HARDDON:



I do get ur drift n you r right.

Just a lil question:

Why do ladies see marriage as a trophy that once won, u need not luk after yourself again? U need not put up smart n sexy? N wear nice cologn?

U just eat n grow fat?
How can a mAn be walking with his own wify n she luks like his momma?

Truth be told, God has given ya'll d grace to bear kids, u just need to apply in lil wisdom to shed d fat .

I have seen women , working class, with 3 kids n guys still drool over them.

It's a shame, really. Not the women getting fat out of proportion, but guys drooling over beautiful working class women with three kids. Why? Because these are usually guys who would not take care of their own wives.

Biologically, yes, it isn't easy for most women to shed weight acquired in pregnancy. Some very determined ones are able to work it off and it's constant work. Not everyone is this way cos God created us differently. Whereas a few women do not add weight easily and the ignorant husband of the the other poor woman will compare his wife with the other. Yes, someone like me will even be grateful to add some weight, it will add to my beauty. So women who add weight in pregnancy need their husbands' understanding and support to shed it, not for the husband to jet out with the excuse that his wife is no longer taking care of herself.

Beyond her biological makeup is the stress the woman goes through. If you do not assist your wife how do you want her to cope? She takes care of God knows how many children, you, the house and is still expected to compare in looks with single ladies who have all the time to take care of themselves, who can decide to spend all their money on themselves to look good. Haba! Can a now married woman, wife and mother afford to do this - esp if she does not earn good income? And if the woman is unemployed, she is done for! Cos believe it, some husbands do not give even housewives any money for their care, housekeeping money is strictly for housekeeping, the woman must not divert any for her use! Yet, such husbands complain that their wives "smell of urine" and go complementing another man's wife who her husband is giving good support - trying to reap where they did not sow! May such husbands catch them and wipe their legs with cutlasses!

The number of hours a woman spends in the kitchen on a daily basis! Do men think that this was how their wives lived as a single girl before marriage? As a single girl, you get back from work and flop into bed. You get married and suddenly you cant do that anymore, the guy is asking you what's for dinner.

Guys, it's massive transformation and responsibility. I've seen various posts being passed around about how God created the femalefolk to be superwomen. Lies! It takes its toll! Maybe a few women think marriage is a trophy and stop taking care of themselves (I doubt this very much though) but for the majority of women that look worn out, that look like they just don't care, please check the underlying issue. Husbands, Please take care of your wives,
be a support to her and she will give you the surprise you desire.

EfemenaXY:


Tell me something.

If I leave the doors of my house unsecured and wide open, and a thief walks in, who should take the blame if I'm robbed?

Apply the same analogy here.

There wouldn't even be a side chick in the first place if the so called dog of a man hadn't condoned the affair in the first place.

It is my door, and I have the rights to open and shut it whenever I want. Whoever comes in uninvited will have himself or herself to blame.

EfemenaXY:


And who should carry out the beatings? The wife??

a lot of Nigerians, including the Nigerian police, will be willing to do that for as low as N1000. Sharia forces would do it for free.

Acidosis:


It is my door, and I have the rights to open and shut it whenever I want. Whoever comes in uninvited will have himself or herself to blame.

So the side chick was uninvited??

pocohantas:

Tell me something

....You are funny ..i actually laughed out loud at that image...

Acidosis:


a lot of Nigerians, including the Nigerian police, will be willing to do that for as low as N1000. Sharia forces would do it for free.

So the police should be paid (by whom?) to beat up the man and his side chick?

Now if this isn't a warped sense of justice, I don't know what is.

The police are meant to uphold law and order in the land, not condone jungle justice, much less get involved in (non-physical) domestic issues

EfemenaXY:


So the side chick was uninvited??

Yes, from the wife's viewpoint.


Please study "frustration-aggression theory".


No woman in her right senses will happily ignore a side chick with such brutal tongue. The wife's frustrations according to PSYCHOLOGY would be poured on the intruder FIRST.

Acidosis:


Yes, from the wife's viewpoint.


Please study "frustration-aggression theory".


No woman in her right senses will happily ignore a side chick with such brutal tongue. The wife's frustrations according to PSYCHOLOGY would be poured on the intruder FIRST.

And why should the wife demean herself to get involved with the man's bit by the side?

Why should she clean up his dirty work?

How many side chicks should she chase after? 10? 100? 1,000?? At what point should she draw the line and say "enough is enough"?

Acidosis:
This text is enough to provoke her into beating the life out of the side chick, but if such happens, my dearest Nairaland sisters will condemn an angry wife for teaching a side chick a well deserved lesson.

They'll say: "why can't the wife beat her husband instead?" I didn't know women now beat men... smh for our dearest confused sisters.


The woman obviously married a dog, but the she-dog deserves all the beatings she can get from a superior power

Haven't you said you would beat the side chick if she talked to your sister like that? But you wouldn't lay your hands on your brother-in-law? Men no longer fight men but women; women who their in-laws give heavenly feelings while their pregnant sisters wait at home alone to receive some STD later on?

The wife is a loser.
The side chick is nothing but a simple prostitute.
The husband ... not even worth it but what can a loser do?

EfemenaXY:


And why should the wife demean herself to get involved with the man's bit by the side?

