Mhizjay:
Lol,you and this IQ ehn i dont even know mine sef... Lol,you and this IQ ehn i dont even know mine sef...

konklud22:

okay
buh we neva had any ish about material wateva
like i said, i was not perfect
but does it really justify d fact dat dey bleeped someone else?

konklud22:

lol
lemme ask u
av u ever begged ur guy not to cum even after almost two hours of passionate ssx
cos dats wat she says anytime I hit d damn spot so good .
just so u know
our sx life was a chart topper!!!
or do u need a video evidence ni
lol
buh even after all my jet li bed skills
wat did I get
cheating wit some 5mins dude

Cutehector:
hi, i'm doctor tee, and i'm here to discover your haikew.

Mhizjay:
whats your own haikew sir? Hope its not 36 like someone else...

nma24:
From all you've said, seems you have a tiny *Coughs* That should explain why they cheat on you

ednut1:
how can u be a dream guy, u wey still be student nd dey depend on parents hehehe. what ever a man can do a woman too can do beta, guys cheat pass dem

VikingsOO7:

I really dunno why You guys keep hammering on sex sex sex. A true and purposeful relationship goes beyond sex.

IMO I think You've just been unlucky in dating the wrong people. Maybe its high time You change Your orientation bout what You want in a woman? In doing that, You will make the right decisions...hopefully.

Good luck.

konklud22:
i wouldn't wanna bore you, so i would make it a quick one,
this is actually a personal experience from way back.. i was dating this babe during my school dayz, and i actually loved her cos she was very caring and just so accomodating. altho she had her flaws, buh i did love her!
she was always telling me i was her life, her this and that , and she not only said it, she acted it........ i would just say she was one of a kind.
then she bleeped up!!.
we were together somewhere in ogun state when she told me she would be visiting her aunt the folowing day, but she ended up going to lag to spend the weekend with a guy.
lo and behold, the guy she hooked up wit knew one of my guys, and he was telling my friend how well he enjoyed the "girl" from his school,
to be brief, my gee filled me in, and i just acted normal, hoping she would tell me enventually, buh she didnt and the rest became history..

then i had some other babes, buh they all did the same, and i had to cut dem off cos i cant stand my babe sleeping around. it depletes my ego.
the last babe was actually something else, her own cheating was a hit back to back!
i am not saying i was the perfect guy for them tho, buh i was far from bad.
u know,
its so funny how dey used to accuse me of being a flirt bla bla bla, but at d end dey are always the one to bleep up.
tho i av since moved on, i just want to know if deriz something i need to do, or dey are just so made to sleep around.
IMO- i think most ladies are just too confused to know what dey rilly want
lalasticlala

WackyJ1:
Women taking over the game!

Laveda:
So, you're the dream man, how you know that?
One thing I know for sure is, we've all got our flaws, don't act like you're just perfect..

I detest cheating anyway, but in this case where so many have been cheating on you, you need to sit and ask yourself questions if you really getting it right.

Cutehector:
lol. How r u

konklud22:

lol
na true sha,
I was still in school den, buh I still dey try my best.
buh y were dey now blabbing about me being d perfect guy for emm ??
dats y I said mayb dey were too confused

CindyeMerAld:
dream man ko,sleep man ni...
If u were really her dream man,nothing wld ve made her cheat on you...
At ur siggy,i concur..she is dating you cos she is foolish..#heart broken pus*y niccur.

WackyJ1:
What kinda of rubbish talk is this Vinshu saying?

The girl cheated and it's the guy's fault for not doing something right?
That's the problem with majority of your females. There must always be one exact way to handle them to make sure they don't cheat.

Either you give them, just the right amount of attention, or you give them money, or good sex or whatever and if you don't do that, they will Cheat.

There is no perfect guy out there. Forget all that nonsense about striving to perfection. At the end of the day she will get married to someone that is no more perfect than he is.
If there are things he lacks, why didn't she bring it up with him? Discuss and them adjust knowing that she too isn't perfect.

What do you mean by you weren't romantic enough?
How old are you?

You want him to be laying our a red carpet with roses when she goes on dates with him eveey single time?
The girl will still cheat!

konklud22:

lol
like your guys own abi
na dat cough go kee u
lol.

WackyJ1:
What kinda of rubbish talk is this Vinshu saying?

The girl cheated and it's the guy's fault for not doing something right?
That's the problem with majority of your females. There must always be one exact way to handle them to make sure they don't cheat.

Either you give them, just the right amount of attention, or you give them money, or good sex or whatever and if you don't do that, they will Cheat.

There is no perfect guy out there. Forget all that nonsense about striving to perfection. At the end of the day she will get married to someone that is no more perfect than he is.
If there are things he lacks, why didn't she bring it up with him? Discuss and them adjust knowing that she too isn't perfect.

What do you mean by you weren't romantic enough?
How old are you?

You want him to be laying our a red carpet with roses when she goes on dates with him eveey single time?
The girl will still cheat!

Mhizjay:
I am good and you?

Vinshu:
First, who confirmed that you are the dream man?

Do you communicate with her?

How often do you see her? Only when you have money to take her out? Or when you want to fvck?

Do you ask her questions? Do you have your eyes on her? Can she see you anytime she wish? Without you making 3 days arrangement?

Who loved who first? Did she even tell you she loved you? How did you fall in love ? What did she have? What do you have she fell in love with? What is her IQ? What is your own IQ?

What does she do? Where does she live? Do you know? Even if she is a student, are you guys living together? DO you observe her phone communications and social media? Is she even available on social media?

Did you love her or you lusted after her?

Answer the above questions then we can move forward.

If you cannot answer all at which you get stuck or "hang" in between, then sorry it's your fault she cheated.

Vinshu:


Why did the guy go ahead after hearing all that from her?

Also, maybe you were not romantic enough. It's not like I'm justifying her actions but you faulted somewhere. No one is perfect but we work towards perfection. And working towards perfection means locating our faults and fixing things to be better next time.

The way you handled Girl A and she cheated, if you handle Girl B same way, she would cheat too. It's not a women thing. It's you. Did you bother asking her why she did that? I guess not. Instead you come to nairaland

I know a guy that used force on his girl. As much as she hated his strict nature(no Facebook, no party, bla bla), she loved him still and no room to cheat. They are married now. At least his own worked for him. He may have been Mr Nice guy before and when it didn't work, he changed gear.

Vinshu:
First, who confirmed that you are the dream man?

Do you communicate with her?

How often do you see her? Only when you have money to take her out? Or when you want to fvck?

Do you ask her questions? Do you have your eyes on her? Can she see you anytime she wish? Without you making 3 days arrangement?

Who loved who first? Did she even tell you she loved you? How did you fall in love ? What did she have? What do you have she fell in love with? What is her IQ? What is your own IQ?

What does she do? Where does she live? Do you know? Even if she is a student, are you guys living together? DO you observe her phone communications and social media? Is she even available on social media?

Did you love her or you lusted after her?

Answer the above questions then we can move forward.

If you cannot answer all at which you get stuck or "hang" in between, then sorry it's your fault she cheated.

luminouz:

Why are u in a rush to always blame d guy? U know am before ni? He has explained his own...u just don't wanna admit that some girls are total bleeps! BTW...OP...u sure say Ur village people no dey Ur case sha!

schumastic:


if you like do all of that and top it with perfect sex life which is the icing on the cake she will still cheat if she wants to

ItsQuinn:
You are more than right, cheating is in our DNA, also in men's DNA, its normal and natural. Until humans learn to accept that, they will always be disappointed by their counterparts

konklud22:

Lol
DAT one na for past bro
Just dey share experience ni