Very wrong!

mccoy47:


Then Linda ikeji should be married by now!

Mtchewww. Kid talk

You think she doesn't have suitors?

Gflat:
Actually this is the right thing to do... No parent want their daughters to suffer from the hands of a broke boy. Let me share my thoughts in this.

Let's take this from the religious community: A woman is mostly believed to be soft hearted, an item of delicacy and someone you care for (Men are designed to care for women that is why they are referred to as the HEAD)

Enough of the sideway talks. Let's accelerate the hammer towards the nail.

Ladies make sure you have nothing to do with broke boys. As accurate as this sounds many girls will still try to be Sentimental about the golden fact. Broke boys have nothing to offer.


Ok let me give you a quick scenario.

Yester-evening I was at a restaurant on the island just to relax and get a bit of serenity. While I was chilling with what I had requested for earlier, I noticed a couple sitting opposite my table.
I could feel the love from her heart and the optimism for a better future for both of them but what Spoilt the picture was Their table has all sort of similarities to the Sahara desert.

It is so embarrassing to say as beautiful as the lady looked he couldn't make her feel good on a date and later on he got her a chicken pie and ice cream. I felt disgusted at the sight of this!

Ok, having mentioned that, I want to inform you ladies about a Proven point.

No guy will choose you over a richer lady.

This might seem funny to you but that is the truth. That guy that keeps reminding you how much he loves and adores you?
That guy who wouldn't stop sending you good morning/good night messages?
That guy that sounds romantic and sweeps you off your feet?
He will desert you at the twinkle of an eye immediately he Uncovers a rich lady.

So tell me ladies, why are you forcing this to work with him?
Why are you suffering when someone who isn't looking half as good as you are is being treated like a real woman?
Why trek under the hot sun then later jump into a hot distressful danfo bus while your mates are sitting with their man in his latest Ac filled cool machine?

It is no news that Women are emotional beings but being emotional shouldn't equals stupidity. If you don't care about your future at least care about the future of your kids and their upbringing.

PS: Don't quote me to spill your conundrum. I don't reply idiots

Being broke is painful. I've been there b4 but thank God I'm out. Life is in phases.
I wouldn't want my sister or anyone I love to marry a broken man. On the other hand, it is rude to ask someone how much he earns. If he tells you where he works, you can put 2 and 2 together to determine his wage.

then they are no longer inlaws rather investors

Gflat:
Actually this is the right thing to do... No parent want their daughters to suffer from the hands of a broke boy. Let me share my thoughts in this.

Let's take this from the religious community: A woman is mostly believed to be soft hearted, an item of delicacy and someone you care for (Men are designed to care for women that is why they are referred to as the HEAD)

Enough of the sideway talks. Let's accelerate the hammer towards the nail.

Ladies make sure you have nothing to do with broke boys. As accurate as this sounds many girls will still try to be Sentimental about the golden fact. Broke boys have nothing to offer.


Ok let me give you a quick scenario.

Yester-evening I was at a restaurant on the island just to relax and get a bit of serenity. While I was chilling with what I had requested for earlier, I noticed a couple sitting opposite my table.
I could feel the love from her heart and the optimism for a better future for both of them but what Spoilt the picture was Their table has all sort of similarities to the Sahara desert.

It is so embarrassing to say as beautiful as the lady looked he couldn't make her feel good on a date and later on he got her a chicken pie and ice cream. I felt disgusted at the sight of this!

Ok, having mentioned that, I want to inform you ladies about a Proven point.

No guy will choose you over a richer lady.

This might seem funny to you but that is the truth. That guy that keeps reminding you how much he loves and adores you?
That guy who wouldn't stop sending you good morning/good night messages?
That guy that sounds romantic and sweeps you off your feet?
He will desert you at the twinkle of an eye immediately he Uncovers a rich lady.

So tell me ladies, why are you forcing this to work with him?
Why are you suffering when someone who isn't looking half as good as you are is being treated like a real woman?
Why trek under the hot sun then later jump into a hot distressful danfo bus while your mates are sitting with their man in his latest Ac filled cool machine?

