HER RAPIST; that was the discussion, don't bring parents into this

rape victim marrying her rapist

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Re: Be Warned! Pornography Can Send You To Hell. by aaccountable1: 5:05am On Sep 26, 2016
ColdHardTruth:


yeah babe

nothing wrong with a rape victim marrying her attacker because its old law

your holy book has next to NO regard for women, at no point in that passage did they even consider what opinion the woman has

"rapist should pay money to the parents of his victim and must marry her"

I'm talking to a female, a female is actually defending this?


NB: I'm still waiting for anything good in a RAPE VICTIM MARRYING HER RAPIST

*[[Deu 22:28-29/KJV]]* 28 If a man find a damsel that is a virgin, which is not betrothed, and lay hold on her, and lie with her, and they be found; 29 Then the man that lay with her shall give unto the damsel's father fifty shekels of silver, and she shall be his wife; because he hath humbled her, he may not put her away all his days.
your bias blinds u.
this law is to prevent rather than encourage rape. the man who does this is compelled to marry the damsel because he has publicly humiliated her and she might have difficulty getting respectably married.
the man is bound to marry her after paying a fine to the father, whether he likes it or not.
the damsel on the other hand has an option..... an opportunity to refuse! a refusal that will therefore be publicly known as Tamar refused to marry amnon. the law is only to the girls advantage.
I do not at all see anything wrong with it.
Re: Be Warned! Pornography Can Send You To Hell. by ColdHardTruth: 5:22am On Sep 26, 2016
aaccountable1:


*[[Deu 22:28-29/KJV]]* 28 If a man find a damsel that is a virgin, which is not betrothed, and lay hold on her, and lie with her, and they be found; 29 Then the man that lay with her shall give unto the damsel's father fifty shekels of silver, and she shall be his wife; because he hath humbled her, he may not put her away all his days.
your bias blinds u.
this law is to prevent rather than encourage rape. the man who does this is compelled to marry the damsel because he has publicly humiliated her and she might have difficulty getting respectably married.
the man is bound to marry her after paying a fine to the father, whether he likes it or not.
the damsel on the other hand has an option..... an opportunity to refuse! a refusal that will therefore be publicly known as Tamar refused to marry amnon. the law is only to the girls advantage.
I do not at all see anything wrong with it.



you Christians just spin tales out of thin air to defend the indefensible

bros, abeg show me where its written that

"Tamar refused to marry Amnon"

and also where its written that "the girl has an option to refuse"

if you provide these things with book, chapter and verse, I'll agree with you because those are the only two points you made in your long epistle


I'll be waiting

remember; book, chapter and verse

thanks in advance
Re: Be Warned! Pornography Can Send You To Hell. by aaccountable1: 5:25am On Sep 26, 2016
ColdHardTruth:





oh! your holy book said a rapist should marry his victim

bullshiit book



Coldhardtruth

this law has two parts.
part 1:
Due 22:25-27 But if a man find a betrothed damsel in the field, and the man force her, and lie with her: then the man only that lay with her shall die: 26 But unto the damsel thou shalt do nothing; there is in the damsel no sin worthy of death: for as when a man riseth against his neighbour, and slayeth him, even so is this matter: 27 For he found her in the field, and the betrothed damsel cried, and there was none to save her.

if the damsel be already betrothed, the man was to be stoned to death... I do not see how the bible encouraged rape here, do you?
but he is forced to marry her if she is not yet betrothed for the reason already stated; because he has publicly humiliated her.
Re: Be Warned! Pornography Can Send You To Hell. by ColdHardTruth: 5:36am On Sep 26, 2016
Mr Accountable, I'm still waiting for the book, chapter and verse that confirms what you typed previously

and I never said the law "encourages" or "discourages" rape


my point still is a "rape victim should marry her rapist"

whether it encourages or discourages rape is a discussion for another day

let me type the ask again

bros, abeg show me where its written that

"Tamar refused to marry Amnon"

and also where its written that

"the girl has an option to refuse her rapist's marriage request"
Re: Be Warned! Pornography Can Send You To Hell. by aaccountable1: 5:41am On Sep 26, 2016
ColdHardTruth:


you Christians just spin tales out of thin air to defend the indefensible

bros, abeg show me where its written that

"Tamar refused to marry Amnon"

and also where its written that "the girl has an option to refuse"

if you provide these things with book, chapter and verse, I'll agree with you because those are the only two points you made in your long epistle


I'll be waiting

remember; book, chapter and verse

thanks in advance

2Sa 13:20 And Absalom her brother said unto her, Hath Amnon thy brother been with thee? but hold now thy peace, my sister: he is thy brother; regard not this thing. So Tamar remained desolate in her brother Absalom's house.
obviously, Tamar did not marry amnon.
the sons of Jacob refused to give their sister in marriage to shechem, after he had raped her.

the law only reserved the right of refusal to the girls family. the man on the other hand must marry her.
Re: Be Warned! Pornography Can Send You To Hell. by aaccountable1: 5:47am On Sep 26, 2016
ColdHardTruth:
Mr Accountable, I'm still waiting for the book, chapter and verse that confirms what you typed previously

and I never said the law "encourages" or "discourages" rape


my point still is a "rape victim should marry her rapist"

whether it encourages or discourages rape is a discussion for another day

let me type the ask again

bros, abeg show me where its written that

"Tamar refused to marry Amnon"

and also where its written that

"the girl has an option to refuse her rapist's marriage request"

"if the girl is already betrothed, the man should be killed . if she is not then the man must marry her"
the whole essence of this law is clear enough. To protect the girl.
because the man has publicly humiliated her he should marry her.
Re: Be Warned! Pornography Can Send You To Hell. by ColdHardTruth: 5:56am On Sep 26, 2016
aaccountable1:


