I started dating my girlfriend six month ago.Am a graduate and am self employed, she is a graduate too but has a good paying job, so she earns more than me.We both love ourselves bt she is two years older than me.
I've tried to erase the fact off my head bt it keeps reoccuring .She has been a helper to me, My source of joy and accord me my maximum respect despite the age difference.She also understands her role as a supporter.
please i need an advice whether to stick with her cos she is almost going towards the marriage direction or should i just end the relationship because of age...Need your sincere advice

Yhu re not serious

Age No Matter. #Love matters

abuayman:
Yhu re not serious

.....please what made you say so?

obiemurphy:
.....please what made you say so?

Yhu are even lucky she's just 2yrs older

Age does not matter to me despite the fact I can't date someome younger than me. But I don't see why it should bother you if she accords you due respect . But if you know it will always be something hanging in your head and make you feel uncomfortable, please free her as soon as possible.

You re not a baby man!

Nooo..end it na.


#YoLO

Do WATS on your mind but remember age is just a number and doesn't determine the success or failure of a relationship. If she has the qualities you desire and plays her role correctly what else do you want.??

U dating her for dating sake, or do u see a future with her??

Sometimes, the answers to questions we ask are within our grasp.

So, I'll ask again, do u see a future with her.
If u aint ready for any commitments soon tho, then don't get pressured tho

you should know it aint safe to say someone loves you..

like everyone says its just a number, as long as there's love, respect and understanding

if I tell u wot to do now u will say iam bad

As long has both of you love each other and she gives you your due respect, there is no ish about it bro.

obiemurphy:
I started dating my girlfriend six month ago.Am a graduate and am self employed, she is a graduate too but has a good paying job, so she earns more than me.We both love ourselves bt she is two years older than me.
I've tried to erase the fact off my head bt it keeps reoccuring .She has been a helper to me, My source of joy and accord me my maximum respect despite the age difference.She also understands her role as a supporter.
please i need an advice whether to stick with her cos she is almost going towards the marriage direction or should i just end the relationship because of age...Need your sincere advice

As people are sometimes quick to say, "age is but a number"..
However, you have to consider certain factors and ask yourself certain questions...
*she respects you now...are you sure the respect will be sustained after marriage (she's older and she earns more)
*would it be a problem if a conflict shud occur (either you bring her age up and say she doesn't respect you..out of anger)
*what is your general point of view on the whole age difference thing?
*Are you ready to watch her age wayy faster than you? and will you still be there for her when she starts to age? (cos women age over 3 times faster than men)

There are a lot more questions to be asked and answered when it comes to the age thing... and in my opinion, one or two negative answers can be enough to let the ship sail.
Marriages aren't built on love...they're built on trust, commitment and understanding. If you can summarize your relationship into those 3, your good to go...love just makes it spicier.

obiemurphy:
I started dating my girlfriend six month ago.Am a graduate and am self employed, she is a graduate too but has a good paying job, so she earns more than me.We both love ourselves bt she is two years older than me.
I've tried to erase the fact off my head bt it keeps reoccuring .She has been a helper to me, My source of joy and accord me my maximum respect despite the age difference.She also understands her role as a supporter.
please i need an advice whether to stick with her cos she is almost going towards the marriage direction or should i just end the relationship because of age...Need your sincere advice

matured ladies are the best thing DAT can ever happen to a man,they are supportive, the treat u like a baby(mother factor), they are not ready to tussle u fr power or control despite the age difference( some not all), they are quick to submit and dey provide d best advice due to experience and all



bro age Na number dough it has an effect but love conquer all, but dis wan wey u don dey doubt e go hard o broda

Well done Guy!
Please, my question for you is, " is it because she is supportive that you may consider her or that you have been dating her?
Do you really LOVE her from the bottom of your heart?
Now, my advice to you is considering that AGE is just a NUMBER. You should have a genuine love from your heart for her,
you should marry her without pressure of any kind. Remember that is very good to marry a close friend instead of a total
stranger that may not understand you, except the one God directs.
So, I really appreciate if you can marry her and have your peace, love respect and financial favour.

Thank U all for your advice......

it doesn't matter....two years is a little cool

The fact that you are asking indicates uncertainty on your part. If you cannot see that you have a good thing going then you are beyond redemption. Finally cab you stop loving yourselves and focus on building a solid foundation both need to invest in this relationship unless you are not serious about things if so it's a pity.

I will keep saying it,

In this part of the world, age matters a lot.

ROZZAYY:
like everyone says its just a number, as long as there's love, respect and understanding

Babe gimme bosom suck small na.