It is no news that Women are emotional beings but being emotional shouldn't equals stupidity. If you don't care about your future at least care about the future of your kids and their upbringing.

PS: Don't quote me to spill your conundrum. I don't reply idiots

This happened to me, only that there were other very funny questions I was being asked. It wasn't even a formal introduction, I just attended a programme they organized and met the dad and then the interview began. Uncontrolled without tact. That was the last day I saw the parents.

It doesn't end well. The girl looses out at the end. We met like a year after and I was married and doing very very well.

Part of the questions was are you going to get married within the next one year to which I answered by God's grace and God actually made it happen.

A million dollar question.

Mrnairalandd:


There is honour in Silence more often than not... You don't need to insult someone to pass your message across.

All you need to say in that situation is nothing. Just laugh stylishly and say it's well Ma.

i never said I'll insult her.

It's not only wrong but shameful too

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Gflat:
Actually this is the right thing to do... No parent want their daughters to suffer from the hands of a broke boy. Let me share my thoughts in this.

Let's take this from the religious community: A woman is mostly believed to be soft hearted, an item of delicacy and someone you care for (Men are designed to care for women that is why they are referred to as the HEAD)

Enough of the sideway talks. Let's accelerate the hammer towards the nail.

Ladies make sure you have nothing to do with broke boys. As accurate as this sounds many girls will still try to be Sentimental about the golden fact. Broke boys have nothing to offer.


Ok let me give you a quick scenario.

Yester-evening I was at a restaurant on the island just to relax and get a bit of serenity. While I was chilling with what I had requested for earlier, I noticed a couple sitting opposite my table.
I could feel the love from her heart and the optimism for a better future for both of them but what Spoilt the picture was Their table has all sort of similarities to the Sahara desert.

It is so embarrassing to say as beautiful as the lady looked he couldn't make her feel good on a date and later on he got her a chicken pie and ice cream. I felt disgusted at the sight of this!

Ok, having mentioned that, I want to inform you ladies about a Proven point.

No guy will choose you over a richer lady.

This might seem funny to you but that is the truth. That guy that keeps reminding you how much he loves and adores you?
That guy who wouldn't stop sending you good morning/good night messages?
That guy that sounds romantic and sweeps you off your feet?
He will desert you at the twinkle of an eye immediately he Uncovers a rich lady.

So tell me ladies, why are you forcing this to work with him?
Why are you suffering when someone who isn't looking half as good as you are is being treated like a real woman?
Why trek under the hot sun then later jump into a hot distressful danfo bus while your mates are sitting with their man in his latest Ac filled cool machine?

It is no news that Women are emotional beings but being emotional shouldn't equals stupidity. If you don't care about your future at least care about the future of your kids and their upbringing.

PS: Don't quote me to spill your conundrum. I don't reply idiots

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I love to quote idîots that always want to sound intelligent.

well I can say is wrong and is right


it might be wrong if that's his first time of visiting the parent


it might be right if he had been visiting them. some parent really care for their daughter. if they're rich they might want to know how you manage yourself monthly perhaps they want to develop you financially

my cousin in laws have once ask that question and they backed the QST up with issuance of 6million cheque, for him to develop himself most esp when the parent knows their daughter really love the guy and they can't separate them


this mostly occurred in a rich family homes

Ujoan:


You think she doesn't have suitors?

Understand what I quoted before u start quoting my statement.
He implied in his statement that No guy would marry girl when he has seen anoda girl dat is richer

And for me that is a flawed statement cuz less than 10% of guys marry a girl cuz of her financial status, infact at a time her wealth acts as a repellant to potential suitors. I for example wouldn't like a bride dat is wealthier than me. Hence I used Linda ikeji as an example how a girls money isn't a criteria wen it comes to love & marriage

It depends on the kind of family. If they are rich, it may mean they want to get u a better job or be sure that you can keep up with their daughter's standard.

If they are poor, it means the stupid woman is poaching. To know how much they will hammer on you so that their family story will change.

