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Am I Still A Virgin? by zolapeperenpe(f): 12:24am On Jan 08, 2017
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Re: Am I Still A Virgin? by Nobody: 12:42am On Jan 08, 2017
So u we're asking if ur still intact?

Yes.. As long u never had a sexual intercourse (where his dick penetrated ur vagina)..

But don't be afraid if u never bleed when he fingers u, not all women bleed on their first sex.. As long as u know that u never had sex ever before..

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Re: Am I Still A Virgin? by Nobody: 12:50am On Jan 08, 2017
smiley hello please visit your doctor, he ll be able to tell you if your cherry is popped or not, did you feel any pain ??

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Re: Am I Still A Virgin? by iraborosasu: 12:52am On Jan 08, 2017
A friend of mine asked me this exact question some months back, although she inserted her finger herself. so I googled. Its possible to still be a V sha even with all the fingering, provided the hymen isn't broken in the process. Even exercise can break the hymen according to goggle so virginity is confusing for me as a guy. You know how your body is so you decide. The thing is since the guy didn't insert, you're good sis.

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Re: Am I Still A Virgin? by Nobody: 1:03am On Jan 08, 2017
Many virgins don't bleed when they're first penetrated. The hymen can be broken in so many ways, esp during physical activities and because there're different types of hymens in women. The hymen's very thin. if he inserted his joystick but didn't didn't go all the way in because of the pain, he probably stretched it with his dickson. Many hymens break without any blood. I Can't say if you're still a virgin but don't waste time stressing about it. As a man I could care less if a girl's a virgin or not because there're more important things I look for in a woman than her broken hymen.

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Re: Am I Still A Virgin? by escapefromusa(m): 8:29am On Jan 08, 2017
Still a virgin here:
So we engaged in pre-intimacy,then he inserted a finger(which was painful),then after a day or two he tried two fingers(it was painful initially but later the pain was reduced) to my utmost surprise THERE WAS NO BLOOD!



Lost virginity here:
Later he tried using his joystick but i just couldn't stand the pain and he is a very impatient person,so we din't proceed.

Poking and prodding your pu|nanny does not "unvirginize" you. A co|ck has to peruse that vicinity, it does not matter if "he" only put the tip in , as long as a man co|ck has gone into that place, there is not going back.

The "breaking the hymen" is a totally different issue, if a 30 year old flower gets disflowered .. what are the chances she is going to bleed. I seriously don't think older virgins will necessarily bleed when they get dis-flowered.

Hence the word virgin "untouched, unspoiled, untainted, immaculate, pristine, flawless".

No offense but your officially a grade one tokunbo .. lipsrsealed

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Re: Am I Still A Virgin? by Nobody: 8:56am On Jan 08, 2017
Open this thread, talking about the possible reasons why a vigin might not bleed at 1st intercourse. It could help.

https://www.nairaland.com/2613147/six-reasons-why-virgin-may

Better still visit a gyny in a general hospital. Consultation is free there and from what I see, its only consultation you need so that the necessary explanation to relax your mind would be given you. Not drugs or any special treatment.

I don't think it's really a problem though cus not all virgins bleed as stated in that thread. But putting myself in your shoes, nairaland info might not be enough to clear my doubt, that's why I recommended the free hospital consultation. All you need is hospital card.

BTW, you can post it on health section too and hear from the practitioners themselves.

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Re: Am I Still A Virgin? by Ginaz(f): 10:22am On Jan 08, 2017
zolapeperenpe:
Hi everyone,
I posted this on family section so i could get a meaningful advice.
Im a one-girl-one-guy person and i made a promise to myself not to have more than one body count till the end of time so i kept my virginity thruout my uni days.

Fast forward to 3yrs after school,i met this guy,we were in a serious,well-defined relationship(he introduced me to his people and i did the same),we were already talking about settling down,so we felt there was no big deal having sex since we are meant for each other (atleast that was what i thought).

So we engaged in pre-intimacy,then he inserted a finger(which was painful),then after a day or two he tried two fingers(it was painful initially but later the pain was reduced) to my utmost surprise THERE WAS NO BLOOD! Later he tried using his joystick but i just couldn't stand the pain and he is a very impatient person,so we din't proceed. Then the next day,he started acting wierd asking why there was no blood after inserting 2fingers deeply(severally actually). I was just looking lost and confused.

