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Shame On Our Country: 10 Yr Old Chose Death Than Go Back To Nigeria. by AloyEmeka6: 5:11am On Oct 26, 2009 |
Deportation: 10-Year-old Nigerian girl attempts suicide in Britain From Tunde Oyedoyin, London A 10-year-old Nigerian girl, Adeoti Ogunsola, described as "charming," by her head teacher, attempted taking her life last on Sunday, as Immigration officials were making plans to deport her and her mother from Britain for the second time this year. http://odili.net/news/source/2009/oct/25/13.html A couple of months ago, Miss Ogunsola, a pupil at the St. Mary's Catholic Primary School, Gillingham, Kent, was detained at the Yarl's Wood immigration centre in Bedfordshire, before being released. According to Friday's edition of the London Evening Standard, which featured the story, the 10-year old made the attempt on her life at the Tinsley House Immigration removal centre at Gatwick airport, where she was detained alongside her mother, Clementina, who was asleep at the time. The paper also disclosed that Ogunsola, who was taken from the custody of her aunt and brought to the removal centre on October 15, eventually won a last minute legal battle on Thursday, when a High Court Judge stopped the family's deportation. However, both mother and daughter had been returned to detention, pending a judicial review next Wednesday. Though the paper didn't make it clear why Miss Ogunsola attempted the suicide, quoting a child psychotherapist's report, it stated that the girl's "mental state would deteriorate if she was detained again and she might attempt (again) to kill herself." But lobbyists, including Bernadette Long, the head teacher of her school, had campaigned that the pair should be allowed to remain in the country. "Adeoti is a charming, friendly, and intelligent little girl. She is passionate about her education and hopes to become a doctor," Long said, in a glowing testimony. But she noted that the detentions had started to take their toll on the aspiring doctor. "Her recent experiences while being detained have impacted on her and she has become very anxious about what will happen if she goes to Nigeria," Long said. However, the UK Border Agency doesn't seem to give a hoot about the girl's condition. David Wood, on behalf of the Agency said: "When the independent courts find a family has no need for protection, we expect them to return home. "If they refuse to leave, we have no choice but to enforce their removal and this can include detaining children, but only as a last resort." |
Re: Shame On Our Country: 10 Yr Old Chose Death Than Go Back To Nigeria. by Kobojunkie: 5:17am On Oct 26, 2009 |
YIKES!!! wey the papa?? |
Re: Shame On Our Country: 10 Yr Old Chose Death Than Go Back To Nigeria. by AloyEmeka6: 5:20am On Oct 26, 2009 |
Is my country such a hell hole that the girl opted for suicide than come back home? |
Re: Shame On Our Country: 10 Yr Old Chose Death Than Go Back To Nigeria. by Seun(m): 5:29am On Oct 26, 2009 |
She attempted suicide because she was tired of being in detention. Her mother should stop putting her through all this unnecessary stress. |
Re: Shame On Our Country: 10 Yr Old Chose Death Than Go Back To Nigeria. by SeanT21(f): 5:38am On Oct 26, 2009 |
Nigeria has its faults but its not that bad that someone has to choose death then go back home. |
Re: Shame On Our Country: 10 Yr Old Chose Death Than Go Back To Nigeria. by babapupa: 6:13am On Oct 26, 2009 |
Nigerian hell hole? Didn't the article opined that it wasn't clear why she attempted suicide? Another negatively loaded alarmist thread designed to needlessly trash and smear. What else is new? Negative Calvary is on patrol. |
Re: Shame On Our Country: 10 Yr Old Chose Death Than Go Back To Nigeria. by AloyEmeka6: 6:16am On Oct 26, 2009 |
Don't sweat yet; Nobody is trashing Fashola. If trashing your country will make the govt wake up, I will not relent from doing it incessantly. |
Re: Shame On Our Country: 10 Yr Old Chose Death Than Go Back To Nigeria. by udezue(m): 6:27am On Oct 26, 2009 |
Nigeria na hell hole. Poor girl. |
Re: Shame On Our Country: 10 Yr Old Chose Death Than Go Back To Nigeria. by babapupa: 6:39am On Oct 26, 2009 |
