telemapreye1:
You will get good girls in lagos

sukkot:
hehehehe. personally i think the nigga has control issues. he has napoleon complex. he is looking for a girl who will say YES SIR to him, and cook and wash his plates and wash his clothes and UK girls are not down with that. he needs to sort out his control issues and he will see many women to marry in the UK.

Lexusgs430:

Oya talk true, you too don dm?

emeraldknytt:
My brother, my only candid advice is to find someone to pop out kids for you. what I Am saying in essence is, don't think of getting married to true loving Nigerian lady or any woman who is gonna be a 100% with such period of check and see… cos our women only dance to the tune of Dallas and Nairas. The economy is hard and the HUSTLE IS REAL YOU are warned.







AJA (girls) Gberaaaa!!!!!!!!!!!!!

blackedwin:
For those of you calling ladies names, can you stand it if someone calls your sisters,nieces,daughters such? I bet you will fight to defend them,but y'all come here and spew rubbish.lots of kids in Nairaland nowadays.

Haute:


Are you a model? You type like one.

mrjojo:
Bros read this carefully,
You wouldn't find a genuine lady here in Nigeria withinin that time frame you got. Good women are really scarce in Nigeria this days. You will need alot of time for you to sort through the pretenders and the gold diggers. I would rather you network more in the UK and is it a must you marry a Nigerian? Widen your horizon Bro, don't be limited by nationality.

ibx1976:
My good people I am in a bit of a situation here and would like to hear from the community. I have lived the last few years in the UK and can say I am in a reasonably "settled" place in my life except for one thing: I don't have a wife and I am getting old!.

For the last few years, going by people's advice I thought it was best to cultivate a relationship here with someone here in the UK, learn about them and settle.

It has not worked out for me. Maybe its my luck, it has not quite worked with me with the ladies over here. I always end up with someone diametrically opposite to my goals and aspirations. The idea of marrying an Oyibo is even worse - things just did not work out in that direction either.

To compound the problem, I my job does not allow me much of a social life. I just cant make it happen without help.

On a friend's advice, I have been invited to come back home to naija and see how things can work out. I have therefore taken a months leave and am headed home for the next 1 month. Our plan is to visit a few good families and places to see if anything can materialise from that.

My people any advice on this? If you were in my shoes, how will you conduct this affair. What will you look out for. What will you avoid.

EkoErrands:


Pls if the girls there didn't cheat on you kuku marry them...and endure their luggage.the ones here will cheat on you and still give you luggage to carry. All of them except those that will not bash me for saying this secret of theirs are olosho.

I'm inside one 5yr relationship and It appears it has been an olosho relationship all along.

ItsQuinn:
Confirm .....Nigerian girls over der has lost their cultural values, all in the name of "I'm not in Nigeria anymore, I'm in the UK", some even talk back or shout at their parents, the Nigerian villiage girls in UK worse pass, I tell you. Speaking from experience

blackedwin:
For those of you calling ladies names, can you stand it if someone calls your sisters,nieces,daughters such? I bet you will fight to defend them,but y'all come here and spew rubbish.lots of kids in Nairaland nowadays.

Stupedinluv:
Who cares!

telemapreye1:
All of you are kukuma the same
Sorry sha

Fresia01:
I'm here honey..if u need me

sukkot:
i dont see it like that. a woman has to express herself. you cant keep someone down forever. if in expressing herself she is loquacious and pugnacious, then thats a problem. but nevertheless all that naija mentality of subservient woman is rubbish. if a woman has to pretend to be subservient, thats a problem, and if a man is expecting a subservient woman, thats a problem too. people should just be.

LuvU2:
Fantastic! yes i am a role model

jesusjewel1:



This is mean....
Are ladies baby-bags that you deep in and get what you want?
Or are we that evil?

Hhhaaannn!!!

Demigods666:


All the good girls have join gang.

Cutehector:
Pls stay where you are. Kidnappers are much in nigeria now.

ItsQuinn:
Good women are scarce everywhere

omosefeeguaibor:
And it is so ironic that majority of people replying this thread are guys but biko not all nigerian females are as you guys are painting them to be. @ OP it will be in your best interest to look for female that are within your territory in U.K there, i.e observe their culture and all and pick your choice there. after all the the devil you know is better than the angels you have no idea about, since we are talking about marriage here, please leave Nigerian guys to Nigerian girls, and foreign ladies to foreign guys. Except you my Goodman is hell bent on marrying a Nigerian girl, note then that nairalanders as far as I am concerned will not be the one to make choice for you, as always op the ball is in your court. Shine your eye

LuvU2:
hey