I'm in a similar situation but I've started handling it before the marriage.

doskie:
i never said I'll insult her.

Perhaps we are from different ethnic background. However, as a Yoruba dude, it ll be rude and disrespectful to ask your mother-in-law such question...

Imagine the curiosity. If my Inlaw asks me that kinda question, I could walk out on them or I might reply with a cool insult.
They can ask me what I do for living. Not how much I make.

ndcide:


If he earned 800k monthly and suddenly lost the job after marriage, will they still look out for their daughter?

yes oh

Run for your life... dat na one chance...

They should hv asked there daughter instead

DRIFTyKING:
So i just Got this Story from a visitor, he says

” I have a cousin who is in a very serious relationship, and then he decided to meet with the lady’s parents, and introduce himself to them. Alongside the discussion, the mother of the lady popped the question, “How much do you earn Monthly?”. This left my friend speechless, though he was least expecting it but, he had to cover up…..Though he earns a decent sum.

Please i wanna know whether its right for a parent(s) to ask such unbiased question?


http://otownloaded.com/wrong-fiancees-parents-ask-much-earn-monthly/

sorry to say but only a very uncivilized and uncouth parent will ask such a repulsive question. Wtf?

mccoy47:


Understand what I quoted before u start quoting my statement.
He implied in his statement that No guy would marry girl when he has seen anoda girl dat is richer

And for me that is a flawed statement cuz less than 10% of guys marry a girl cuz of her financial status, infact at a time her wealth acts as a repellant to potential suitors. I for example wouldn't like a bride dat is wealthier than me. Hence I used Linda ikeji as an example how a girls money isn't a criteria wen it comes to love & marriage

The general assumption from that post you referenced was that most guys will go for a richer girl, because she's rich.

So when you wondered why Linda isn't then married since she's so rich, I wanted to know if you thought those guys weren't coming of her?

Of course she has guys all over begging to marry her because she's rich. . . Many broke girls her age are not even getting second looks from guys not to talk of proposals.

The fact that's she's taking her time to choose a husband doesn't mean she doesn't have suitors.

Mrnairalandd:


Perhaps we are from different ethnic background. However, as a Yoruba dude, it ll be rude and disrespectful to ask your mother-in-law such question...

dude I'm not even a cultural man btw.. Why should she ask how much I'm earning? What has true love gotta do with wealth. If I'm a multi millionaire and i marry her daughter, will she stop me from being very stingy? Or keeping babes outside?

Aregs:
They are just looking out for their daughter ni, they don't want her to suffer

They can as well keep their daughter in their house. Can they simply ask what he is doing for a living instead of wanting to know the exact amount he earns monthly?

Gflat:
Actually this is the right thing to do... No parent want their daughters to suffer from the hands of a broke boy. Let me share my thoughts in this.

Let's take this from the religious community: A woman is mostly believed to be soft hearted, an item of delicacy and someone you care for (Men are designed to care for women that is why they are referred to as the HEAD)

Enough of the sideway talks. Let's accelerate the hammer towards the nail.

Ladies make sure you have nothing to do with broke boys. As accurate as this sounds many girls will still try to be Sentimental about the golden fact. Broke boys have nothing to offer.


Ok let me give you a quick scenario.

Yester-evening I was at a restaurant on the island just to relax and get a bit of serenity. While I was chilling with what I had requested for earlier, I noticed a couple sitting opposite my table.
I could feel the love from her heart and the optimism for a better future for both of them but what Spoilt the picture was Their table has all sort of similarities to the Sahara desert.

It is so embarrassing to say as beautiful as the lady looked he couldn't make her feel good on a date and later on he got her a chicken pie and ice cream. I felt disgusted at the sight of this!

Ok, having mentioned that, I want to inform you ladies about a Proven point.

No guy will choose you over a richer lady.

This might seem funny to you but that is the truth. That guy that keeps reminding you how much he loves and adores you?
That guy who wouldn't stop sending you good morning/good night messages?
That guy that sounds romantic and sweeps you off your feet?
He will desert you at the twinkle of an eye immediately he Uncovers a rich lady.