Trashing your country based on genuine grievance is one thing, sensationalism and deceptively twisting news articles and manufacturing your own side story just to needlessly trash your own country is another. It's called dishonesty and flawed sense of judgment. |
Re: Shame On Our Country: 10 Yr Old Chose Death Than Go Back To Nigeria. by Kobojunkie: 6:45am On Oct 26, 2009 |
Roflmao!!!! Talk of Kettle calling Pot black !!!! |
Re: Shame On Our Country: 10 Yr Old Chose Death Than Go Back To Nigeria. by tamme: 6:48am On Oct 26, 2009 |
;d |
Re: Shame On Our Country: 10 Yr Old Chose Death Than Go Back To Nigeria. by chosen04(f): 1:16pm On Oct 26, 2009 |
babapupa: But it is not unconnected with the intention to deport her to Nigeria. Thus, We all know the reason. |
Re: Shame On Our Country: 10 Yr Old Chose Death Than Go Back To Nigeria. by chrisical(m): 2:27pm On Oct 26, 2009 |
Wetin concern me for there,let her do her worst.Naija for life |
Re: Shame On Our Country: 10 Yr Old Chose Death Than Go Back To Nigeria. by babapupa: 3:31pm On Oct 26, 2009 |
You just arrived at and manufactured your own conclusion, you don't know why and the article clearly stated that they don't know why she attempted suicide. Abi NL folks have access to her brain? May be she don't wanna leave her friends, her school or even live with her mother. You just don't know. Are you in her head or have you interviewed her? The article didn't say anything about her disliking or hating Nigeria. And the thread starter clearly stated his intentions which is to bash naija by any means necessary hence the manufactured conclusion and bogus title. Drawing your own conclusions and overreaching beyond what's in the news article doesn't mean you're right or your facts are straight. |
Re: Shame On Our Country: 10 Yr Old Chose Death Than Go Back To Nigeria. by nex(m): 3:43pm On Oct 26, 2009 |
When claustrophobic people are locked up in small spaces for extended periods, they tend to want to take their own lives. What exactly has Nigeria to do with this? |
Re: Shame On Our Country: 10 Yr Old Chose Death Than Go Back To Nigeria. by Nobody: 3:44pm On Oct 26, 2009 |
She's a very troubled child . . and a spoilt brat! |
Re: Shame On Our Country: 10 Yr Old Chose Death Than Go Back To Nigeria. by jaybee3(m): 3:45pm On Oct 26, 2009 |
Why shame on Nigeria? they probably trained her to dramatize like that. |
Re: Shame On Our Country: 10 Yr Old Chose Death Than Go Back To Nigeria. by Kobojunkie: 3:46pm On Oct 26, 2009 |
When claustophobic people WHAT?? Dude, no need to MAKE UP STUFF about people you have no understanding of. I happen to HATE being in tight spaces and hate HEIGHTS. That don't make me suicidal. And seriously never heard of suicide attributed to fear of being packed in a tight space. gob!! People who are afraid of small spaces(especially cause they feel they would DIE IN THERE) are not suicidal. And I didn't know detention centers has TINY SPACES for detainees. |
Re: Shame On Our Country: 10 Yr Old Chose Death Than Go Back To Nigeria. by Nobody: 3:53pm On Oct 26, 2009 |
did she sincerely attempt suicide, or could this be a cynical and calculated attempt at (prompted by her mother) to gain public sympathy and asylum? |
Re: Shame On Our Country: 10 Yr Old Chose Death Than Go Back To Nigeria. by Nobody: 4:00pm On Oct 26, 2009 |
misleading thread title, very deceptive thread and of course the usual 419 OP. The girl said her two brothers were killed by a Nigerian cult in Nigeria, hence she doesnt want to go back home because she feels this cult is targetting her family. although of course this cult can also get her abroad if they're so inclined. With her suicidal fears, they've gotten her already. I've addressed this matter on another thread but of course aloy emeka and his ilk would never let an opportunity like this pass them by. |
Re: Shame On Our Country: 10 Yr Old Chose Death Than Go Back To Nigeria. by chic2pimp(m): 4:04pm On Oct 26, 2009 |
jay bee:My thoughts exactly. The parents must have told her to act like so to avoid being deported. |
Re: Shame On Our Country: 10 Yr Old Chose Death Than Go Back To Nigeria. by AloyEmeka6: 4:04pm On Oct 26, 2009 |
