platinumnk:


whats wrong with them?  

they add there own aroma to the food

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look, u alll are beginning to annoy me sef.
man must wash plate to prove his love, nonsense !!!

this has nothing to do with washing dishes, show her some DAMN RESPECT!! cant you help her out? how is it wrong to wash the dishes? where is your brain? still living in the 1600's or what?
i smell bullshit!
nonsense!

Lazy women !!
cant just do what you were created to do as women !!
next thing now, na to ask us to dey wash cloth, sweep house, and who knows what they will come up with,

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Lazy women !!
cant just do what you were created to do as women !!
next thing now, na to ask us to dey wash cloth, sweep house, and who knows what they will come up with,

you better get the hell out of here before i chase you out!
are you stupid or something?

THE-AMAKA:

this has nothing to do with washing dishes, show her some DAMN RESPECT!! cant you help her out? how is it wrong to wash the dishes? where is your brain? still living in the 1600'S or what?
i smell bullshit!
nonsense!

I laff in vietnamese

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look, u alll are beginning to annoy me sef.
man must wash plate to prove his love, nonsense !!!

bottom line, you're one of those ignorant,naive and stupid nigerian men who thinks a woman should do all the housework.grow up and become more civilized and most importantly travel. your eyes will open more and know that there's nothing wrong with a man being in the kitchen. i hate men like you and unfortunately you won't be the last with such small brains

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Lazy women !!
cant just do what you were created to do as women !!
next thing now, na to ask us to dey wash cloth, sweep house, and who knows what they will come up with,

I advice you go back to sleep in the 60s

@post

i personally think it is WRONG for the lady to demand that her partner does the dishes.  

if he decides to do it (which i wont allow if i am not busy), fine but it is wrong to ask him to do it.

personally, i will prefer to have my partner keep me company by sitting on a chair in the kitchen (gisting and laughing with me or flipping through a magazine or something) while am busy with the chores or he breezes into the kitchen as often as possible to say ''pele dear'' or ''ku ise darling'' or ''well done, iyawo'' while i am at it      

THE-AMAKA:

this has nothing to do with washing dishes, show her some DAMN RESPECT!! cant you help her out? how is it wrong to wash the dishes? where is your brain? still living in the 1600's or what?
i smell bullshit!
nonsense!

look ama, its one thing to ask for help, its onoda thing to tell me i have to do it, Bc as her guy, we have to share the house-hold chores,
what kind of nonsense is that?? and u're all here supporting her??

whitelexi:

Bros abeg bone. . .  There's a difference between being single and having a babe/wife.

Nothing dey for washing your dishes, but when u bring someone into your life, you'd like to think she was homely enough to keep a home!

that is essential wife-material attitude, nobody wants potential-divorce-material, and from their attitude u cannot miss them.

I seriously doubt that she really needed help washing the dishes. Who says washing the dishes make a happy home.  Obviously the man has a severe case of romantic imagination so he need to leave the girl so she can find someone better.

As for me, if I wash plates with my sweetie , washing two plates will take 2 hours

Igwe.:

they add there own aroma to the food

hmmm the nigerian plastics or american plastics? Ill have to smell them next time I use them.  

OH Funky baby, where have u been??
u are the true definition of a WOMAN !! Bless u !

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look, u alll are beginning to annoy me sef.
man must wash plate to prove his love,  nonsense !!!

ah ah, there's is nothing wrong in washing the dishes once in a while, i know that can only come when she's busy or just not fit. don't let  her notice this kinda ego in you. she could put you on a compulsory half chop/ration

funkybaby:

@post

i personally think it is WRONG for the lady to demand that her partner does the dishes.  

if he decides to do it (which i wont allow if i am not busy), fine but it is wrong to ask him to do it.

personally, i will prefer to have my partner keep me company by sitting on a chair in the kitchen (gisting and laughing with me or flipping through a magazine or something) while am busy with the chores or he breezes into the kitchen as often as possible to say ''pele dear'' or ''ku ise darling'' or ''well done, iyawo'' while i am at it      

This is what I told my ex- there are still women who think like you think and now I have proof

funkybaby:

@post

i personally think it is WRONG for the lady to demand that her partner does the dishes.  

if he decides to do it (which i wont allow if i am not busy), fine but it is wrong to ask him to do it.

personally, i will prefer to have my partner keep me company by sitting on a chair in the kitchen (gisting and laughing with me or flipping through a magazine or something) while am busy with the chores or he breezes into the kitchen as often as possible to say ''pele dear'' or ''ku ise darling'' or ''well done, iyawo'' while i am at it      

before now, youll become his pet. its better you share the chores if he isnt doing anything.
remember we have passed the days of the Enlightenment.

