IamLEGEND1:
let me see if i can condense everything I saw up there into 5 sentences.
>Your brother is a pussyy who got pussy-whipped by a girl with an even larger pussyy.at this point,she can poison him and he'll die with a smile.
>Your sister has got bigger balls than both of you put together.
>Your brother is an abusive fool whose mumu button is being used to kill mosquitoes by one random ashawò
>You are one broke mofo.common phone screen.HaBa!
> You're a pussy......or have I mentioned that already?

Freak101:
Op is a girl uncle and why shouldnt be buy me a phone before he gets his girl a phone??am I not his sibling?or was it not I and my sister our mother left for him before going??why's he my elder brother rif he cannot cater for my needs?

That's not the end, he got her an infinix zero 4 in that same week, meanwhile my phone's touchpad is bad and he hasn't even said anything about it, he got her a 90k+ device, seriously guys, I'm angry and sad, I think this is getting out of hand already.

Freak101:
This is the genesis of the whole issue and I would appreciate your sincere answer if you were in my shoes.

I have two siblings,including me we are 3 altogether and our mom is late, so the three of us stay together in one house we built together.

My brother has a girlfriend that spent a week with us this month and the first day, she was kinda sluggish which I hate like waking up around 7am and staying in bed till 11am, as expected, when you go to people's house, you do what they do, if they use only maggi to cook, you don't add your own seasoning, even if its not your boyfriend you're expected to do what they do and assist in every chores they do.

First night she cooked, she used something like onga to cook although it's not onga which purged me during that week but i endured. And she cooked "ewedu" that we don't eat at home, my brother never eats ewedu, but he ate it because of her, I was really shocked because even if he's hungry, he'll never eat your ewedu soup, but he ate it, I just assumed that it's love and I cleared it from my mind.

Until last week, he fought with my sister and punched her because she wasn't happy with the girl and she was giving her attitude, even me, I'm not happy with her, but I don't show it, but she showed it because she can't take it, so he punched her and she started bleeding profusely on her nose, and that was the first time I would see them fight though, they don't fight at all

That's not the end, he got her an infinix zero 4 in that same week, meanwhile my phone's touchpad is bad and he hasn't even said anything about it, he got her a 90k+ device, seriously guys, I'm angry and sad, I think this is getting out of hand already.

And he'll be asking me every time that "do I like her" but I really don't have an answer because I don't want to break his heart, I really don't have an answer for him, but I'm not happy with her vibe at all. She's a badluck.

Please what do you think?

cococandy:

Your brother doesn't owe you anything. Better rearrange your mindset to avoid future disappointments.
It's good if he helps you. Very good and commendable. But he's not your father who brought you into the world. So it's not his responsibility. better face your studies and hustle to provide for yourself as soon as you can.
It's a cold world out there.
Just giving you this cold hard reality check Before you pin your hopes of survival on someone and end up disappointed.

You're still 17. I hope you learn in time. Starting from now.

Bluezy13:
Schedule a family meeting...for the three of you and iron things out.
Be mature as regards the matters you table and the matters you swallow.
If possible invite an Elder in the family...but that should come after you must have tried the first meeting.

That girl is a golddigger, love should go to hell! They ain't married yet. Family comes first boutefore girlfriend

cococandy:

Your brother doesn't owe you anything. Better rearrange your mindset to avoid future disappointments.
It's good if he helps you. Very good and commendable. But he's not your father who brought you into the world. So it's not his responsibility. better face your studies and hustle to provide for yourself as soon as you can.
It's a cold world out there.
Just giving you this cold hard reality check Before you pin your hopes of survival on someone and end up disappointed.

You're still 17. I hope you learn in time. Starting from now.

Freak101:
Is this one in his right senses at all??why's he my brother if he cannot take care if me?and before he marry the girl,trust me,i would have found my way in life,they aren't married, I'm still his sibling, apply sense when quoting me,you talk like someone that lost all his siblings

Freak101:
Is this one in his right senses at all??why's he my brother if he cannot take care if me?and before he marry the girl,trust me,i would have found my way in life,they aren't married, I'm still his sibling, apply sense when quoting me,you talk like someone that lost all his siblings

j1balba:
with Yoruba people when you are dating a girl she is automatically your wife. But I feel cooking should not make you hate her Cox everyone has a way he does his /her own, and it seems you don't just like her.

ebonflexy:


I am truly sorry for you.
You obviously don't want to get sense. No worries, Life will teach you.

Freak101:
Now I see that you've no home training and you're very stupid. You said your woman not your girlfriend, did you skip the part where I said he beat my sister because of his girlfriend? When he has started beating her now what will happen in two years time?? Isn't it to move out??if you've nothing to say stop quoting me abeg,you're an old fool that has no sense at all,gtfoh

dollyjoy:
I think you should man up and tell him how you feel,if you can't then please allow sleeping dog lie.


About the phone he bought I don't think that should be a cause to worry about. You are a man, take care of your responsibilities abegi.

cococandy:

Okay.

Until reality sets in for you.

Welcome to the world teenager.

Freak101:
before you say so!!

If you treat your siblings as shit,sorry our family is different

You lack hone training so therefore don't push your anger and feelings on my thread

You're probably the only son,slowpoke!

Freak101:
Is this one in his right senses at all??why's he my brother if he cannot take care if me?and before he marry the girl,trust me,i would have found my way in life,they aren't married, I'm still his sibling, apply sense when quoting me,you talk like someone that lost all his siblings

curvilicious:
It all started when we lost our mom and had nowhere to go we all had to relocate to live with him all 5 of us
Then he brought d geh as househelp before we knew he started straffing her
Later d girl started sending us on errands instead of the other way round
After she started vomitting my elder sister was like she get belle? My eldest brother drove her first for ever saying such.
Then she moved into his room, we kept quiet before you know she started punishing us
My kid sis will trek to school meanwhile there was car and driver
One day she woke up packed my kid sis clothes and set it all on fire for no reason
Outrightly told my other bro he will never go to school, told my sis she too wont as for me i already knew my fate
Till one day me and her fought because she refused to give us food for 3days so, i plucked okra to cook for us to beg garri and eat after so much hunger(meanwhile they killed full goat insider d deep freezer that she locked with key). Then came crueler she saw me cooking took d pot and flung it over d fence i got angry fought her and broke her head
Who send me?
Na so my brother take vex o say i want to kill his wife(they got married)
He sent us out, i took my 2sibblings we didn't know where to go
We slept outside a couple of days till someone helped us with one room
I got a job as cleaner in a hotel, my brother as messenger in an eatery, our last born was in primary school and my bro was manager in one of d den multinational companies had all d money but left us because of olosho wife
We managed o for so long

Till 2008 he retired and 2009 the benefits and all that was paid.
Then gbam d thing happen

ikombe:
This only happens in an afonja's family

angelTI:
Lol. This story is funny to me. Don't ask me why because I don't know

Bobbyjay001:

iLegend, take am easy now

ilegend & i are ctually two distinct entities.
no relation whatsoever.....but point taken.