My longest relationship ever (lol 2 years plus) she's caring, well mannered, humble and shy but she's quarrelsome and I don't know what to do. Love her tho but I'm the type who loves with his brain before the heart gets involved (if you know what I mean ).

So this happened tonight after a little brouhaha last night.

President lalasticlala and my honourable mods please approve this my executive relationship bill... let it sit with the elders up there

After seeing her good attributes which surpases the only wrong one, I would say there may be something you are doing wrong that is making her quarelsome.

Understand yourselves and see your relationship blossom like my uncle's flower.

After 2 years plus you still haven't told her your other names? Bros, weldone ooh!

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Last piece.... I don't think I quite got the arrangements well pardon me

ammyluv2002:
After 2 years plus you still haven't told her your other names? Bros, weldone ooh!

Nope... I forgot hers

Memesticmeme:


Nope... I forgot hers

What? U deserve better flogging

[quote author=ammyluv2002 post=49787378]What? U deserve better flogging [/quote]

Reminds me of my Lil trouble self

How old is she ? All I see is naivety and tints of boredom.


Well, next time you see shes up for this kinda sheet, just ignore the whines and dont argue. Maybe try cook up something rather outlandish . Maybe a tale by the moonlight or a sweet prose picturing a rather ravishing angel you were lucky to get;her . Then ,challenge her to a feat of like or something... Just get her thinkiň deep shiits before she goes all nasty in yo face henceforth bruh!

If she doesn't talk, overtime you'll start accusing her of being nonchalant.

Them go beg this girl oo...


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g4QjYIKuTtE

op pay no attention to her cus that's what they do when they want to cheat or have cheated..always trying to play the victim and false accusation so it will seem like you both are cheating.
am glad you said you are loving with your head n not your heart, so when they start a drama like this just be watchful cus there is something else pushing her and is the word "cheat"

op try paying more attention to details of her life....two years and you don't even know her other name...you are indirectly telling her there is no reason to remember her name......and about the picture,is she a jealous type? ,if she is that explains everything... she wouldn't want her bf snatched from her,will she?.....or would you be happy seeing her picture on a guy's dp.

Kingcheezypuff

After 2yrs ur supposed to know yourselves in and out.. .. But instead,u decided to let another girl use ur pix as dp and u see nothing wrong with it...
ur gf is nice,if na me,i for don break ur head

Oga, you forgot your gf of 2 years other names and a girl that is in you guys group is using her bf picture as dp and she should be quiet about it?! SMH.

To me, you are the one not making sense in that conversation.

Ur girlfriend of two years, u can't remember her other names? That's enough for someone to conclude that she is irrelevant to u. And then u have another girl that uses u as dp, and u expect her not to ask questions? Pls, stop seeing that girl as troublesome, because these two cases u gave here don't make her troublesome. Unless there ar other things about her u haven't told us yet.

op your own good,at least na dp ,MY GF STARTED TO QUERY ME LIKE FBI WHEN ONE GIRL WEY BE MY FRIEND TAG ME FOR FACEBOOK.

ammyluv2002:
After 2 years plus you still haven't told her your other names? Bros, weldone ooh!

Hahaha.

Guy chill jare. U wan chop Funmi abi Bunmi kpomo and the sharp gal caught u. Try being more retentive and pay a little attention to her. U might just learn to understand what she's not telling u. The best way to manage a woman's attitude is by understanding the unspoken words and her tells.

Lol this is normal joor but like she said you are a guy so you wont understand. I went into a fit wen my bf forgot my favourite color but how could you forget her other names wen she knows yours n those of your ancestors coupled with those of ur female cousins. Check ur self bro, don't let that other girl separate u n ur girl, limit your level of association with her. R/lationship sure has its ups n down n ur girl has a right to act jealous wen a girl she obviously dislike use ur pix on her dp.

Good girl.. I feel for her!

Op, after listening carefully to both sides , I hereby pronounce you unfit to be a reasonable boyfriend. What would you do if you see someone on ur whatsapp list use ur gf pix as her dp? You will laugh and over look? You are guilty of all count charges . You would be sentenced on a later date.

Who says that guys forget things concerning their woman unless you don't really love her.from what I just read you don't respect her and that's all she wants to see from that conversation,I also think you are not mature enough for a serious relationship the girl is seeking for even if you ve been dating 2years.if a girl date you that long she is seeing you walking down the aisle with her so respect her
Lastly my guy if a girl use use your pix as a DP(without you having anything with her)and your girl is complaining about it just talk to her in a way that will make her know she is relevant,for you to fully understand what I mean imagine if you notice a guy do the same and your girl answers you the same dismissal way you just did.
that girl in that conversation really loves you believe me its a rare thing these days

bitchcrafts:
How old is she ? All I see is naivety and tints of boredom.


Well, next time you see shes up for this kinda sheet, just ignore the whines and dont argue. Maybe try cook up something rather outlandish . Maybe a tale by the moonlight or a sweet prose picturing a rather ravishing angel you were lucky to get;her . Then ,challenge her to a feat of like or something... Just get her thinkiň deep shiits before she goes all nasty in yo face henceforth bruh!

You might have a point,but I really do not think its cool not to know or to forget ur girl's full names after 2 years in a relationship,her not been happy about that is justified....my thoughts tho.

IamLEGEND1:
fuck_her other name. Who cares about her other name.
very few girls know my surname not to talk of other obscure names i answer. if e pain her say you forget,she can go and die.

Bro....calm down,I think its all about context here,ur assertion might have been valid if they were just playing around,according to him its a serious relationship and he loves her, knowing ur girls full names is a basic requirement.Even bad guys should have codes and principles.

Greenbullet:
op your own good,at least na dp ,MY GF STARTED TO QUERY ME LIKE FBI WHEN ONE GIRL WEY BE MY FRIEND TAG ME FOR FACEBOOK.

lwkmd...you no land her better slap?