please I need an urgent advice please! my 20 year old niece is pregnant(my wife's niece).she married in April,though it was only her brideprice that has been paid,my wife was against the marriage because she was young and still in her 2nd year and we do help financially but her parents are in a hurry. Later they found out that her hubby is a wicked man according to stories they told me and they have decided to cancel the marriage. Now the problem is my niece is in my house for her 3months I. T and my wife has been complaining that she is lazy,whenever she comes back she will not ask if she could help, we have small kids and we work, her aunt will cook and she will serve herself, she has talked to her and even I have pleaded with her on this but haven't seen any changes, now we found out that she is pregnant,her mother is asking for her to stay and finish her I. T but my wife told her she can't cope with a first time mother on first trimester which is very tiring and her mother is a housewife so my wife is worried cos her sister is saying she didn't want to help her.her sister is 16years older than her. I suggested we should talk to her boss and then she will go to her parents. pls advice me cos i don't want my wife to have problems and worried?
Forgive me for long write-up and errors.

lalasticlala kindly move this to front page so that I can get more advice Pls, I hate problem.

MizMyColi:

Your wife might be reacting out of Jealousy which is understandable.

But if you both are able to help in any means possible including accommodating her for the time being or the whole Nine months, please do.

This might be the Universe's way of opening your wife's womb for even greater miracles.

She should not let the opportunity slip.

Let her make this sacrifice, and do so joyfully even as she reminds heaven that it is her wish to carry her own Child. I wish her well.

Do you mind explaining the highlighted?

MizMyColi:

Your wife might be reacting out of Jealousy which is understandable.

But if you both are able to help in any means possible including accommodating her for the time being or the whole Nine months, please do.

This might be the Universe's way of opening your wife's womb for even greater miracles.

She should not let the opportunity slip.

Let her make this sacrifice, and do so joyfully even as she reminds heaven that it is her wish to carry her own Child. I wish her well.

The write up says they've got children already

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MizMyColi:

Your wife might be reacting out of Jealousy which is understandable.
But if you both are able to help in any means possible including accommodating her for the time being or the whole Nine months, please do.
This might be the Universe's way of opening your wife's womb for even greater miracles.
She should not let the opportunity slip.
Let her make this sacrifice, and do so joyfully even as she reminds heaven that it is her wish to carry her own Child. I wish her well.

No,she is not, we are blessed with CHILDREN.

Op, this your story get as e be o. You have small kids, and your wife is trying to conceive? Whose kids are they?

Desdemona:
Op, this your story get as e be o. You have small kids, and your wife is trying to conceive? Whose kids are they?

our kids are still small in age and we are trying for the last baby by His grace.

Op, pls return her to where she came from. This situation is not your monkey! Let them say whatever they want to say, you wife already declared she can't cope. Wetin come remain? Remember that the person involved is your wife's relative o...so the issue isn't your monkey! Issue resolved.

sisisioge:
Op, pls return her to where she came from. This situation is not your monkey! Let them say whatever they want to say, you wife already declared she can't cope. Wetin come remain? Remember that the person involved is your wife's relative o...so the issue isn't your monkey! Issue resolved.

thanks a lot for your advice, but I can't stand seeing my wife worried that why I want to know if I am taking the right step.

Trying to conceive with kids? I don't get o

Zidjay:
Trying to conceive with kids? I don't get o

it means trying for another baby

If your wife says it's too much burden to keep a pregnant woman in the house,you could send her to her parents BUT support her.
I really don't think you are under any obligation to keep her in your house if you don't think you can handle it.

Is your wife having challenges trying to get pregnant again?

Barney11:

No,she is not, we are blessed with CHILDREN.

I actually read with sleepy eyes. I was moved to comment despite all odds cos of the pregnant girl.

I have seen enough cases to know that if not handled properly, things could go south. I wouldn't want to elaborate. But please help her. Help her to the best of your ability but try not to jeopardize the peace in your home.

Always remember that Wisdom is profitable to direct.

[quote author=thorpido post=49982039]If your wife says it's too much burden to keep a pregnant woman in the house,you could send her to her parents BUT support her.
I really don't think you are under any obligation to keep her in your house if you don't think you can handle it.
Is your wife having challenges trying to get pregnant again?

No, she is not.

Why not leave her for the 3 months IT and then she can go to her mother's place? I am sure they are looking at the fact that she is working and they don't want to disturb that. Pretend there isn't someone else in the house. Do your thing like she is not there.

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Why not leave her for the 3 months IT and then she can go to her mother's place? I am sure they are looking at the fact that she is working and they don't want to disturb that. Pretend there isn't someone else in the house. Do your thing like she is not there.

that is the problem, my wife can't cope with the stress that comes with the pregnancy especially at the early stage and the girl won't help the situation at all.