I recently created a thread about getting your ex-girlfriend back https://www.nairaland.com/3437160/break-ups-some-tips-how some ladies on the thread indicated their interest about getting their ex-boyfriend back. so, that is exactly the reason behind this thread today. Ladies In the house today is your day just do SHAKARA

Relationships are great until one decides to leave the other for some valid (or invalid) reason. Girls, being sensitive and emotional than men, often take the blow of the break up pretty hard-unless they're the ones who initiated the break up. But of course, girls are also more hopeful than men. Below are some tips that will speed up the process for you.

1. Try your best not to call him

Don't seem desperate by calling him every hour. You will not succeed at winning him back by scaring him. desperation is evil to your relationship. don't even bother to call and ask him if he is fine or not. If he'll call, he'll call. It may take some time but that's why patience is a virtue.

2. Learn to compromise to make the new relationship work

Try to delve into your past relationship's issues. Were there recurring problems? Is it because you're quite selfish and do not want your man to go out with his friends? Is it always your way or the highway?

Because if it is, then maybe that's one of the reasons why he broke up. If you and your man are ready to have a heart-to-heart discussion about trying to fix the relationship, then go ahead and be ready to make compromises.

3. Never beg or plead, please

Begging and pleading is so out of fashion. pleading for your man to take you back will only make you look pitiful and believe me nobody will accept and appreciate you out of pity. let him feel that you are just toooooo competitive to think about him and you are already a foot ahead of him. in this case, he will plead to get you back .

4. Give time to yourself

Now that you're not in a relationship, you have all the time to go to the salon to have your hair fixed. Check your bookshelves for the titles you haven't read yet. go out to jug, register for a jim. Just anything to take your mind off the breakup.

5. Re-assess your value in the relationship

Not being a part of the relationship allows you to look at it from an outsider's point of view. What were its strongest points, its weakest? What role did you usually play - the boss, the superior or more dominating one, or the receiver of all affection and care?

Reassessing your role in the relationship will give you the leverage you need when talking about it with your former partner.


6. Have your friends stay out of this situation

Some men are very private and would rather have his personal issues kept between him and his partner. Even if you're not together anymore, don't blab about your problems and your plans to get him back to your friends. While friends can help you patch things up, he may be more grateful if you stop having your friends set you up on dates.

7. New girlfriend, no problem!

Sure, the news of a new girlfriend will stupefy you, no matter how many times you say it's all right. But don't fear. If their relationship came right after yours without any time gap, chances are, she's just a rebound girl-someone who can accompany him while he nurses his broken heart.

conclusion

with patience, if he is yours you will surely get him back with the help of the above tips. please never push too much. the harder you push the more you repel and push him away. rather, stay afar and attract him to you. your comments and ideas are most welcomed.

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it should not be allowed to come back
like on Saturday oshiomole will be tagged ex
and nothing will make him come back again

Cum force me na mk i confirm

Toor, don't chase after ppl anymore, if dey like spending time with u dey will do so, if nt b Content in ur own company.

Waiting 4 d guys to confirm it

Young03:
ex z ex

it should not be allowed to come back

like on Saturday oshiomole will be tagged ex

and nothing will make him come back again

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You don't need to hold on to the past.. Stop thinking about what you think you lose, look forward to what there is to gain.

The question is why the break up in the first place ?

Is the cause not there anymore?

Moreover why go back to your vomit

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You mean an upper hand to bring your ex back?

This is absolutely correct

I agree

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