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Who Do You Obey? (for The Girls) by deebee13(f): 10:34am On Jan 02, 2017
If you're faced with a situation like this, Who will you obey, your dad or your husband?

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Re: Who Do You Obey? (for The Girls) by Nobody: 10:45am On Jan 02, 2017
I just came to c who they will obey?

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Re: Who Do You Obey? (for The Girls) by okirewaju(f): 10:50am On Jan 02, 2017
A
Re: Who Do You Obey? (for The Girls) by bennyrazz: 10:53am On Jan 02, 2017
since she is married and the husband paid her bride price, the rightful person to obey at that point is her husband. Man and woman shall leave their father and mother's house and become one flesh. They are one.

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Re: Who Do You Obey? (for The Girls) by ouzo1(m): 10:56am On Jan 02, 2017
deebee13:
If you're faced with a situation like this, Who will you obey, your dad or your husband?









Op who will u obey??

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Re: Who Do You Obey? (for The Girls) by Nobody: 10:57am On Jan 02, 2017
deebee13:
If you're faced with a situation like this, Who will you obey, your dad or your husband?
ur beautiful!!!
Re: Who Do You Obey? (for The Girls) by myfantasies(f): 11:27am On Jan 02, 2017
My husband

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Re: Who Do You Obey? (for The Girls) by deebee13(f): 11:27am On Jan 02, 2017
ouzo1:










Op who will u obey??

Lolzzzz... If I give my answer now, it's still people like you that'll crucify me.
Re: Who Do You Obey? (for The Girls) by deebee13(f): 11:27am On Jan 02, 2017
ethene:

ur beautiful!!!

Thank you!
Re: Who Do You Obey? (for The Girls) by Nobody: 11:40am On Jan 02, 2017
deebee13:

Thank you!
can i meet u?
Re: Who Do You Obey? (for The Girls) by deebee13(f): 11:44am On Jan 02, 2017
ethene:

can i meet u?

OK. I'm Deebee13, nice to meet you
Re: Who Do You Obey? (for The Girls) by ouzo1(m): 11:50am On Jan 02, 2017
deebee13:


Lolzzzz... If I give my answer now, it's still people like you that'll crucify me.







Op I always come in peace....I like that ur name
Re: Who Do You Obey? (for The Girls) by Nobody: 2:58pm On Jan 02, 2017
deebee13:


OK. I'm Deebee13, nice to meet you
no I mean can we meet physically?
Re: Who Do You Obey? (for The Girls) by crackhaus: 3:01pm On Jan 02, 2017
I'd like to see who Bukatyne will obey?
Re: Who Do You Obey? (for The Girls) by Fkforyou(m): 5:33pm On Jan 02, 2017
She could lock both of them up and tell them that by the time she comes back, they should make sure they've resolved their differences... smiley

There is always a third choice... cheesy cool

Who says you can't bend the rules to your favor. cool

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Re: Who Do You Obey? (for The Girls) by Ndman: 10:57pm On Jan 02, 2017
Obey your husband, and get into the car, assuming your husband married you properly. Your parents are third parties in your marriage, and don't allow them to disrupt your marriage.
Re: Who Do You Obey? (for The Girls) by bukatyne(f): 11:22pm On Jan 02, 2017
crackhaus:
I'd like to see who Bukatyne will obey?

Receive sense....

This is 2017.

Happy new year cheesy

Seriously... nollywood with all their ghost changing clothes story will reject this script.

What is the feminist choice for?

You mean a husband & a FIL is arguing and the wife is listening on whom to obey? She is not begging/threatening them to stop fighting; she is not looking for people to separate them; she is not siding the party she feels is right; she's listening to whom to obey as a non/anti-feminist?

She is high on crack.
Re: Who Do You Obey? (for The Girls) by keepingmum: 7:01am On Jan 03, 2017
Very easy....my dad
Re: Who Do You Obey? (for The Girls) by Berbierklaus(f): 8:55am On Jan 03, 2017
Sorry dad.
My husband is my new controller your time have pass. grin

Will obey my husband

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Re: Who Do You Obey? (for The Girls) by TheArchangel(f): 9:06am On Jan 03, 2017
I will walk out on both of them after telling them a piece of my mind.....and my husband must be high on crack to argue with my Dad.

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Re: Who Do You Obey? (for The Girls) by crackhaus: 9:45am On Jan 03, 2017
bukatyne:


Receive sense....

This is 2017.

Happy new year cheesy

Seriously... nollywood with all their ghost changing clothes story will reject this script.

