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11 Female Struggles Girls Go Through That Men Will Never Understand by dimexy247(m): 4:57pm On Oct 26, 2016
http://omgvoice.com/lifestyle/female-struggles/

Sometimes I wonder how life would have unfolded had I been born a boy. The female struggles are sometimes too much. Some, very petty … yet feel like freaking Hiroshima!
Here are female struggles that girls go through almost everyday that men will never understand:

If you missed my previous post on the the men's struggle click here to learn, https://www.nairaland.com/3430505/9-struggles-men-go-through

1. High heels
They look great but the toes feel like they’re constipated. And yes, someone should start online lessons on how to walk in heels.

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Re: 11 Female Struggles Girls Go Through That Men Will Never Understand by dimexy247(m): 4:59pm On Oct 26, 2016
2. Periods
Whoa! Where do I start with this? This is the mother of all female struggles, from painful cramps to mood swings to that huge pimple that appears on the forehead…and thank God for the inventor of tampons. Wearing a pad on a hot day is like a punishment, it almost feels like you’re wearing a warm, wet diaper and you constantly have to keep wondering if your clothes are ‘safe’ every time you sneeze, even worse when you’re wearing white clothes when it’s that time of the month.

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Re: 11 Female Struggles Girls Go Through That Men Will Never Understand by dimexy247(m): 5:04pm On Oct 26, 2016
3. Having to walk around with a purse all day
Hey we wish we could walk hands free like the men. But we need some girly essentials in our everyday lives and we are forced to carry our dear bags like they’re our bffs every where we go. That’s not fun!

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Re: 11 Female Struggles Girls Go Through That Men Will Never Understand by dimexy247(m): 5:05pm On Oct 26, 2016
4. Getting ready for an event
Yeah we take ages cause we have to make sure that we look our best. Even worse, when you text your girl “What are you wearing?” and her reply determines whether or not you’ll start ironing that wet dress outside…cause it’s your favorite. Worse still, thinking you look your best only to ask your roommate, siblings or boyfriend “how do I look?”, and they give you a funny look, after which you go back to square one

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Re: 11 Female Struggles Girls Go Through That Men Will Never Understand by baby124: 5:06pm On Oct 26, 2016
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Re: 11 Female Struggles Girls Go Through That Men Will Never Understand by dimexy247(m): 5:06pm On Oct 26, 2016
5. Yeast infections
Do you know how embarrassing and uncomfortable it is to wake up with an itchy vagina?! Or how expensive Gynecologists are? Or how embarrassing it is to spread your legs for the doctor? Or having to wonder whether the secretions you have are normal or not, all this, just because the PH level down there changed or because we are stressed or some bullshit like that. SMH

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Re: 11 Female Struggles Girls Go Through That Men Will Never Understand by dimexy247(m): 5:08pm On Oct 26, 2016
6. Dealing with team mafisi
Hearing things such as “ Sista.. .” “ Cheki hiyo wezere jo” whenever you pass by a group of idle men

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Re: 11 Female Struggles Girls Go Through That Men Will Never Understand by dimexy247(m): 5:10pm On Oct 26, 2016
7. Orgasms
We have all had to fake one or two cause we needed it to end like ASAP! Go figure …

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Re: 11 Female Struggles Girls Go Through That Men Will Never Understand by dimexy247(m): 5:11pm On Oct 26, 2016
8. Pregnancy
Yeah … I bet men can only imagine what it’s like having a life growing inside you and carrying it around for 9 months. Or the struggle of trying not to get pregnant and figuring out which birth control works best for you or why the one you’re currently using is making you fat or the struggle of buying an emergency pill on a Sunday morning and the pharmacy ladies are looking at you with a judge-y look.

