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The Possibility Of The Children Of Two Ex-lovers Getting Married by Dfinex(f): 9:15pm On Dec 07, 2016
hmmmm .....my imaginations are at it again, running amok as always. Being thinking seriously about the concept of marriage: the why's, how's, when, etc of it.

And my mind settled on the above mentioned subject. here is the scenario :

you dated this guy/babe when you were younger and had fun, fortunately or unfortunately you broke up. fast forward to years later , you've become parents.

one day junior comes back home with a young promising lady saying " mum, meet my damsel - Janet Haney. daughter of M.D. xyz coy Ltd "....only for you to realize that the said M.D. is your ex. ...what will be your reaction? ? would u let junior carry on with the relationship? if no, what excuse will u give junior? has this ever happened? what are the effects it would have on the children ?

.....these are but a few questions boggling my mind, Google couldn't help me. so I'm throwing it to romancelanders, cos I know there are so many romance doctors here.....lols. looking forward to getting cutting edge solutions and having fun too.
Re: The Possibility Of The Children Of Two Ex-lovers Getting Married by Nobody: 9:22pm On Dec 07, 2016
Happens in life ....what are you going to do? Kick off because of the past? And that will solve what exactly? Making an issue will clearly indicate you have not moved on ...if you are still bitter 20 or so years after the fact then no one can help you.

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Re: The Possibility Of The Children Of Two Ex-lovers Getting Married by Sexxkillz: 9:22pm On Dec 07, 2016
I won't deny my child her happiness because of my past. It's selfish on my part. She has her own life and decisions to make.

At a stage in a child's life, you do not decide for them what to do. You only owe them advice. And they aren't under compulsion to heed your advice.

In such a situation, be open to your son/daughter about the past and leave them to make their choice. You do not ruin the life of your child because you woefully fail to act your age.

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Re: The Possibility Of The Children Of Two Ex-lovers Getting Married by unapapadeycraze: 10:24pm On Dec 07, 2016
draw a possibility curve for your assumption.
Re: The Possibility Of The Children Of Two Ex-lovers Getting Married by Dfinex(f): 10:44pm On Dec 07, 2016
unapapadeycraze:
draw a possibility curve for your assumption.

lolss...bros na economics?
Re: The Possibility Of The Children Of Two Ex-lovers Getting Married by unapapadeycraze: 10:47pm On Dec 07, 2016
Dfinex:


lolss...bros na economics?



omo na bragging thingscheesy. make them know say me sef do economics for schoolcheesy. as i see the "possibility" i just remember "possibility curve" for economicscheesy.

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Re: The Possibility Of The Children Of Two Ex-lovers Getting Married by Dfinex(f): 10:48pm On Dec 07, 2016
Sexxkillz:
I won't deny my child her happiness because of my past. It's selfish on my part. She has her own life and decisions to make.

At a stage in a child's life, you do not decide for them what to do. You only owe them advice. And they aren't under compulsion to heed your advice.

In such a situation, be open to your son/daughter about the past and leave them to make their choice. You do not ruin the life of your child because you woefully fail to act your age.

ok. I like this. But I'll also like to know the likely emotions that someone in that situation May have as this will guide us on proper ways of handling them.
Re: The Possibility Of The Children Of Two Ex-lovers Getting Married by Dfinex(f): 10:50pm On Dec 07, 2016
unapapadeycraze:




omo na bragging thingscheesy. make them know say me sef do economics for schoolcheesy. as i see the "possibility" i just remember "possibility curve" for economicscheesy.

hahaha. ....walahi of a truth I tell u. but u dey there and Nigeria economy dey dabaruu??....as the economist wey u be na, u suppose show workings.
Re: The Possibility Of The Children Of Two Ex-lovers Getting Married by unapapadeycraze: 11:04pm On Dec 07, 2016
Dfinex:


hahaha. ....walahi of a truth I tell u. but u dey there and Nigeria economy dey dabaruu??....as the economist wey u be na, u suppose show workings.




na your president nvr wan employ ma servicecheesy. he said my demand was too high. tell me, is it bad for a competent economist like me to receive 8million per month?
Re: The Possibility Of The Children Of Two Ex-lovers Getting Married by Dfinex(f): 11:10pm On Dec 07, 2016
unapapadeycraze:





na your president nvr wan employ ma servicecheesy. he said my demand was too high. tell me, is it bad for a competent economist like me to receive 8million per month?

lolss....u for tell us țo give u Cbn vault key.

but meanwhile chuck mouth put for the matter on ground. ....what say u?

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Re: The Possibility Of The Children Of Two Ex-lovers Getting Married by unapapadeycraze: 11:18pm On Dec 07, 2016
Dfinex:


lolss....u for tell us țo give u Cbn vault key.




y'all are just not aware of the positive change that i am to effect. the president promised #1 to $1, that's exactly what i wanna achieve. i told him to give me an ultimatum of a year to effect those changes. you know rome wasn't built in a daycheesy.
Re: The Possibility Of The Children Of Two Ex-lovers Getting Married by Calculux95: 3:46am On Dec 08, 2016
When you are too caught up in the past, you often miss what is right in front of you. As far as I believe they have genuine feelings for each other and the whole thing is not an elaborate scheme by my ex to get back at me.. cheesy. I wouldn't interfere

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Re: The Possibility Of The Children Of Two Ex-lovers Getting Married by Mayflowa(m): 11:35pm On Jan 17, 2017
This is kind of dangerous. The two exes may get back together o
Re: The Possibility Of The Children Of Two Ex-lovers Getting Married by GogetterMD(m): 5:19pm On Jan 22, 2017
It depends on the status and strength of the relationship of the 2 exes and the note on which they ended it. Easy to say let the kids decide for themselves but remember, it's a union of not just 2 companions but 2 families

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