2Sa 13:20 And Absalom her brother said unto her, Hath Amnon thy brother been with thee? but hold now thy peace, my sister: he is thy brother; regard not this thing. So Tamar remained desolate in her brother Absalom's house.
obviously, Tamar did not marry amnon.
the sons of Jacob refused to give their sister in marriage to shechem, after he had raped her.

the law only reserved the right of refusal to the girls family. the man on the other hand must marry her.

bros

don't be dishonest here by filling in gaps

let this discussion be intelligent

Tamar didn't marry Amnon and the reasons are VERY CLEAR if you read the chapter very well

first off, after raping Tamar, Amnon HATED her, hated her more than he loved her, its obvious he didn't propose a marriage, neither did he pay money to their parents, if you know he did kindly state the verses and I'll check it out myself

the story of Shechem was a different thing entirely

Jacob actually agreed to give his daughter out

the sons were angry and killed the Shechems

AT NO POINT DID THEY ASK THE OPINION OF DINAH (THE RAPE VICTIM)
Re: Be Warned! Pornography Can Send You To Hell. by ColdHardTruth: 5:58am On Sep 26, 2016
aaccountable1:


"if the girl is already betrothed, the man should be killed . if she is not then the man must marry her"
the whole essence of this law is clear enough. To protect the girl.
because the man has publicly humiliated her he should marry her.

bros, at NO point so far did you look at things from the victim's perspective

at no point in those chapters was it stated that the victim had ANY say in this

rapist should pay money and MUST marry the victim

and bros, you don't still see anything wrong here?
Re: Be Warned! Pornography Can Send You To Hell. by aaccountable1: 6:01am On Sep 26, 2016
2Sa 13:20 And Absalom her brother said unto her, Hath Amnon thy brother been with thee? but hold now thy peace, my sister: he is thy brother; regard not this thing. So Tamar remained desolate in her brother Absalom's house.

and the fact that Tamar remained 'desolate'( forsaken, hopeless) in her brother's house underscores the whole essence of the law. that is what the law was intended to prevent.
Re: Be Warned! Pornography Can Send You To Hell. by aaccountable1: 6:08am On Sep 26, 2016
ColdHardTruth:


bros, at NO point so far did you look at things from the victim's perspective

at no point in those chapters was it stated that the victim had ANY say in this

rapist should pay money and MUST marry the victim

and bros, you don't still see anything wrong here?

Deu 22:26 But unto the damsel thou shalt do nothing; there is in the damsel no sin worthy of death: for as when a man riseth against his neighbour, and slayeth him, even so is this matter:

the whole law is instituted for the protection of the victim.

it is comparable to murder and the punishment in case the the victim is not betrothed is same as that proscribing murder.
Re: Be Warned! Pornography Can Send You To Hell. by ColdHardTruth: 6:11am On Sep 26, 2016
bros

desolate simply means unhappy

I still ask you, how do you KNOW Amnon at any point proposed marriage and paid silvers to their parent? pls give verses for this

and when you do bring Amnon and Tamar, you're actually being a bit dishonest by ignoring the shame in a brother sleeping with his sister or vice versa
because that's the case in Tamar and Absalom

Absalom in the verse you quoted told her sister to hold HER peace because of the shame it'll bring to his family

I already knew Amnon's example was a very wrong one but decided to see where it leads

anyways, without filling in nonexistent gaps or making up tales, can you do the below?

1. show me where its written that
"Tamar refused to marry Amnon"

2. Show me where its written that "a rape victim has an option to refuse her rapist's marriage advance"
Re: Be Warned! Pornography Can Send You To Hell. by aaccountable1: 6:18am On Sep 26, 2016
ColdHardTruth:


bros

don't be dishonest here by filling in gaps

let this discussion be intelligent

Tamar didn't marry Amnon and the reasons are VERY CLEAR if you read the chapter very well

first off, after raping Tamar, Amnon HATED her, hated her more than he loved her, its obvious he didn't propose a marriage, neither did he pay money to their parents, if you know he did kindly state the verses and I'll check it out myself

the story of Shechem was a different thing entirely

Jacob actually agreed to give his daughter out

the sons were angry and killed the Shechems

AT NO POINT DID THEY ASK THE OPINION OF DINAH (THE RAPE VICTIM)

well, seems we are further stressing the importance of this law. according to the law, despite the hatred, which sometimes happens after rape, the perpetrator was compelled to marry the victim.

the law was not enforced by David in this case probably because both were his children. I f Tamar was not betrothed, Am non was have been killed. it would only have been a double tragedy for him. Absalom eventually killed Amnon for this.
Re: Be Warned! Pornography Can Send You To Hell. by ColdHardTruth: 6:20am On Sep 26, 2016
let me tell you why Amnon most likely didn't propose to Tamar at any point let alone Tamar refusing the proposal

before doing the deed, Tamar asked for marriage when Amnon was overpowering her, saying they should marry and they can have sex

Amnon raped her anyways and "Hated her"

then told the servants to "send her away"

2 Samuel 13 KJV 15-18

Then Amnon hated her exceedingly; so that the hatred wherewith he hated her was greater than the love wherewith he had loved her. And Amnon said unto her, Arise, be gone.

And she said unto him, There is no cause: this evil in sending me away is greater than the other that thou didst unto me. But he would not hearken unto her.

Then he called his servant that ministered unto him, and said, Put now this woman out from me, and bolt the door after her.

And she had a garment of divers colours upon her: for with such robes were the king's daughters that were virgins apparelled. Then his servant brought her out, and bolted the door after her


its pretty obvious that he wouldn't have proposed since

"Absalom cared for Tamar in his own home and would not speak to Amnon"

it shows that Amnon most likely didn't see Tamar again after sending her away

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