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Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by candygebsslim: 3:02am On Dec 21, 2016 |
A woman's reaction towards you is directly proportional to how you treat her. Mr extra good and nice, u have given a detailed negative account of this lady and the only good you see in her is been a good teacher, and should we believe this is just the quality that has held you hostage for 5yrs. Everything is your fault, there is something madam teacher is trying to teach you but you have sworn never to learn which has resulted to her nagging and fighting you. And from all you wrote I can tell that you are a big cheat. Your problem is the 100k not ur wife to be 6 Likes |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by swiperthefox: 3:05am On Dec 21, 2016 |
saweide:Is she your wife or fiancee? I simply think it is a case of see finish and calling a dog a bad name to hang it. Guy, the grass always looks greener on the other side. I think that your only focus is 100k the other lady promised you. I don't even think you like the other lady that much. The 100k is very attractive to you. It is better that you find a way to make your relationship work unless you both never loved each other in the first place. May be some ladies will learn from this write up to respect themselves. She allowed herself to get pregnant and moved in with you before marriage. 1 Like |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by candygebsslim: 3:17am On Dec 21, 2016 |
To add to it, be happy with your present state and thank God for it, strive like a man and build your finances. I sense financial frustration is not letting you see the good in your wife to be anymore maybe due to she can't assist you financially. But this lady that has 100k to give, her money make her get good character. By default I know is normal to be loyal to the spoon u eat with or intend to eat with. Doesn't mean you should eat away ur wisdom. From all you said, you are still a boy, money is your problem. Postpone your marriage for one year and use the money intended for the marriage rites for an investment that will yield returns and get u married, can feed you without hoping on anyone anymore 1 Like |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by Originalsly: 3:26am On Dec 21, 2016 |
Hmmmmm.... I thought this was about what to do about the relationship.... how to move forward with regards to your baby mama and your daughter... only to find out it's about a more serious ehmmm... life or death matter. ... how to get back on speaking terms with someone who promised you 100K. You really deserve the woman in your life. |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by Beey(f): 3:27am On Dec 21, 2016 |
aigjoey:You left your gf last week and you already found a replacement? Na wa oh 1 Like |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by caon: 3:41am On Dec 21, 2016 |
schumastic:either he is confused or lying,forget men dey will come up with al sort of rubbish excuses just to leav a woman,even paint her a devil.if we ask d lady now,she wil have a book ful of demerits to be written about u.she is dat bad n yet u didn't dump her n now cos of common 100 k,u r already thinkin u are in lov wit another woman.I hail thee ooo. 2 Likes |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by caon: 3:47am On Dec 21, 2016 |
candygebsslim:well said,cohabited wit a woman for 5yrs ,u didn't leave until d issue of. Moneyy,he is talkin as. If he is witout fault. 2 Likes |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by bellotaofeek: 3:47am On Dec 21, 2016 |
Based on what you type here , Seems love never exist between you guys. I even wonder why you fall in love with her in the first place ( Maybe her physical characteristics) . Well ! My only advice for you is to split up. We have heard series of homicide ( This is how it started ) . Don't even let her take the custody of your daughter . She may not be able to raise her properly . P.S : This comment is only based on your own side of the story |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by greatermax77(m): 3:48am On Dec 21, 2016 |
Any woman that kills my dream, I will kill her's. OP, if u eventually marries this girl, high blood presure may be ur partner 1 Like |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by Nobody: 4:14am On Dec 21, 2016 |
Its best if you ask yourself what's important to you right now? You have no boundaries and respect in this relationship, nothing will change after marriage if it was not right in the beginning. The longer you drag this "relationship" the more frustrated both of you will be. |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by Wolex143: 4:18am On Dec 21, 2016 |
saweide:lolz u're nt ready to move forwarding, nt that am cursing u, bt i think wen ur wife to be send u to where u dn't like u'll jump into conclusion without advice. |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by Cajayi(m): 4:24am On Dec 21, 2016 |
Guy be careful let it not be that you are about jumping from frying pan to fire abi you have not heard and understand the saying the devil you know is better than the Angel you don't know? Take a sheet of paper and sincerely sit down and write on one side the goods you see in your gal and on the other list the bad... Remember when you were planning to woo her before you were able to produce the girl child through her. . Only you can solve this problem of yours |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by dingbang(m): 4:32am On Dec 21, 2016 |
Estharfabian:she has a child for him.... Dont u get? |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by Nobody: 4:35am On Dec 21, 2016 |
Baawaa:do the needful, do the needful....what's the needful na? |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by Kurupt01: 4:44am On Dec 21, 2016 |
aigjoey: I don't know where to start from, you were in a relationship last week which you called quits because of your ex's behavior. Thus week you're in another relationship with someone who you describe as homely and listens to words of reasoning. Maybe your ex was complaining because of your habit of looking at other women (you can't sasay you don't). A week long relationship is not enough time to judge a lady you barely know. 2 Likes |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by Ademoore07(m): 4:45am On Dec 21, 2016 |
Hmmmm. U said she had a baby for u out of wedlock. If I were you, I will hold on to my baby and send her packing. Marriage/ relationship is meant to be enjoyed and not endured. Send the bitch packing, mehn |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by udumosam23(m): 4:49am On Dec 21, 2016 |
