deliveryboy:
No bro, it's not always about love. Women age faster than men, even younger women age more than men after some years, believe me, in five years both of them cannot hang out together in public without looking awkward, at that time the man would prefer going out alone or seek the company of teenage girls. The places they can both go are church programs Most guys are attracted to older ladies at some point in their lives but marrying them is a totally different thing.

That's your opinion though... that means the man didn't marry for love but for her beauty.... Who cares about her ageing faster? If she's the wife u marry cause of LOVE... then her ageing appearance shouldn't be an issue..

The problem with some NIGERIAN women... They stop taking good care of their selves after childbirth...

Oya take a look at Peter Okoye's wife....

Poorboy:
Sugar mummy things

Haba! What a horrible thing to say about somebody's wife! It is better n ot to say anything at all

Winnelyn:


he loves her, but the problem here is, ' people advised him not to

If deres no oda reason apart 4rm d age ish, abeg make those pple swerve enta river Niger joor.

Winnelyn:
Hey guys can you get married to a girl who is 6years older than you , a friend is in a relation with a girl 6years older than him, his family would not accept this, he is really tensed about how to deal with this, will there be any problem marrying her?

Please take this advice seriously. Never marry a lady who is older than you UNLESS she has a certificate of humility. By certificate of humility, I mean, that she is extra humble to the extent of ALMOST being to a fault. You will know this more when she's angry, what does she do? I almost married a lady that was 2 years older than myself and I saw the writing on the wall that she didn't have a certificate of humility. I had to call it off before its too late.

I guess it depends on the person and how his family react to it. I mean I'm 30 and my obim just turned 24, he is Igbo and he wants to marry me.

I recall teasing him saying he just a pikin and I'm an old bag, he usually very calm with me but I saw my baby Igbo pride when he said he may be younger but doesn't mean he got notin up there, also that his family will love me but either way he doesn't care, he marrying me, our chi's are one.

Nawa oo when a young handsome Igbo man wants you shaa, they go the distance to get you.

For myself I'm flattered really and I do love him, didn't tink marriage was in the cards for me being this age, but Chukwu's in Control.

Adanna86:
I guess it depends on the person and how his family react to it. I mean I'm 30 and my obim just turned 24, he is Igbo and he wants to marry me.

I recall teasing him saying he just a pikin and I'm an old bag, he usually very calm with me but I saw my baby Igbo pride when he said he may be younger but doesn't mean he got notin up there, also that his family will love me but either way he doesn't care, he marrying me, our chi's are one.

Nawa oo when a young handsome Igbo man wants you shaa, they go the distance to get you.

For myself I'm flattered really and I do love him, didn't tink marriage was in the cards for me being this age, but Chukwu's in Control.

You're a rare woman sha. Not many Nigerian women would date, let alone, marry a guy who is 6 years younger than her

All may seem nice for now, but she would disrespect him at sea point.

emmanok24:

I'm in my late 20s. Next question please!

how many children?

Mabelenena:
how many children?

A child.

twosquare:
How were your family or both sides able to accept this without any hassles...coz mine is a year older too?

well there wasn't any opposition to that from my family.. Ends because she is a good fellow.. And moreover my family knows I don't date younger women. So they saw it coming.. Moreover they believe my happiness is more important... Family with understanding

RadicallyBlunt:

I shake my head at some people's inexperience. Some people like this actually think life starts and ends with nairaland. You can choose to marry someone youre older than with 30yrs sef, its your life. I spoke my mind. What the westerners do and end in divorce is what you think would work in for an African woman? Ladies like you are praying to find a loving husband who's older than them and some resolve to marrying a man younger to them with 2yrs max, but you want to settle for 6yrs difference. My dear you shd marry a teenager o, I thinks its better. Then in the next life marry your grandson mate.

Oga u deserve d kain sense-upgrading slap Ade dey receive 4rm im papa 4 crazeclown.

gemale:

Oga u deserve d kain sense-upgrading slap Ade dey receive 4rm im papa 4 crazeclown.

You deserve worse

Winnelyn:
Hey guys can you get married to a girl who is 6years older than you , a friend is in a relation with a girl 6years older than him, his family would not accept this, he is really tensed about how to deal with this, will there be any problem marrying her?

Yea I'll admit there is it all dpends on mostly d guy involved, 90% of naija families won't encourage such Cnt even imagine waH myn will do lol...Buh all d same if the gy takes the relationship serious makes it knwn 2 his family members then I believe he wud end up marrying er

As my friend pleep will say and I quote "l'age est juste un nombre" so go ahead.

Winnelyn:


he loves her, but the problem here is, ' people advised him not to

One thing that gives a guy character is knowing what he wants, not just at the moment, but even in the future. If after all due considerations he still thinks that she's what he needs not just "want," then he should go ahead and marry her.

Your opinion concerning someone's choice of spouse isn't something you must force down their throat. The bulk of the decision rests with the individuals involved, so also will the consequences arising from their decisions.

emmanok24:
A child.

Thats nice, your wife is a lucky woman

Adanna86:
I guess it depends on the person and how his family react to it. I mean I'm 30 and my obim just turned 24, he is Igbo and he wants to marry me.

I recall teasing him saying he just a pikin and I'm an old bag, he usually very calm with me but I saw my baby Igbo pride when he said he may be younger but doesn't mean he got notin up there, also that his family will love me but either way he doesn't care, he marrying me, our chi's are one.

Nawa oo when a young handsome Igbo man wants you shaa, they go the distance to get you.

For myself I'm flattered really and I do love him, didn't tink marriage was in the cards for me being this age, but Chukwu's in Control.

Maturely spoken ada nne

Lol marrying a 6 year older woman to me is cheating already to the guy .the lady go Don fvk tire

Winnelyn:
Hey guys can you get married to a girl who is 6years older than you , a friend is in a relation with a girl 6years older than him, his family would not accept this, he is really tensed about how to deal with this, will there be any problem marrying her?

I would, as long as she's ok with it. Its going to be very easy for me lol! Cause I kinda have a thing for older women lol! They are more experienced and much more straight forward.

Gratefulsoul:
Age is just a number. What counts is the mutual understanding between them and the love they share..

myopia

Winnelyn:
Hey guys can you get married to a girl who is 6years older than you , a friend is in a relation with a girl 6years older than him, his family would not accept this, he is really tensed about how to deal with this, will there be any problem marrying her?

Myopic families like this one has always been the problem in marriages these days . They wil use force and say out threats to stop two Individuals who sincerely love themselves from getting married . They split them up . then the two individuals end up marrying other partners they are not inlove with . after few months , we start hearing curses, screams, series beatings in a new homes. Aka domestic violence .
Cos when one is not inlove with his partner in marriage ,the urge to beat and curse become rampant with any slight provocation.

Because of these kind of families , so many marriages are so miserable .
Ha! God

When will ones parents and family members stop to destroy their children's home and future .. God when??

tensazangetsu20:
My girlfriend is 6 years older than I am. Am 21 she's 27 and we are getting married when I graduate.

Oga tensa, you've graduated tey tey.
Oya update us on how e be now.