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Re: 11 Female Struggles Girls Go Through That Men Will Never Understand by dimexy247(m): 5:12pm On Oct 26, 2016
9. Added expenses We have to buy make-up, and yes we need that 20th pair of shoes …

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Re: 11 Female Struggles Girls Go Through That Men Will Never Understand by dimexy247(m): 5:14pm On Oct 26, 2016
10. Hair
From the itchy weave to getting scared about going au naturel or trying a new look or a new weave or braid and crossing your fingers that you don’t end up looking like a walking disaster. And let’s not even get started about having to shave all the time and in the weirdest of places. Or the struggle of not wearing a bikini because you haven’t shaved or passing on an intimate sesh with your boo cause you have an amazon down there …

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Re: 11 Female Struggles Girls Go Through That Men Will Never Understand by dimexy247(m): 5:15pm On Oct 26, 2016
11. The struggle of nail polishing your weaker hand which goes something like this …












But you know what? We still run the world …

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Re: 11 Female Struggles Girls Go Through That Men Will Never Understand by dimexy247(m): 5:17pm On Oct 26, 2016
La, lala, lalasticlala, where are thou? Move this to the other room cheesy

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Re: 11 Female Struggles Girls Go Through That Men Will Never Understand by Young03(m): 5:20pm On Oct 26, 2016
Girls na true?

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Re: 11 Female Struggles Girls Go Through That Men Will Never Understand by Haywhymido(m): 5:26pm On Oct 26, 2016
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Re: 11 Female Struggles Girls Go Through That Men Will Never Understand by Audray(f): 5:37pm On Oct 26, 2016
What is this naw?
Nail polish and high are probs?
What happened to
*Oppressive cooking law
*The "Smile you are a woman" phrase
*You can't do this or that cos ur a woman
*Always talk gently
*Don't ask a guy u like out if not u are an ashawo
*Doing all the chores is naturally ur duty
*Suffer quietly
Blah blah blah
It's too much sef

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Re: 11 Female Struggles Girls Go Through That Men Will Never Understand by TerrorSquad147: 6:01pm On Oct 26, 2016
hmmm....as for the thing above me, no comment

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Re: 11 Female Struggles Girls Go Through That Men Will Never Understand by Nobody: 6:03pm On Oct 26, 2016
I've never had yeast infection in my life undecided
dimexy247:
5. Yeast infections
Do you know how embarrassing and uncomfortable it is to wake up with an itchy vagina?! Or how expensive Gynecologists are? Or how embarrassing it is to spread your legs for the doctor? Or having to wonder whether the secretions you have are normal or not, all this, just because the PH level down there changed or because we are stressed or some bullshit like that. SMH

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Re: 11 Female Struggles Girls Go Through That Men Will Never Understand by citizenjuwon(m): 6:09pm On Oct 26, 2016
With all this wahala how women brain wan take settle for critical thinking? Worst still una go still carry that same brain enter hot drier.........
Women ♀

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Re: 11 Female Struggles Girls Go Through That Men Will Never Understand by lilmax(m): 6:24pm On Oct 26, 2016
seriously where are the struggles?still waiting for it

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Re: 11 Female Struggles Girls Go Through That Men Will Never Understand by Mznaett: 6:38pm On Oct 26, 2016
That nail part really got me rolling on the floorgrin

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Re: 11 Female Struggles Girls Go Through That Men Will Never Understand by daewoorazer(m): 7:25pm On Oct 26, 2016
TrapQueen77 you need some questions to answer boo

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Re: 11 Female Struggles Girls Go Through That Men Will Never Understand by Nobody: 7:37pm On Oct 26, 2016
ItsQuinn:
I've never had yeast infection in my life undecided
Its either you are lying or you don't know you have it cos it have not manifest itself yet.

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Re: 11 Female Struggles Girls Go Through That Men Will Never Understand by Nobody: 7:51pm On Oct 26, 2016
Ahan?! Is it by force to have it grin....because you have it doesn't mean every girl has it. I get my pvssy checked once in a while by a gynachologist, and I'm telling you I've never had it and I will never have it. I take good care of my pvssy smiley
Pandorabox:
Its either you are lying or you don't know you have it cos it have not manifest itself yet.

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Re: 11 Female Struggles Girls Go Through That Men Will Never Understand by Nobody: 8:08pm On Oct 26, 2016
ItsQuinn:
Ahan?! Is it by force to have it grin....because you have it doesn't mean every girl has it. I get my pvssy checked once in a while by a gynachologist, and I'm telling you I've never had it and I will never have it. I take good care of my pvssy smiley
And who told you I have it?

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Re: 11 Female Struggles Girls Go Through That Men Will Never Understand by Nobody: 8:11pm On Oct 26, 2016
Pandorabox:
And who told you I have it?
You sounded like you've had yeast infection before with the way you replied

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Re: 11 Female Struggles Girls Go Through That Men Will Never Understand by KillerBeauty(f): 9:02pm On Oct 26, 2016
What's yeast infection? Is it as STD?

