Now, First things first, the couple must know that sexual experience is not a performance. It is an expression of love. They should just relax and get to know each other. The first experience will obviously not be the best, but it gets better and better as the days, weeks, months and years go by.

Now that we have established that fact, what and what constitutes fears of the inability to satisfy each other.

Fears of the Body

1. The size of the joystick

(a) Almost every engorged penis is the same size (six to eight inches) no matter how large the man. However, the soft penis will measure anywhere from two inches to eight inches in length. Research has yet to explain adequately why some shrink more than others.

(b). The male organ need only be two to three inches long to do a superlative job of lovemaking, for the only part of the inner vagina that is sensitive to touch or pressure extends from the outer lips to approximately two to three inches inside.

(c). In all probability no man’s sexual organ has ever really been too small, yet millions regularly fear that possibility. Therefore, it can be devastating for a wife to joke about her husband’s organ. No penis is too small to do a good enough job, However three important things must be noted here, the level of skills he brings to the bed is highly important ( He must be skillfull), changing of positions and ability to be hard on and last long in bed, having this three and utilising them effectively, any penis can do a good job, so no man should feel inadequate.

2. The Female Breast.

(a). God, who is a God of variety, created each woman with a particular type of breast that best suits her. Some women have small cute breasts, others big busty breasts and yet others have a size in between these two extremes. Now, no matter the size or type of breast a woman has, the beauty of the breast is still intact.

(b). Husbands need to realize that the breast in the dressed up state may look different in the undressed state. Some women may not appear substantially busty or may look almost flat-chested when dressed up, but when they UnCloth you will appreciate that they are also endowed with beautiful God-given breasts.

(c). Other women who appear busty and look full and rounded may in the undressed state have the breast actually starting much lower down on the chest and a flattening of that part of the chest which before looked rounded. Some men therefore get disappointed when they find this difference and they think that their wives’ breasts have fallen or are “spoilt”. This is actually not the case. What they are seeing is the standard architecture of that type of breast which was just given a different look by a good supporting brassiere.

(d). Wives should be confident about the beauty of their mature unveiled breasts and should display them confidently to themselves and to their husbands.

(e). Preserve whatever type of breasts you have by using

(i) .Brassieres that provide good support.

(ii). Whatever the size of your breast, you MUST wear a brassiere.

(iii). The breasts must be continuously supported with a firm brassiere throughout pregnancy. This is necessary because the breasts increase greatly in size during pregnancy.

(f). The nipple and its surrounding area is the part of the breast which gives sexual arousal. Generally speaking, there is very little difference in the sizes of women’s nipples. Therefore, no matter the size of a woman’s breast, she can be sexually aroused by playing with and sucking her nipples.

3. Fear of Impotence ( An inability to have
A hard and erect penis).

(a). Impotence is defined as the inability to achieve an erection. 90% of impotence is from the mind and can be cured.

(b). Causes of impotence include: loss of energy from tiredness or old age, fears of comparison with previous partners, not being able to satisfy his wife, busy schedules, bitterness, guilt from adultery, ridicule, unreasonable expectations, passive wife, depression, etc.

( General counselling can also be helpful here).


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