Raine80:
Generalised comments like this annoy me.....
Have you met ALL Nigerian women?

Generallisng it is not good.

But u know what OP actually meant and u know it is the truth.

Why trying to play it down?

Laveda:
Stingy guys everywhere

Mtcheew

Are you generous with your stuff? You can't give it to him without first asking for money.

darbeelicous:
so I'll pay all d bills, take care of myself and provide all I need on my own, and all he does is have sex, ... Doesn't sound fair to me.

As if u don't enjoy the sex too.

As if u will take care of him too.

Maybe he forced u to have sex with him.



This is the type of people op is talking about,

Can u imagine, just because u are a girl, u expect a man to pay ur bills, the bills u incurred, take care of u too, who benefits from that? U. Have sex and also enjoy it.



And someone up there is trying to play it down when someone here is openly challenging why she should pay her bills.

FortuneTeller:
All women like money. Chinese, Russian, Kenyan, American, Brazilian, on and on. If you are broke and cannot afford a woman, just move out of the way for a man with means.

Shu!

chigoizie7:


Generallisng it is not good.

But u know what OP actually meant and u know it is the truth.

Why trying to play it down?

Most and Many will exclude those that are proud to stand on their own two feet and receive no sponsoring for men. I will not "play it down" when it's not applicable to many.

comshots:
Girls that don't ask their boyfriends are the most demanding types.

There is asking and there is demanding.....if he wants to treat me it's up to him if he cannot afford it it's not the end of the relationship. Your experience is your own.

darbeelicous:
so I'll pay all d bills, take care of myself and provide all I need on my own, and all he does is have sex, ... Doesn't sound fair to me.

he is referring to those dat collect and they will still say no sex I think

darbeelicous:
so I'll pay all d bills, take care of myself and provide all I need on my own, and all he does is have sex, ... Doesn't sound fair to me.

And if he's not interested in sex??.. besides who was doing all the above before he came along??

Laveda:
Stingy guys everywhere
Mtcheew

Abi broke guys.


quote me with your brains o

Dont Give 'Em.Simple!

Berbierklaus:

Abi broke guys.



quote me with your brains o

True.. .. The mama thank you boys.

You see them wailing now and then

Laveda:

True.. .. The mama thank you boys.
You see them wailing now and then

if not hypocrisy you should be generous with your pusssy.

MrAwePresident:
don't be offended the specie of woman I believe he is referring to is the Olosho. They have become very rampant during this time period. For more information kindly four-4-species-of women every man most know about thread here on Nairaland

Nothing like olosho, even normal girlfriend will still expect money and gift in return from her boyfriend. The only difference is that she won't Bleep everybody. That is why girls don't like dating broke guys because the gifts and money will be hard to get.

lalasticlala

darkmarky:


I don't have to meet all Nigerian girls because it is impossible, when 70-100% indulge in a trend one can generalise if not nothing can be generalised.

Truth that is what an average naija gal feels

Many of them are from poor home with no manners and training they just believe in q trend and follow it just because they are females

In Nigeria is just too much that is why many turn to prostitution when they find that all men don sharp also hahahaha


Many of our ladies are. Coded hustlers only a few of them are sensible

Men are to blamed. Men have spoilt women. If you give a child free handouts, the child will, overtime, feel entitled to the handouts. The day you stop giving them the handouts, they will cry and throw tantrums(for women, this is equivalent to getting angry and shaming you eg. "you are not a real man", "real men take care(spend) on their women", "your mates are spending on their girlfriend", "broke and frustrated man" etc. ).

If, with time, you maintain your stand that, no matter what, no free handout, the child will abandon the tantrums, "sit up", and forget about the free handouts.