So tell me ladies, why are you forcing this to work with him?
Why are you suffering when someone who isn't looking half as good as you are is being treated like a real woman?
Why trek under the hot sun then later jump into a hot distressful danfo bus while your mates are sitting with their man in his latest Ac filled cool machine?

It is no news that Women are emotional beings but being emotional shouldn't equals stupidity. If you don't care about your future at least care about the future of your kids and their upbringing.

PS: Don't quote me to spill your conundrum. I don't reply idiots

Are you trying to say that girls should never marry if the man coming for them isnt rich enough?....

lol...look dude...

It isnt about the money... it involve so many things...

Accepting a man who is rich but doesn't give her the happiness she ought to have experience as a lady...

Accepting a man who is rich yet a gay? only married coz of family pressure?

Accepting a man who is rich but flirts and live a promiscuous lifestyle?


lots of rich men have dirty lifestyles dude... especially the young&rich class....

many of them cant treat a girl well xcept buying them gifts....


btw...I believe d mother of the gilr only asked to know..perhaps she had had a bad experience before and she wants to correct it and she must have asked just to know if the little thing he earns is enough... i've been asked that too and I told them the range of my income without blowing it open...

What a gold digging inlaw! Anyway if u really trust the characters of your fiancee u can go ahead otherwise run for your life.

"What do you do for a living" is reasonable enough, from there they can use their sense to figure things out.

Gbenusi no be atenu



me go yarn my in-law ni



if u wanna know how much i earn


Approach CCB

DRIFTyKING:
So i just Got this Story from a visitor, he says

” I have a cousin who is in a very serious relationship, and then he decided to meet with the lady’s parents, and introduce himself to them. Alongside the discussion, the mother of the lady popped the question, “How much do you earn Monthly?”. This left my friend speechless, though he was least expecting it but, he had to cover up…..Though he earns a decent sum.

Please i wanna know whether its right for a parent(s) to ask such unbiased question?


http://otownloaded.com/wrong-fiancees-parents-ask-much-earn-monthly/

very very wrong.. the question is a time bomb yes a disaster going somewhere to happen.

Mrnairalandd:
It's wrong

Trust me on this, your cousin is about to get himself into a family trap and he ll live to regret the decision of marrying that lady. You know why, that question alone reveal how that mother-in-law is and of course her relationship with her daughter.

If she is bold enough to ask your cousin that question, you can now imagine what his life ll look like after marriage.

The dude should be on the run by now...

That's not true. They shouldn't have asked him dat kind of questn but dat only proves one tin... Dey don't see ur cousin as some1 who can take care of their daughter probably because he looks too young or sometin lik dat

If you dare ask me this kind question, you might as Well save your daughter for a richer man....I can only appeal that statement if their daughter is à go gétter and an économic asset

Nothing wrong if it was your daughter, you too will ask. Parents will always look for the best interest for their children. No one wants their child to marry a lazy bum. As long you can provide that you can hustle or work or put food on the table, then you are good.

yes... its very wrong. sort out yourself before going to marriage, there is how you will present your self and nobody will dare question you about the financial status. Mind you the police and Road safety doesnt ask every body for their particulars on the road

Very rude woman.

Even the man's own mother may not know what he earns

She should have simply asked what he did for a living

DRIFTyKING:
So i just Got this Story from a visitor, he says

” I have a cousin who is in a very serious relationship, and then he decided to meet with the lady’s parents, and introduce himself to them. Alongside the discussion, the mother of the lady popped the question, “How much do you earn Monthly?”. This left my friend speechless, though he was least expecting it but, he had to cover up…..Though he earns a decent sum.

Please i wanna know whether its right for a parent(s) to ask such unbiased question?


http://otownloaded.com/wrong-fiancees-parents-ask-much-earn-monthly/

If your parents know how much you are earning, then it might not be wrong for them to know.

...but the question go get as e go be sha.