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My 5 - Month Old Relationship Is Now So Boring. I Need Advise. by deEntrepreneur(m): 9:36pm On Nov 06, 2016
We met in 2014 in school, we started dating 5 months ago. Our frienship ended up in a relationship. all was so lit when we started. Love was in the air. She's my first love though. I was so much in love. It was so intresting and lively. Until few weeks ago, we don't seem to flow like we do before. Though we talk, joke and all. But, I've began to lose intrest and I don't even know why.


What do I do to make the relationship lively again.

A new-bie/Novice needs some advise here please.
Re: My 5 - Month Old Relationship Is Now So Boring. I Need Advise. by firstking01(m): 9:38pm On Nov 06, 2016
Start doing those things you were doing in the beginning again.

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Re: My 5 - Month Old Relationship Is Now So Boring. I Need Advise. by StupidYorubaFool: 9:39pm On Nov 06, 2016
deEntrepreneur:
We met in 2014 in school, we started dating 5 months ago. Our frienship ended up in a relationship. all was so lit when we started. Love was in the air. She's my first love though. I was so much in love. It was so intresting and lively. Until few weeks ago, we don't seem to flow like we do before. Though we talk, joke and all. But, I've began to lose intrest and I don't even know why.


What do I do to make the relationship lively again.

A new-bie/Novice needs some advise here please.
have you slept with her
Re: My 5 - Month Old Relationship Is Now So Boring. I Need Advise. by Nobody: 9:41pm On Nov 06, 2016
StupidYorubaFool:
have you slept with her

undecided

Is that the solution?
Re: My 5 - Month Old Relationship Is Now So Boring. I Need Advise. by natsuDragneel: 9:41pm On Nov 06, 2016
You might just be going through a rough patch
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Or your "love" for each other can't get you anywhere past friendship
Re: My 5 - Month Old Relationship Is Now So Boring. I Need Advise. by Florblu(f): 9:42pm On Nov 06, 2016
It wasn't love you had at first I think it is Infatuation

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Re: My 5 - Month Old Relationship Is Now So Boring. I Need Advise. by DaySpringer: 9:49pm On Nov 06, 2016
Action begat Love. Do things as if you're in love and then the feelings will flow.

By the way, It's most likely that you're dissatisfied and you want more. What do you feel you're lacking in the relationship and what are the things that are catching your eyes out there?

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Re: My 5 - Month Old Relationship Is Now So Boring. I Need Advise. by femooshad(m): 9:52pm On Nov 06, 2016
Florblu:
It wasn't love you had at first I think it is Infatuation


That a relationship is not always fun is reality! Doesn't define love
Re: My 5 - Month Old Relationship Is Now So Boring. I Need Advise. by Nobody: 9:57pm On Nov 06, 2016
What's changed? How much time do you spend together? Sometimes you are in love with the noting of love but not the person. It's when you spend time with someone that sometimes that you realise that there are Elements of their personality that you did not actually know.
Re: My 5 - Month Old Relationship Is Now So Boring. I Need Advise. by Jostapo(m): 10:10pm On Nov 06, 2016
I will suggest he hold unto that - that's the key.
Re: My 5 - Month Old Relationship Is Now So Boring. I Need Advise. by ikp120(m): 6:06am On Nov 07, 2016
Write her an explicit and verbose love letter... As you're writing it, feelings for her will overtake you, then your love instincts will become sharper...

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Re: My 5 - Month Old Relationship Is Now So Boring. I Need Advise. by loadedvibes: 6:14am On Nov 07, 2016
Matters if the heart like this always intrigues me so I will book this space.
Re: My 5 - Month Old Relationship Is Now So Boring. I Need Advise. by pweetychyka(f): 7:17am On Nov 07, 2016
Re-examine ur relationship n know wats missing!
If u don't find any, try to remember dat which got u attracted to her n how ur love story began!

If all dis isn't working, den it's either u not ready for a relationship or she isn't ryt for u!

Newbies can sometyms be lyk dis! So ain't surprised cheesy cheesy
Re: My 5 - Month Old Relationship Is Now So Boring. I Need Advise. by Originalsly: 7:34am On Nov 07, 2016
Time to move on.... infatuation.. short time love... all worn out. .. no need to try to keep it going by force.
Re: My 5 - Month Old Relationship Is Now So Boring. I Need Advise. by deEntrepreneur(m): 8:17am On Nov 07, 2016
Hmmmm. Thanks to you guys. Thanks for your time.






Points noted.

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