@ poster
i thought you said she asked you to do it? why the sudden change of heart? now she forced you? or did it just feel like it. lol

ebinom:


bottom line, you're one of those ignorant,naive and stupid nigerian men who thinks a woman should do all the housework.grow up and become more civilized and most importantly travel. your eyes will open more and know that there's nothing wrong with a man being in the kitchen. i hate men like you and unfortunately you won't be the last with such small brains

Until they travel out of 9ja then its hard for them to change their ways

so he need to leave the girl so she can find someone better.
someone better is one who would wash the plates ??
OMG !! u ladies are can so incredibly annoying !!

platinumnk:

I seriously doubt that she really needed help washing the dishes. Who says washing the dishes make a happy home.  Obviously the man has a severe case of romantic imagination so he need to leave the girl so she can find someone better.

As for me, if I wash plates with my sweetie , washing two plates will take 2 hours

That one is different, my agro is when it becomes mandatory to do it when u have a woman in the house!  Doing it to make her feel good is different, when she demands it - leave her to go find a mugu who will.

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OH Funky baby, where have u been??
u are the true definition of a WOMAN !! Bless u !

Sharap dia ma friend

funkybaby:

@post

i personally think it is WRONG for the lady to demand that her partner does the dishes.  

if he decides to do it (which i wont allow if i am not busy), fine but it is wrong to ask him to do it.

personally, i will prefer to have my partner keep me company by sitting on a chair in the kitchen (gisting and laughing with me or flipping through a magazine or something) while am busy with the chores or he breezes into the kitchen as often as possible to say ''pele dear'' or ''ku ise darling'' or ''well done, iyawo'' while i am at it      

What happens if you both work 9-5, have like 3 kids to attend to when you get back home, cook for them whilst he sits and watches all sort of sport on tv and you are tired around 8pm already thinking abt next days work?
Marriages are meant to be equal partnership and lovers are meant to be help eachother except you go and marry someone that's like 10 yrs or so older than you.
Wrong if the lady is a full house wife but def needed if both are working class

whitelexi, tell them !!
Nonsense, im so happy some people wif sense are here now !

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so he need to leave the girl so she can find someone better.
someone better is one who would wash the plates ??
OMG !! u ladies are can so incredibly annoying !!

yes you need to leave the girl. I need a partner who sees me on his level not below him.

whitelexi:

That one is different, my agro is when it becomes mandatory to do it when u have a woman in the house!  Doing it to make her feel good is different, when she demands it - leave her to go find a mugu who will.

his quote was that she asked her, so after cooking  for him, he cant wash his plate, just sit there and rub his belly ??    
some of yall dont need wives you need a house maid and a blow up doll

@jay bee, werrin i do u now??
wife say wash plate, i nor gree, i tell u, u dey tell me sharraap?

@OP
Alright calm down, they're only plates, don't do it if you don't want to  

platinumnk:

yes you need to leave the girl. I need a partner who sees me on his level not below him.


his quote was that he asked her, so after cooking  for him, he cant wash his plate, just sit there and rub his belly ??    
some of yall dont need wives you need a house maid and a blow up doll

Its a simple choice init? As long as the home is kept neat, we really dont care if she gets a maid, i for one was brought up to restrain from the kitchen, i only cook cos i have to do so as a bachelor and its very distasteful as it is.

jay bee:

Sharap dia ma friend

What happens if you both work 9-5, have like 3 kids to attend to when you get back home, cook for them whilst he sits and watches all sort of sport on tv and you are tired around 8pm already thinking abt next days work?
Marriages are meant to be equal partnership and lovers are meant to be help eachother except you go and marry someone that's like 10 yrs or so older than you.
Wrong if the lady is a full house wife but def needed if both are working class

Bless you my brother, one with sense, you are now added to my list of the wise men  

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@jay bee, werrin i do u now??
wife say wash plate, i nor gree, i tell u, u dey tell me sharraap?

dude no pun intended na.
u be billionaire wey dey too big to wash plate? if someone like u become president of Nigeria all women go surfer be dat oh.
lol

I need a partner who sees me on his level not below him.

A man will always be a man, u can never be on the same level wif us ! we were created to be above you ladies !!

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@jay bee, werrin i do u now??
wife say wash plate, i nor gree,  i tell u, u dey tell me sharraap?

Lol, what was she doing at that time?

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A man will always be a man, u can never be on the same level wif us ! we were created to be above you ladies !!

PREACH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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I need a partner who sees me on his level not below him.

A man will always be a man, u can never be on the same level wif us ! we were created to be above you ladies !!

NOW!!!! you have overstayed your WELCOME!
GET OUT!  

whitelexi:

Its a simple choice init? As long as the home is kept neat, we really dont care if she gets a maid, i for one was brought up to restrain from the kitchen, i only cook cos i have to do so as a bachelor and its very distasteful as it is.

Distasteful to cook? so if ur wife was coming home late, you wouldnt clean and cook?

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I need a partner who sees me on his level not below him.

A man will always be a man, u can never be on the same level wif us ! we were created to be above you ladies !!

na wa for this ur mentality oh.

whitelexi:

PREACH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

you dey craze?!?!

shaaaa they wan chase me to the white man ooooo.
im tryna keep my faith in naija guys.
anyway i wont marry any of them that are like YOU!