What is deceptive about the title?. Should children be afraid to go home in a country where things work very well including security?. This little girl is scared to hell about going back to Nigeria and thats what it is. |
Re: Shame On Our Country: 10 Yr Old Chose Death Than Go Back To Nigeria. by AloyEmeka6: 4:05pm On Oct 26, 2009 |
oyb: Could be. Nigerians can perform wonders. |
Re: Shame On Our Country: 10 Yr Old Chose Death Than Go Back To Nigeria. by Nobody: 4:05pm On Oct 26, 2009 |
Aloy~Emeka: who killed her two brothers? wasnt it people like you? stop trying to trivialize her situation. |
Re: Shame On Our Country: 10 Yr Old Chose Death Than Go Back To Nigeria. by AloyEmeka6: 4:08pm On Oct 26, 2009 |
I do not have time to engage in meaningless discourse this morning. If people like me killed her brothers, it doesn't make them any less Nigerians. The bone of contention here is whether Nigeria is a hell hole or not. |
Re: Shame On Our Country: 10 Yr Old Chose Death Than Go Back To Nigeria. by Kobojunkie: 4:17pm On Oct 26, 2009 |
If it is the case that two of her own brothers were killed by people IN NIGERIA, and you accept that she probably fears the same monsters might come after her as well. Does it then not make sense to ASSUME that she the gal tried to commit suicide out of fear that if deported back to Nigeria, the monsters will get her? Isn’t this saying the same thing the title does in this case? |
Re: Shame On Our Country: 10 Yr Old Chose Death Than Go Back To Nigeria. by Nobody: 4:22pm On Oct 26, 2009 |
http://www.guardian.co.uk/uk/2009/oct/21/detained-nigerian-girl-strangle-immigration A 10-year-old Nigerian girl placed in immigration detention for a second time – despite warnings from experts that she might try to kill herself if she was incarcerated again – has been found trying to strangle herself. the claims are BS - the mother is 35 - how old would these two sons that were 'killed by cult members' have been?' then the dubious FGM claims its just another i must escape from Nigeria scam that will wind up making nigerians look even more dubious - |
Re: Shame On Our Country: 10 Yr Old Chose Death Than Go Back To Nigeria. by nex(m): 4:26pm On Oct 26, 2009 |
@Kobojunkie like you said earlier, you didn't know. Simple. |
Re: Shame On Our Country: 10 Yr Old Chose Death Than Go Back To Nigeria. by Nobody: 4:28pm On Oct 26, 2009 |
Kobojunkie: what aloy emeka and the usual NLers are trying to make it look like is the girl opted to kill herself rather than experience poor electricity, no running water, bad roads, etc. In short, that the girl is suicidal because of bad amenities in Nigeria. However, she said her two brothers were killed by a Nigerian cult. That statement needs to be considered in her case. Does she have two brothers who really died under mysterious circumstances? I dont think she'd lie about something like that. If she is, then I'll go with what the rest of you are saying. |
Re: Shame On Our Country: 10 Yr Old Chose Death Than Go Back To Nigeria. by Nobody: 4:30pm On Oct 26, 2009 |
oyb: the girl is young, thats why she's processing information in this manner. Her mother may have a better grip of things. The FGM allegation is the only weird thing here- they're just desperate not to go home, I guess. However, even within Nigeria itself there are countless people who never visit their villages out of fear. Generational hostilities and all that. |
Re: Shame On Our Country: 10 Yr Old Chose Death Than Go Back To Nigeria. by Kobojunkie: 4:43pm On Oct 26, 2009 |
@Oyb, what has the age of the mother to do with the story? You mean it is not possible for a woman of that age to have 3 or more kids or something? I really don't get the rationale behind your post there. Also, aren't we assuming this Adeoti woman is an educated woman? |
Re: Shame On Our Country: 10 Yr Old Chose Death Than Go Back To Nigeria. by AloyEmeka6: 4:48pm On Oct 26, 2009 |
Kobojunkie: We Nigerians have a way of looking for any reason to remain in denial. Bottom line is that this girl and her family loathes Nigeria and I am 99% sure its because of living standards and not any cult or FGM. I wouldn't be surprised like OYB said if she staged the suicide attempt. |
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