KvnqPrezo:
Good afternoon, My name is Cynthia, please I won't mention my location because of some reasons but i have a serious question to ask that is related to relationships and I think romanticpie will be best for my question, and please I need genuine answer, if possible publish this mail so that people can also contribute.

QUESTION: Is it bad if I ask a guy out?

"this is my reasons for asking this question, There's this guy in my area, I have always been crushing on him and I know he loves me but he is too shy to let his feelings out.

We are very close and do almost everything together but we are not dating tho some people is already suspecting we are dating.

I am seriously in love with him and I can't even stay for an hour without thinking of him, am so desperate that I want to let him know what I feel, I don't care if he rejects my proposal.

Please don't tell me to give him some time because we have been friends for almost 2years now and he has not even tell me he loves me even if he truly does.**
I can see he loves me and wants to date me but he doesn't know how to tell me, he is a shy guy and he hardly talks to girls but I'm already loosing my patience.

I even had some argument with my friend and she keep telling me to wait, this and that but I have waited for so long, I don't think I can wait anymore...

Please help, am so confused right now...
Thanks.."


Romanticpie Responded...

" I don't think it's right for you to ask him out even if he is a shy guy but it's still not write for you to ask him out.

Even if you have been friends and you're so close, that doesn't mean you can predict if he loves you. He might not have anything in his mind but you're thinking he does..

He will definitely ask you out if he truly loves and adore you even if he's shy.
I remember I used to be a shy guy then, but that doesn't stop me from saying my feelings even if he taked me time but I will surely make up my mind..

Your friend is telling you nothing but the truth.
Am a guy and I have experienced some girls asking me out but I always turn them down because I think they're not responsible and can easily fall for any other guy when we eventually start dating..

My dear any girl that ask a guy out will be disregarded and will definitely loose her respect especially if the guy declined your request.

I hope you'll take this advice and I will also share this mail to my blog for other people to advice...

Take care cythia!!! "
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If you're viewing this topic I believe you read this post from the beginning, so I will love to see your own contributions toward helping Cynthia..

Romantic Pie Poll.

GIRLS CAN YOU ASK A GUY OUT?? AND GUYS HOW WILL YOU REACT IF A GIRL ASK YOU OUT!
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Please Romance Landers your contributions will go a long way...
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Please also comment on my blog abeg (Lolz see as I dey beg una..)
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SOURCE:http://www.romanticpie.com/2016/10/is-it-wrong-for-girl-to-ask-guy-out.html

cc: Lalasticlala, please help me move it to FP

steppin:

If lala moves everything to the front page, there won't be any space for serious stuff.

steppin:

If lala moves everything to the front page, there won't be any space for serious stuff.

HQuadreal:
It a free world. what a man can do a woman can do better.

HQuadreal:

Na true you talk sha.

KvnqPrezo:
Like Seriously??

KvnqPrezo:

I go ban you

OBTSubtle:
Romanticipie is advising somebody and can't even differentiate write from right...

STFUareyouG0d:
Everybody on this thread should expect their 14 days minimum ban

Don't even beg me

HQuadreal:

Abeg start from me.
extend mine to "January 1 3050"

HQuadreal:

yh.

HQuadreal:

it a free world you can ban me.
Bcus you join money build nairaland abi ?

STFUareyouG0d:
seems you are stubborn.
Expect you full SIX MONTH BAN for daring me

KvnqPrezo:

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Na my uncle get am naa

STFUareyouG0d:
seems you are stubborn.

Expect you full SIX MONTH BAN for daring me

HQuadreal:

it a free world, go ahead.
six month is small I want to be banned forever.

OBTSubtle:
Romanticipie is advising somebody and can't even differentiate write from right...

HQuadreal:

still waiting to get banned ooo. make it snappy.

STFUareyouG0d:
Everybody on this thread should expect their 14 days minimum ban

Don't even beg me

KvnqPrezo:


Maybe its a mistake by me!!

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Please where?

KvnqPrezo:
See as I dey look you

sarahade:
Well i dont have a problem with asking a guy out. And i think you should ask him out and stop dying in silence. What's the worst thing that could happen? He will say no or the relationship wont work that happens all the time and the world wont change.

Be confident in your self that you are a woman worth being with and see how happy you will be if he loves you too

STFUareyouG0d:
just hold on. I'm extending it to 8 months

OBTSubtle:
Read from top

STFUareyouG0d:
iz like your brain is paining you

OBTSubtle:
Read from top