1. The greatest gift is getting to be yourself day in and day out. It is such a relief not to pretend—ever, not even for a second—because you are so certain that you are loved by another person for being exactly who you are. It is a blessing to say what you think and express how you feel without thinking twice, fully trusting that your significant other won’t think any less of you, even if they disagree with you vehemently. A person who loves you authentically will make space for differences of opinion and all of your less desirable qualities.

2. You can’t curate a memory. You can try. You can plan every minute of a vacation or special night out, but the truth is that the best memories are made when you least expect them. You can’t set the stage for a truly memorable moment. All you can do is trust that the memories will come—that they will blindside you at seemingly odd hours—and that they’re worth holding onto.

3. The little, in-between moments count the most. Yes, it’s fun to dress up and go out. Yes, it’s fun to surprise your significant other with a fancy gift or a meal you’ve slaved over for hours on end. But your relationship will not be defined by the series of vacations you take, the presents you exchange, or even the major sacrifices you make. Ultimately, your time together will seem like a long chain of tiny but meaningful moments. The particular way your partner smiled at you that one random morning when your eyes met theirs by chance as you dressed, the impromptu game of chess you played in the park one afternoon, the calming sound of their voice when you called them in crisis mode midday....Continue Reading @

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hope i find him soon....

Idydarling:
hope i find him soon....

I could be d one oh... lol

Never lose hope...WE FOUND LOVE IN A HOPELESS PLACE



To my Mr. FOREVER, holla at me anytime sha

TrapQueen77:

Never lose hope...WE FOUND LOVE IN A HOPELESS PLACE
To my Mr. FOREVER, holla at me anytime sha

I Holler
Edit: checks dp, nononono I hold my Holler.

Bigt4y:
I Holler
Edit: checks dp, nononono I hold my Holler.

Why na? u don't like bunny abi? Well, I do live in playboy's mansion... Tstz y ama bunny

TrapQueen77:




Why na? u don't like bunny abi? Well, I do live in playboy's mansion... Tstz y ama bunny

Haaa bunny ke?
How do I tell Iya Yinka that I'm in love with ehoro