Hi all,

Please dear nairalanders help get me out of this.
I really don't find joy going to church anymore like I used to do. Despite living with a pastor... I'm always at home after they've left for church, masturbating. Whenever I'm done I always hate myself and I've always promised not to go back into it but seems it's not what I can control myself.

Please matured minds only. I've never been a saint but I've not always been like this either. Throughout this year I've been to church like 5 times and I really want to change but just don't know how to.

And this masturbation of a thing is the biggest issue I have in my life. Almost lost my eyes once. Pls

seun, lalasticlala your help needed here

Don't bother, just embrace it. Use the spare time do other stuffs like read, play game or the other stuff you do a lot.

who church epp....




as God don dey ordain school fees these days.....

sylvar02:
Hi all,

Please dear nairalanders help get me out of this.
I really don't find joy going to church anymore like I used to do. Despite living with a pastor... I'm always at home after they've left for church, masturbating. Whenever I'm done I always hate myself and I've always promised not to go back into it but seems it's not what I can control myself.

Please matured minds only. I've never been a saint but I've not always been like this either. Throughout this year I've been to church like 5 times and I really want to change but just don't know how to.

And this masturbation of a thing is the biggest issue I have in my life. Almost lost my eyes once. Pls

What do you do for a living? Because if you are jobless, it is a fertile ground for masturbation. Try engaging yourself in something meaningful and that catches your interests. Your interests may be reading, hanging out with friends and family etc. Also, avoid any material or movie that may want to arouse you sexually. Stay clear from every form of pornography. Engage your mind in thinking of how to improve yourself mentally. Above all, ask the Holy Spirit for help.
As for not going to church, it's a trick of the devil to completely ruin your spiritual life.Stay close to God and build up your spiritual life. It will help you a lot. Stay Blessed.

Its not a spiritual problem , its ur mind .
U are addicted to pornography. Change ur fone to Nokia torchlight and always force urself to church and join a unit in d church that will mandate ur constant presence .

solpat:



What do you do for a living? Because if you are jobless, it is a fertile ground for masturbation. Try engaging yourself in something meaningful and that catches your interests. Your interests may be reading, hanging out with friends and family etc. Also, avoid any material or movie that may want to arouse you sexually. Stay clear from every form of pornography. Engage your mind in thinking of how to improve yourself mentally. Above all, ask the Holy Spirit for help.
As for not going to church, it's a trick of the devil to completely ruin your spiritual life.Stay close to God and build up your spiritual life. It will help you a lot. Stay Blessed.

I work bro Mondays to Saturdays. Only on Sundays that when I do this. and most times after work at night.

haywire07:
Its not a spiritual problem , its ur mind .
U are addicted to pornography. Change ur fone to Nokia torchlight and always force urself to church and join a unit in d church that will mandate ur constant presence .

This thing happen more like a reflex. Takes me no time at all to start. and as for the Indecency part I'm addicted no lies. but I just want to stop. I've tried so many times. I'll stop for maybe three to four months then I'll find myself doing it again. TX killing...

resocorp:
Don't bother, just embrace it. Use the spare time do other stuffs like read, play game or the other stuff you do a lot.

Did you say embrace? I bet u never tried it and if you've tried means God helped u and you were able to stop. This is something I've been fighting for close to four years now

sylvar02:



I work bro Mondays to Saturdays. Only on Sundays that when I do this. and most times after work at night.

Do you like to read or watch movies? Try doing that to keep mind from focusing on anything sexual that may prompt you to masturbate. On Sundays, try all possible means to be in church. The Word of God helps a lot.
Do you sleep alone in the bedroom? This is also an opportunity to masturbate because 99% of masturbators seek for privacy to masturbate. Try as much as possible to be in the company of people especially family and friends that can help your spiritual life

sylvar02:



Did you say embrace? I bet u never tried it and if you've tried means God helped u and you were able to stop. This is something I've been fighting for close to four years now

Four years? I know someone that was involved in the act for 19 years

First of all...every is single guy has masturbated at least once before.
Second of all, they chat a lot of shi¡t in church, hence your lack of interest.
Third of all, get a girlfriend. A nice, coded and understanding one. Not this nonsense we de manage for Abuja.

Now you need discipline.
You need strength. Just don't masturbate. It's gonna be hard, but this is how your gonna define your manhood.
As for the church part, you need to find your God.
Not your pastor's God.
Not your family's God.
Not your mama's God.
Your God.
If you're having a problem with that look for the closest Catholic Church.
Your welcome.

solpat:


Do you like to read or watch movies? Try doing that to keep mind from focusing on anything sexual that may prompt you to masturbate. On Sundays, try all possible means to be in church. The Word of God helps a lot.
Do you sleep alone in the bedroom? This is also an opportunity to masturbate because 99% of masturbators seek for privacy to masturbate. Try as much as possible to be in the company of people especially family and friends that can help your spiritual life

Thanks for this bro

solpat:



Four years? I know someone that was involved in the act for 19 years

Four years might even be more intensive than that 19 you just said. I just want to stop it's bad I know but it'll keep getting it's way into my head every now and then

Einl:
First of all...every is single guy has masturbated at least once before.
Second of all, they chat a lot of shi¡t in church, hence your lack of interest.
Third of all, get a girlfriend. A nice, coded and understanding one. Not this nonsense we de manage for Abuja.

Now you need discipline.
You need strength. Just don't masturbate. It's gonna be hard, but this is how your gonna define your manhood.
As for the church part, you need to find your God.
Not your pastor's God.
Not your family's God.
Not your mama's God.
Your God.
If you're having a problem with that look for the closest Catholic Church.
Your welcome.

Cos I have a girlfriend.

sylvar02:


Cos I have a girlfriend.

Hope say no be all these Deeper Life girls where no go allow you see bra?