During the period i stayed with him(he just got transfer to another city when we met,we only see like once every 6months,so i decided to spend my leave with him) i discovered alot of things about him,but i kept calm,this guy had numerous ladies on his contact and pay almost all their bills(from buying phones for them,to paying for their hair-do etc),but the most unbearable part was each time i tried to sit him down and have a mature discussion with him,he would never listen.....he automatically assumed i 'nag'. The communication gap was unbearable(even before the 'NO BLOOD' issue,hence i broke up with him)

The breakup wasn't the main reason why i created this thread but to ask if i could still call myself a virgin. I opened NL romance section few mins ago nd i saw 2threads of some guys talking about dis-V their gf and they were shocked not to see a single stain of blood. Trust guys comments; 'those hoes ain't loyal,she's a pathological liar)etc

I don't want complications in my life,and i would't want a situation whereby i would find 'D-one' tomorrow and he'll start calling me a liar.

So,the thing is ;this particular hoe is loyal but is she still a virgin?

Mature advice pls. Thank you

You are still a virgin.

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Re: Am I Still A Virgin? by sisisioge: 10:43am On Jan 08, 2017
Baby girl...You are still technically a virgin since your Virgo knows no man. However, may I suggest you don't go branding yourself to the one? Instead, when things get to the point where you talk about seex, just tell him about your technicality. It is well.

cool

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Re: Am I Still A Virgin? by zolapeperenpe(f): 12:39pm On Jan 08, 2017
Thank you all.
@sisisioge: exactly what i pland doing since i saw those guys comments on romanceland.
No need branding myself as one,lemme just wear my big girl pant and join the 'who virginity elp gang' wink,and if my future hubby saw stain of blood eventually,well cheers! Would just say 'i wanted to surprise u babe,so i din't tell u grin. if not lets just say 2fingers dis-V me(no need explaining what is hard to believe)

Life is too short to be bothered about trivial issues.

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Re: Am I Still A Virgin? by zolapeperenpe(f): 12:40pm On Jan 08, 2017
Ginaz:


You are still a virgin.

Hahahahahhaha.That cute lil baby pic plus ur comment got me ROTFL grin
Re: Am I Still A Virgin? by dreamchaser90(m): 12:49pm On Jan 08, 2017
Whether you're virgin or not is debatable depending on who you ask. Others before me pointed out that you're still a virgin but still many others will argue that you're not because of the pre-intimacy.
But I do think that you're concerned about the wrong things. I know the society's (especially men) obsession with virginity, but that is something that I just can't understand. Why should a men demand that his wife (or girlfriend) be a virgin when he is not??
What defines people is their character and values, not their virginity. You stated that you're a 'one-girl-one-guy person' kind of person, just that one quality is far more important than whether you're a virgin or not. Believe me a man that is worthy of you won't be bothered by such trivial issues.
Cheers smiley

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Re: Am I Still A Virgin? by MARKone(m): 1:43pm On Jan 08, 2017
So we engaged in pre-intimacy,then he inserted a finger(which was painful),then after a day or two he tried two fingers(it was painful initially but later the pain was reduced) to my utmost surprise THERE WAS NO BLOOD!

These lines left me in stitches, was expecting where you'll write the third day he inserted his entire fist. If it is that of a big deal, go to a gyno, some get deflowered without bleeding. But spiritually sister, ya ain't no virgin.

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Re: Am I Still A Virgin? by winetapper: 3:28pm On Jan 08, 2017
zolapeperenpe:
Hi everyone,
I don't want complications in my life,and i would't want a situation whereby i would find 'D-one' tomorrow and he'll start calling me a liar.

So,the thing is ;this particular hoe is loyal but is she still a virgin?

Mature advice pls. Thank you
since you are sincere someborry. Keep yourself as you are. When the right one comes,and you are sure he is the one, be the first to tell him the situation of things at hand down there so he will be aware rather than him discovering himself hence the complications.

If you are sincere someone and your destined Hubby is understandable. Then it will go well, just tell him before he finds out.

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Re: Am I Still A Virgin? by darbeelicous(f): 7:14pm On Jan 08, 2017
zolapeperenpe:
Thank you all.
@sisisioge: exactly what i pland doing since i saw those guys comments on romanceland.
No need branding myself as one,lemme just wear my big girl pant and join the 'who virginity elp gang' wink,and if my future hubby saw stain of blood eventually,well cheers! Would just say 'i wanted to surprise u babe,so i din't tell u grin. if not lets just say 2fingers dis-V me(no need explaining what is hard to believe)

Life is too short to be bothered about trivial issues.
you go girl..........
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I'm so proud of you!
Re: Am I Still A Virgin? by zolapeperenpe(f): 8:29pm On Jan 08, 2017
winetapper:
since you are sincere someborry. Keep yourself as you are. When the right one comes,and you are sure he is the one, be the first to tell him the situation of things at hand down there so he will be aware rather than him discovering himself hence the complications.

If you are sincere someone and your destined Hubby is understandable. Then it will go well, just tell him before he finds out.