saweide: I would've just passed cos you sounded too childish to be sincere. But maybe you'll need the advice. If truely she has been with you for five years and you're saying all these things about her in the fifth year, then you're not a good person. Truth is that, there was a first, second and third year both of you loved each other to the extend she had a child and kept it for you. By your confession I realise she made sacrifices for you. You said she use to keep other men, now she don't. Do you think it was easy on her part? Which serious man will deny his wife to be access to his phone? Especially as they're already cohabiting? You got a lot hidden already, what do you expect from her? You complain that both of you are not compatible, did you just realize it after five years? Guy that's so unfair. It means you lived your life without carrying her along. What have you done to improve her condition? To bring her up to your standard? If you can whimp this way cos she blew a job of 100k, and willing to trade her for it, then you're not just a selfish kid, but a wicked one. Truth is that you've compared her to other girls or ladies you interact with in social media, and wish she's like one of them. These were planted, watered and nurtured by other men. They didn't just become what they are. They were made. OP make your woman what you want her be. Take responsibility for her, if she don't have a future, give her one. If she don't understand teach her, if she's local and naive op send her to school. Buy her a good phone and expose her to social media too. Then see if other people will not appreciate her the way you appreciate the ones you see. OP if you think you're matured enough to have a woman for yourself, then I believe you've got one. MAKE HER WHAT YOU WISH HER TO BE. 7 Likes |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by Kelly2713(m): 4:58am On Dec 21, 2016 |
if i comment now the op will batch me. but let me say something. the op is not sincere with the wife to be. why should he be chating with other ladies when he has a woman to chat with in the house.? why is the op so in love with 100k as if he's life is in it. and do u think a strange woman can give a guy a business of 100k just like that without aving something in mind? why is the business woman herein terminates the relationship aving find out that the guy is married? from here, my fellow nlanders: i guess the wife to be is a good woman only that the op is not a loving, caring, making good out of the woman and a sincere man 4 Likes |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by wristbangle: 5:16am On Dec 21, 2016 |
aigjoey: Lol u left her last week and u have another gf. Just one week interval? See elimination by substitution o! chai That aside, I believe the OP has received enough advise. You know the right thing to do. A broken relationship is far better than divorce anytime, any day. 2 Likes |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by AfroBlue(m): 5:20am On Dec 21, 2016 |
I've grown to dislike, almost hate des wimp stories posted by spineless males on NL. it raised my blood pressure reading dat chit. Man, Grow a f-in set of balls and send that nagging non compatible witch packing. chai 1 Like |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by sirusX(m): 5:21am On Dec 21, 2016 |
aigjoey: Beey:^^^^ You go fear that kain thing @aigjoey...this your own get k-leg too. one can't just get a girl to accept within a week except u've bn nursing her before you broke up a.k.a. cheating 1 Like |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by Beey(f): 5:30am On Dec 21, 2016 |
sirusX:Let him explain this Biko.Moment of truth |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by Origin(f): 5:33am On Dec 21, 2016 |
Five years ? Marry her. Its either you are committed or not. A real man should tell the world he is in a relationship. Husband give her peace of mind. Wife give yourself peace of mind. |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by Praktikals(m): 5:33am On Dec 21, 2016 |
saweide:Bros, the only problem you have is that you have no problem. Marry both of them and everyone will be happy. Thank me later. |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by Impeller(m): 5:37am On Dec 21, 2016 |
cococandy:See your hmm-mmm. Jokes apart, I'd like to make babies with you. Clearly, you're the type I won't quarrel with no matter what..... |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by marhoinspire: 5:41am On Dec 21, 2016 |
Baawaa:so u are saying he suld marry her abi? a broken relationship is better than a broken marriage. the closest hell fire to the real one is bad marriage. 1 Like |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by CP(m): 5:44am On Dec 21, 2016 |
My advice to you is that if you can stayed with her for Over 4years that means you are already married to her. Please note that all marriage without Jesus christ, patience and understandings all crash. My brother women do change sometime. Finally is not good for a girl child to grow up from separate parent. |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by mira4u: 5:51am On Dec 21, 2016 |
saweide: And how did you know the other woman possesses these qualities? Have you lived with her before or was it just through the chats you had with her? Sorry to say, you sound like a child. She is better than your fiancé because she has 100k to offer bah. Tomorrow you will come back to tell us how this other woman controls you, blah blah blah. Brother you are not ready for marriage yet. 1 Like |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by Ontop123(m): 5:52am On Dec 21, 2016 |
You pleaded not to be insulted but, you insulted yourself. What I can deduce from your story is that you simply dislike your girl cos of the new one that promised you 100k. You didn't love her neither is she as intelligent as you claimed. You only need the money. I cannot agree with you that your girl has all these characters you mentioned yet both of you have been together since 2011. You probably dislike cos of her inability to give you money. My advice to you is to be a man and stop looking up to women for success. 1 Like |
Re: She Goes Through My Phone When I Sleep, Now See What She Caused. Advice Pls by marhoinspire: 5:54am On Dec 21, 2016 |
The relationship is faulty from the beginning. You are dating a girl and she even had a baby for you yet NO ENGAGEMENT or FORMAL INTRODUCTION. To make matter worst, u stay 2geda like husband and wife. After you don vandalize her choko u wan leave her abi; u lie!!! If you keep eating what you should not eat, it won't be easy the day you will vomit it. As for my opinion A BROKEN RELATIONSHIP IS BETTER THAN A BROKEN MARRIAGE. DON'T MARRY HER OUT OF PITY. BAD MARRIAGE IS HELL ON EARTH. Break the relationship n settle her off if not she can sue for damages ( a filed promise to marry is an offense). dats if she knows her rights sha. If the breakup is not peaceful, it ll be hell for you bcus d devil can use her to disfiguring u (www.acid.com) Its clear u are not born again. Repent and ask God for forgiveness. |
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