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I'm A Bit Confused!!! by Edrick: 2:29pm On Oct 01, 2016
Happy Independence Day!
I'm not sure how well to start. kinda new here, well thats by the way.

I know this guy (not so well though). We've nt had time to realy hang out and all.
there are 2 reasons for this- my parents would never let me hang out with guys especially as they do not know him and also
i'm not the going out type


i find myself beginning to like him and i suspect he feels the same too, as we talk most of the time on phone, etc.

the problem now is that we've nt been able to talk things through as almost everytime he says something and i reply, his countenance afterwards suggests i'd hurt him with whatever i say. i try most times to push him away but cant just do it.

i'm a bit confused and not sure if we should continue as friends or i end everything, so no one gets hurt further.
Re: I'm A Bit Confused!!! by IamLEGEND1: 2:34pm On Oct 01, 2016
So are you a guy or a girl?
Re: I'm A Bit Confused!!! by raphie01(f): 2:35pm On Oct 01, 2016
Edrick:
Happy Independence Day!
I'm not sure how well to start. kinda new here, well thats by the way.

I know this guy (not so well though). We've nt had time to realy hang out and all.
there are 2 reasons for this- my parents would never let me hang out with guys especially as they do not know him and also
i'm not the going out type


i find myself beginning to like him and i suspect he feels the same too, as we talk most of the time on phone, etc.

the problem now is that we've nt been able to talk things through as almost everytime he says something and i reply, his countenance afterwards suggests i'd hurt him with whatever i say. i try most times to push him away but cant just do it.

i'm a bit confused and not sure if we should continue as friends or i end everything, so no one gets hurt further.
ion understand...OP Are you Gay?
Re: I'm A Bit Confused!!! by Edrick: 2:39pm On Oct 01, 2016
IamLEGEND1:
So are you a guy or a girl?

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Re: I'm A Bit Confused!!! by agbonkamen(f): 2:45pm On Oct 01, 2016
channel your confusion to the appropriate zone maybe Buhari can help your solution grin
Re: I'm A Bit Confused!!! by BiafraBushBoy(m): 2:50pm On Oct 01, 2016
Since even the president is confused, I can't help you...
Re: I'm A Bit Confused!!! by Nobody: 2:50pm On Oct 01, 2016
angry How do I always forkng end up in all these gays threads..


Fadalaud I hope this isn't a sign..
Re: I'm A Bit Confused!!! by Newbeginnings(m): 2:51pm On Oct 01, 2016
Continue being friends...

Because

1. It well be so hard to date this guy if he is not mature.... (Because your parents will not allow you to see any guy, and immature guys are always afraid of meeting a girl's parents, so in the end we have a hide and seek relationship.... you don't want to suffer that my dear)

2. You may like him because he is just the first guy you are really close to... and if guys notice this they can use it to their advantage and it will cost you a lot (right now am thinking you are a virgin)

3. Give it sometime let you know if he truly likes you or if he will ever accept a relationship with you..

#Mythoughts

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise
Re: I'm A Bit Confused!!! by Nobody: 2:52pm On Oct 01, 2016
Did u say sorry?



U know sometimes, saying SORRY won't hurt... It's not about pride but it's bcoz u wanna keep the friendship... And if he doesn't accept it, then it's time for u to move on...
Re: I'm A Bit Confused!!! by IamLEGEND1: 2:53pm On Oct 01, 2016
Edrick:

GIRL!!
My moniker is a like a combo of two names.
i thought you were a gay brother. so your name is what, Edith or Edna Patrick?

well,chances are your infatuation with him will wane eventually. You said it yourself you don't even know him that much. And factor in your parents and you see how this isn't going to work out.
He dug himself into the friendzone,let him rot there.
Re: I'm A Bit Confused!!! by CAPSLOCKED: 2:53pm On Oct 01, 2016
agbonkamen:
channel your confusion to the appropriate zone maybe Buhari can help your solution grin


cheesy
Re: I'm A Bit Confused!!! by Nobody: 2:58pm On Oct 01, 2016
Cool. Just stay that way. Don't bring me into your confusion.

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Re: I'm A Bit Confused!!! by Edrick: 3:16pm On Oct 01, 2016
StunchLord:
Cool. Just stay that way. Don't bring me into your confusion.

I never called you in, in the first place
Re: I'm A Bit Confused!!! by Sexxkillz: 3:23pm On Oct 01, 2016
End it.

Stop frustrating yourself. Life shouldn't be made to look so difficult. If a situation doesn't favour you, step the fuck_ away from it.

Nothing like having peace of mind.
Re: I'm A Bit Confused!!! by Nobody: 3:27pm On Oct 01, 2016
Edrick:


I never called you in, in the first place
Then your thread is simply a waste of cyberspace and should be flushed down a toilet pipe.
Re: I'm A Bit Confused!!! by Edrick: 3:33pm On Oct 01, 2016
Newbeginnings:
Continue being friends...

Because

1. It well be so hard to date this guy if he is not mature.... (Because your parents will not allow you to see any guy, and immature guys are always afraid of meeting a girl's parents, so in the end we have a hide and seek relationship.... you don't want to suffer that my dear)

2. You may like him because he is just the first guy you are really close to... and if guys notice this they can use it to their advantage and it will cost you a lot (right now am thinking you are a virgin)

3. Give it sometime let you know if he truly likes you or if he will ever accept a relationship with you..

#Mythoughts

Stay Healthy, Stay Wise

1. He's asked severaly to see me at home.
as for 2, #lipsealed#.
3. i'll do just that.

thank u. :-)
Re: I'm A Bit Confused!!! by Edrick: 3:36pm On Oct 01, 2016
IamLEGEND1:
i thought you were a gay brother. so your name is what, Edith or Edna Patrick?

well,chances are your infatuation with him will wane eventually. You said it yourself you don't even know him that much. And factor in your parents and you see how this isn't going to work out.
He dug himself into the friendzone,let him rot there.

i never thought aboutt that.

thanks anyways

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