Why should she clean up his dirty work?

How many side chicks should she chase after? 10? 100? 1,000?? At what point should she draw the line and say "enough is enough"?

When prospective side chicks see you as a docile humble house wife, they will step on your toes and do the unthinkable.


Why is it that randy men and boys run away from soldier's wives?

Acidosis:



When prospective side chicks see you as a docile humble house wife, they will step on your toes and do the unthinkable.


Why is it that randy men and boys run away from soldier's wives?

So the wife should take responsibility for the husband's irresponsibility? Yes?

Acidosis. Lol. Stop.

Mindfulness:


Haven't you said you would beat the side chick if she talked to your sister like that? But you wouldn't lay your hands on your brother-in-law? Men no longer fight men but women; women who their in-laws give heavenly feelings while their pregnant sisters wait at home alone to receive some STD later on?

The wife is a loser.
The side chick is nothing but a simple prostitute.
The husband ... not even worth it but what can a loser do?

The loser is the one who sits back and allow random girls walk into her home without acting.

Acidosis:


The loser is the one who sits back and allow random girls walk into her home without acting.

I see

EfemenaXY:


So the wife should take responsibility for the husband's irresponsibility? Yes?

No, the wife should make the husband's controllable irresponsibility unattractive to whores.


By the time you give a few whores thunderous slaps, they'll tell stories. You know bad stories spread faster.

cococandy:
I see

Yes please

Acidosis:


The loser is the one who sits back and allow random girls walk into her home without acting.

She is the loser for sitting in this home house, so true! I would either kick him out or get a new home for myself. Thanks to daddy for teaching me independence. I won't make my hands dirty fighting any wandering dick's prostitutes.

It is only possible in your world, not mine. In my world, women respect themselves and are respected. In your world wives fight their husbands' prostitutes. And then open their legs for such dogs again. Where is the smelly pvssy thread? Number one cause of smelly pvssy, dog-husbands.

No time for nonsense. Life is good.

Acidosis:


No, the wife should make the husband's controllable irresponsibility unattractive to whores.


By the time you give a few whores thunderous slaps, they'll tell stories. You know bad stories spread faster.

So she should take responsibility for his irresponsibility.

And what should the man's role be in this?

Acidosis:


Yes please

You're hilarious

Acidosis:


No, the wife should make the husband's controllable irresponsibility unattractive to whores.


By the time you give a few whores thunderous slaps, they'll tell stories. You know bad stories spread faster.

Really?

Mindfulness:


She is the loser for sitting in this home house, so true! I would either kick him out or get a new home for myself. Thanks to daddy for teaching me independence. I won't make my hands dirty fighting any wandering dick's prostitutes.

It is only possible in your world, not mine. In my world, women respect themselves and are respected. In your world wives fight their husbands' prostitutes. And then open their legs for such dogs again. Where is the smelly pvssy thread? Number one cause of smelly pvssy, dog-husbands.

No time for nonsense. Life is good.

In my world, before you destroy my territory, I'll destroy yours. I won't leave without leaving a mark behind.

EfemenaXY:


So she should take responsibility for his irresponsibility.

And what should the man's role be in this?

Reckless dogs don't have meaningful roles. He can be dumped, however, not without leaving a sweet mark behind (on the intruder).

Mindfulness:


She is the loser for sitting in this home house, so true! I would either kick him out or get a new home for myself. Thanks to daddy for teaching me independence. I won't make my hands dirty fighting any wandering dick's prostitutes.

It is only possible in your world, not mine. In my world, women respect themselves and are respected. In your world wives fight their husbands' prostitutes. And then open their legs for such dogs again. Where is the smelly pvssy thread? Number one cause of smelly pvssy, dog-husbands.

No time for nonsense. Life is good.

cococandy:
Really?

Yeah

Acidosis:


In my world, before you destroy my territory, I'll destroy yours. I won't leave without leaving a mark behind.

You can destroy your wife's lover then and keep fucking her lose pvssy at night. Have fun! What a lovely home.

Acidosis:


In my world, before you destroy my territory, I'll destroy yours. I won't leave without leaving a mark behind.

A man who leaves his "territory" open to destruction is not worth fighting over.

What you fail to understand is this: a woman with class won't get her fingers soiled with vermin.

Let the host deal with it.

EfemenaXY:

Mindfulness:


You can destroy your wife's lover then and keep fucking her lose pvssy at night. Have fun! What a lovely home.

It's called liberalism

EfemenaXY:




It's called liberalism

It's called dvmbness.

Mindfulness:


It's called dvmbness.

It's new aged. For young Nigerian boys like acidosis struggling with metamorphism

EfemenaXY:


A man who leaves his "territory" open to destruction is not worth fighting over.

What you fail to understand is this: a woman with class won't get her fingers soiled with vermin.

Let the host deal with it.

Is it so hard to understand?

Mindfulness:


You can destroy your wife's lover then and keep fucking her lose pvssy at night. Have fun! What a lovely home.

Lol, smh.


Don't even try to compare male with female here. We can't act in the same manner. I don't have a pvssy so I don't know what it feels like to allow a dog work on it. I know women do it a lot, so women are in the best position to deal with that.