What is the feminist choice for?

You mean a husband & a FIL is arguing and the wife is listening on whom to obey? She is not begging/threatening them to stop fighting; she is not looking for people to separate them; she is not siding the party she feels is right; she's listening to whom to obey as a non/anti-feminist?

She is high on crack.
I figure you now know why I mentioned YOU specifically to answer the question. cheesy
I kinda suspected the Bukatyne persona on NL will have a crisis choosing whom to obey, because your true response might contradict your antecedent opinions on this forum. You were not the only one on my list though, but it's you I plan to mind-fvck on this topic.

You still ended up not giving an answer.
You don't know whom to obey between your daddy and your husband? grin

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Re: Who Do You Obey? (for The Girls) by Nobody: 9:58am On Jan 03, 2017
I will obey my father.

Even after marriage I know he contributed more to make me who I am and helped me to be where I am in life. My hubby never spent all the plenty millions or dedicated the time and genuine affection my father gave to me even to the point of being willing to give his life for us.

I will obey my dad. Bride price does not nullify evrything he has done for me, FOH with that husband is the head of house bullshit

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Re: Who Do You Obey? (for The Girls) by Mimzyy(f): 10:16am On Jan 03, 2017
Caught in the middle.
Re: Who Do You Obey? (for The Girls) by crackhaus: 10:23am On Jan 03, 2017
fellis:
I will obey my father.

Even after marriage I know he contributed more to make me who I am and helped me to be where I am in life. My hubby never spent all the plenty millions or dedicated the time and genuine affection my father gave to me even to the point of being willing to give his life for us.

I will obey my dad. Bride price does not nullify evrything he has done for me, FOH with that husband is the head of house bullshit
If your MIL and yourself had a misunderstanding and your husband intervenes, who would you prefer he sides/obeys?

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Re: Who Do You Obey? (for The Girls) by MizzD: 10:33am On Jan 03, 2017
None, till I know what the argument is about.

Who says I have to obey any of the commandos undecided undecided

I guess that's option C cool grin
Re: Who Do You Obey? (for The Girls) by Fkforyou(m): 10:36am On Jan 03, 2017
TheArchangel:
I will walk out on both of them after telling them a piece of my mind.....and my husband must be high on crack to argue with my Dad.


Are you saying one of them (your husband) is more at fault than the other?
Re: Who Do You Obey? (for The Girls) by Nobody: 11:07am On Jan 03, 2017
I will obey my dad. I love him die.

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Re: Who Do You Obey? (for The Girls) by zeb04(f): 11:09am On Jan 03, 2017
my husband argue with my dad? Abi they dont teach them respect where he's coming from.

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Re: Who Do You Obey? (for The Girls) by bukatyne(f): 11:27am On Jan 03, 2017
crackhaus:

I figure you now know why I mentioned YOU specifically to answer the question. cheesy
I kinda suspected the Bukatyne persona on NL will have a crisis choosing whom to obey, because your true response might contradict your antecedent opinions on this forum. You were not the only one on my list though, but it's you I plan to mind-fvck on this topic.

You still ended up not giving an answer.
You don't know whom to obey between your daddy and your husband? grin

Sorry to disappoint you, I don't have a different 'persona' here undecided

And not everybody's marriage dynamic is same; some people are one with their spouses and will present a single front to their parents.

Seriously receive sense.
Re: Who Do You Obey? (for The Girls) by TheArchangel(f): 11:52am On Jan 03, 2017
Fkforyou:



Are you saying one of them (your husband) is more at fault than the other?
Both are not worth listening to if they on a shouting match on each other. My husband ordering me to enter the car as if i am a dog must be mad and then my Dad arguing with his guest must also be mad too. I have to be "madder" than them by ignoring them and walking away.

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Re: Who Do You Obey? (for The Girls) by Fkforyou(m): 12:22pm On Jan 03, 2017
TheArchangel:
Both are not worth listening to if they on a shouting match on each other. My husband ordering me to enter the car as if i am a dog must be mad and then my Dad arguing with his guest must also be mad too. I have to be "madder" than them by ignoring them and walking away.

Cool.
Re: Who Do You Obey? (for The Girls) by bukatyne(f): 1:32pm On Jan 03, 2017
crackhaus:

If your MIL and yourself had a misunderstanding and your husband intervenes, who would you prefer he sides/obeys?

So you expect the husband to intervene if the MIL & Wife is having a shouting match while you are asking a wife who she will obey when hubby & FIL is having a fracas

RS!

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