anonimi:
If you don't have children still, based on your old posts, you should seriously consider divorce.
You are taking the risk of having STDs, including HIV/AIDS, from him.
Ask yourself, why would you want to continue putting yourself in such risks deliberately

ItsQuinn:
Thats why there's something called condom ....she can get pregnant by artificial insermination if she finds out he's unclean in the nearest future or she could just divorce him if she can't take a hiv positive person as her husband. Depends on how much she loves him though

anonimi:


My dear, I used the word- risk, not so
You assume that he uses condoms ALL the time and properly with no LEAKAGE?
You are not taking into consideration some scheming oloshos who may want to hook him with pregnancy?

sisisioge:


Baby, I was just about to call you so you could advise her correctly. Thank you!

I actually have no words for her...don't know what to say. However, I remember a story of a family. The story is really real...

The husband was a serial cheat who defiled all reasons and interventions. Guy eventually got aids. He infected the wife and all the kids! That part of the lineage is no more now. I wish he had listened or she had divorced him eventually. Oloshilawonokunrin...them be SOB!

5minsmadness:


That's a tragedy. Op should protect herself first, educate him on the real threat of HIV, let him go for test and use a condom for the next six months after which he repeats the tests for confirmation.

5minsmadness:


That's a tragedy. Op should protect herself first, educate him on the real threat of HIV, let him go for test and use a condom for the next six months after which he repeats the tests for confirmation.

sunvick:
Bravo!! I like your tactics. Creating avenue to be distracting or disturbing him till his home..
Trust he would start seeing her as a nagging wife.

napa:
@5minsmadness, there are no kids yet, sex life is ok and both of us know I'm good looking because he knows i still get constant compliments for my good looks. I sincerely don't know what the issue is. I just feel he wants to explore and satisfy some fantasies but I'm getting emotionally hurt. I pity myself most times. It's only my mom that knows [/b]what is happening and she's been praying with me.[b] I'm a woman of few words, i hardly discuss my affairs with people.
@veave, no he doesn't beat me. There's no reason why he would do that. Our marriage is really somehow (i don't know if that's how other marriages are). I rarely ask him for money because i work in a well paid organisation, i don't disturb him for nothing. All i want is care and love, nothing more.

I'm from an average family of 3 children , he doesn't have any pressure from any members of my family and i definitely know it's not about the children that have not come, we've been on it from the first year of our marriage. This is really getting at me. I just felt like pouring out my mind.

ItsQuinn:
Then she should stop having sex with her husband until he's clean

Dyt:
Napa
Stay
The intelligent and most sensible ones have said it
Stay
Pray
Fast
Wear red lingerie
Do pole dancing
Wear costume
These are the things he's seeing outside
Do you give bj?
Do you swallow?
Give your anuus
Let him explore
Be a good wife
Cook
Clean

What else haven't I added ooo

Will think and then add more

onatisi:

When she gets infected with hiv will u pray and fast for her then?

sisisioge:


Baby, I was just about to call you so you could advise her correctly. Thank you!

I actually have no words for her...don't know what to say. However, I remember a story of a family. The story is really real...

The husband was a serial cheat who defiled all reasons and interventions. Guy eventually got aids. He infected the wife and all the kids! That part of the lineage is no more now. I wish he had listened or she had divorced him eventually. Oloshilawonokunrin...them be SOB!

sisisioge:
Baby, I was just about to call you so you could advise her correctly. Thank you!

I actually have no words for her...don't know what to say. However, I remember a story of a family. The story is really real...

The husband was a serial cheat who defiled all reasons and interventions. Guy eventually got aids. He infected the wife and all the kids! That part of the lineage is no more now. I wish he had listened or she had divorced him eventually. Oloshilawonokunrin...them be SOB!

RiloKiley:
How did he infect all the kids? He had sex with them or they were transfused with his HIV blood?
I'm sorry, but this your story sounds made up.

onatisi:

The op life is worth more than all these porn things u wrote. Infact wettin concern me sef. Make I go back to my politics and bitcon thread

RiloKiley:


How did he infect all the kids? He had sex with them or they were transfused with his HIV blood?
I'm sorry, but this your story sounds made up.

onatisi:
When she gets infected with hiv will u pray and fast for her then?
The op life is worth more than all these porn things u wrote. Infact wettin concern me sef. Make I go back to my politics and bitcon thread

Dyt:


Go where?
After you have asked her to stay?
You must stay here with her ooo

Is that porn?
I havent even asked if they watch it together

anonimi:


She was being SARCASTIC, I guess.

onatisi:
.

Dyt:


Will I know?


BTW how did you read the post?
Turn your device and read again

sisisioge:


Sweetheart, but you are new age o! Go and be sharing blades, needles and other sharp objects with an aids patient to test the accuracy of my story. It is well.

onatisi:
yea ,I later realised. But honestly I don't know why ppl like to suffer themselves all in the bid to look good to people or make others happy. If something doesn't make u happy just drop it and move on ,life is short

onatisi:
yea ,I later realised. But honestly I don't know why ppl like to suffer themselves all in the bid to look good to people or make others happy. If something doesn't make u happy just drop it and move on ,life is short

Dyt:


Kilofunny

anonimi:


Maybe the kids were conceived after he had contracted HIV but not yet developed into full blown AIDS, which may take up to 10 years.

onatisi:
yea ,I later realised. But honestly I don't know why ppl like to suffer themselves all in the bid to look good to people or make others happy. If something doesn't make u happy just drop it and move on ,life is short

onatisi:

But seriously speaking,you know I am right. I may have a harsh way of putting things but I am right. That man wont change. The dangers and cons far outweighs the pros. Even the bible says u can divorce based on adultery. If she has kids I wont even advice to leave because of the children. The problem with ppl is that they overlook many things when dating thinking they can correct or adjust them after marriage. The woman was one of the man several girlfriends before she married him and she knows but the mistake she made was thinking he will change after getting married to her.
Alternatively ,maybe she should start giving the man condoms and packing it into his bags when he is going out and make the man realize how hurt and painful it is for her to be doing that but that she just has to accept her fate and destiny because she loves him. Who knows maybe this will change him.

onatisi:
But seriously speaking,you know I am right. I may have a harsh way of putting things but I am right. That man wont change. The dangers and cons far outweighs the pros. Even the bible says u can divorce based on adultery. If she has kids I wont even advice to leave because of the children. The problem with ppl is that they overlook many things when dating thinking they can correct or adjust them after marriage. The woman was one of the man several girlfriends before she married him and she knows but the mistake she made was thinking he will change after getting married to her.
Alternatively ,maybe she should start giving the man condoms and packing it into his bags when he is going out and make the man realize how hurt and painful it is for her to be doing that but that she just has to accept her fate and destiny because she loves him. Who knows maybe this will change him.

VikingsOO7:

We live in a society where getting a divorce comes with some sort of stigma. We will rather pray fast and lament, than using our God giving brain in making simple decisions.