Okay. Thanks alot

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Re: Am I Still A Virgin? by zolapeperenpe(f): 8:30pm On Jan 08, 2017
darbeelicous:
you go girl..........
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I'm so proud of you!
*fist bump. cheesy
Re: Am I Still A Virgin? by Nobody: 9:08pm On Jan 08, 2017
Virginity in the true sense transcends breakage of the hymen. If you've watched a million porn videos, then IMO you've already lost your innocence, and are no longer a virgin.

From the conventional POV however, I'd say you're still a virgin.

What puzzles me is why you're having sleepless nights over such a frivolity. Who cares if you've fuckêd an albino gerbil or a silverback high on viagra?

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Re: Am I Still A Virgin? by winetapper: 10:05pm On Jan 08, 2017
zolapeperenpe:


Okay. Thanks alot
you are welcome, so have nothing to worry about
Re: Am I Still A Virgin? by stsinner: 5:35pm On Jan 09, 2017
MARKone:


These lines left me in stitches, was expecting where you'll write the third day he inserted his entire fist.
But spiritually sister, ya ain't no virgin.
lol

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Re: Am I Still A Virgin? by jmoore(m): 8:04pm On Jan 09, 2017
Ife bara aba abago. grin

Hymen is not the only proof of virginity.

Did the penis enter your vagina? If yes, then maybe you should settle for 'tertiary virginity'. grin


My advice for you is to change the security access pattern of your private part from 'slide to unlock' to 30 alphanumerical characters combined with special symbols. Of course, share the password with only your husband.

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Re: Am I Still A Virgin? by Viking007(m): 8:29pm On Jan 09, 2017
Ginaz:


You are still a virgin.
cheesy

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Re: Am I Still A Virgin? by Richy4(m): 11:05pm On Jan 09, 2017
What's so special about being a virgin?...The most important thing is about how you feel about yourself and your spouse.....I agree the guy might like to know that you are innocent and all ....

But please, try and read some books about sex.....Make a research....Just voicing out my opinion because the little story you just told about your encounter, I feel sorry for the next guy; presumably he might even be the husband...Do not make him regret breaking up with the EX as far as bedroom department goes....Get enlightened about this things...not necessarily doing it...but be prepared the way you prepare exams and tests........He will not eat innocence...he will like your innocence for a while but it's gonna be just a while....He will like to be happy the way u will make him feel despite your innocence.......

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Re: Am I Still A Virgin? by zolapeperenpe(f): 9:36am On Jan 10, 2017
*yawns* A beautiful morning to you all kiss
Re: Am I Still A Virgin? by jashar(f): 7:30pm On Jan 10, 2017
'what's dead may never die....'

In my humble opinion, don't sweat it. Just avoid any scenario like that till you're married.

Re: Am I Still A Virgin? by zolapeperenpe(f): 8:50pm On Jan 10, 2017
jashar:
'what's dead may never die....'

In my humble opinion, don't sweat it. Just avoid any scenario like that till you're married.

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Re: Am I Still A Virgin? by zolapeperenpe(f): 9:00pm On Jan 10, 2017
Richy4:
What's so special about being a virgin?...The most important thing is about how you feel about yourself and your spouse.....I agree the guy might like to know that you are innocent and all ....

But please, try and read some books about sex.....Make a research....Just voicing out my opinion because the little story you just told about your encounter, I feel sorry for the next guy; presumably he might even be the husband...Do not make him regret breaking up with the EX as far as bedroom department goes....Get enlightened about this things...not necessarily doing it...but be prepared the way you prepare exams and tests........He will not eat innocence...he will like your innocence for a while but it's gonna be just a while....He will like to be happy the way u will make him feel despite your innocence.......

Re: Am I Still A Virgin? by jashar(f): 9:59pm On Jan 10, 2017
grin cheesy grin
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Re: Am I Still A Virgin? by Rukkydelta(f): 9:51am On Jan 11, 2017
You can check it yourself if the hymen is there or not but if you can't You can asked from a friend's help that will be if you have a very trusted and good female pal ask her to help you look through if your hymen is intact or not
Re: Am I Still A Virgin? by AngelicBeing: 4:43pm On Jan 11, 2017
Ginaz:


You are still a virgin.
grin grin tongue
Re: Am I Still A Virgin? by Nobody: 6:25pm On Jan 11, 2017
funny thread grin grin

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Re: Am I Still A Virgin? by yedidiah(m): 9:20am On Jan 12, 2017
I think you should be more worried about the choices you are making or made with that guy than whether or not you are still a virgin.

Chances are that you most likely will make the same mistake again.

NB: you don't exchange something Tangible for an intangible or negligible one.

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