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Re: 11 Female Struggles Girls Go Through That Men Will Never Understand by Missyetty(f): 11:38pm On Oct 26, 2016
God! I hate that no 2, sometimes it seems like an oven is down there especially on hot sunny day...women wahala is just too much

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Re: 11 Female Struggles Girls Go Through That Men Will Never Understand by dimexy247(m): 2:29am On Oct 27, 2016
ItsQuinn:
I've never had yeast infection in my life undecided


Really? undecided Sounds great but a thorough check up would have been better, I think grin

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Re: 11 Female Struggles Girls Go Through That Men Will Never Understand by Mimzyy(f): 3:24am On Oct 27, 2016
Is it by force to put on heels. Hian. Who sent you. If you see me and you don't like me in my flats, swerveeee. grin

I can relate with some though. Nice one Op wink

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Re: 11 Female Struggles Girls Go Through That Men Will Never Understand by mysticgal(f): 5:05am On Oct 27, 2016
KillerBeauty:
What's yeast infection? Is it as STD?
No, a yeast May not be STD, it happens when there is an hormone imbalance.
Yeast makes your vagina itch you, I think the infection gets to me when I sit on that very wrong toilet seat undecided, eat too much garlic lipsrsealed, overstayed pad, clean from my anus to vagina, instead of the other way round or mistakenly use soap or Dettol to wash my vagina when bathing and sitting on dirty seats embarassed
The thing can make you scratch for Africa.... And you wii be catching fun scratching, till you stop and hear the devil laughing at you because, the way e go pepper you? Chai! Women suffer sad
Once you've got a syndrome of such, please rush to your gyne to avoid something going wrong in future... I use One drug like that that looks like tampon(just saw it in my drug closet. It's called mycoten(cotrimazone) by DGF) , or you could get clean water that is hot put it in a big paint bucket, or a nice bucket that's strong. pull off,and then sit on the bucket, (not the water) and let the steam of the hot water do some magic(it also works if you feel your vagina smells) then the last I learnt in school is; get a clove of fresh garlic, get a thread, preferably the one used for sewing, and then remove the shell of that garlic and create a tiny space for the thread in the garlic, tie up the thread in the garlic and leave a good amount of the thread to hang freely, then insert the fresh garlic in your vagina with the thread hanging outside to make removal easy(note:it would be peppery like).
I also advise, you try all those above, out, at night when you've bathed and are about sleeping. Once you remove the tampon like drug or garlic in the morning, you'll see all the yeast,that would accompany them out......... But please, your gyne, comes first. Please.

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Re: 11 Female Struggles Girls Go Through That Men Will Never Understand by Berbierklaus(f): 5:13am On Oct 27, 2016
mysticgal:

No, a yeast is May not be STD, it happens when when there is a hormone imbalance.
Yeast makes your vagina itch you, I think the infection gets me when I sit on that very wrong toilet seat undecided, eat too much garlic lipsrsealed, overstayed pad, clean from my anus to vagina, instead of the other way round or mistakenly use soap or Dettol to wash my vagina when bathing and sitting on dirty seats embarassed
The thing can make you scratch for Africa.... And you wii be catching fun scratching, till you stop and hear the devil laughing at you because, the way e go pepper you? Chai! Women suffer sad
Once you've got a syndrome of such, please rush to your gyne to avoid something going wrong in future... I use One drug like that that looks like tampon, or you could get clean water that is hot put it in a big paint bucket, or a nice bucket that's strong. pull off,and then sit on the bucket, (not the water) and let the steam of the hot water do some magic(it also works if you feel your vagina smells) then the last I learnt in school is; get a clove of fresh garlic, get a thread, preferably the one used for sewing, and then remove the shell of that garlic and create a tiny space for the thread in the garlic, tie up the thread in the garlic and leave a good amount of the thread to hang freely, then insert the fresh garlic in your vagina with thread hanging outside to make removal easy(note:it would be peppery like).
I also advise, you try all those above, out, at night when you've bathed and are about sleeping. Once you remove the tampon like drug or garlic in the morning, you'll see all the yeast,that would accompany them out......... But please, your gyne, comes first. Please.
Wow I learnt something cool

make this into a thread

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