a few minutes ago I was a having a conversation with some ladies, and I would like your view. One lady said her boyfriend is very rich and this lady is average, and she does not want this man to do anything financially for her. She says that when she does not have money, she would rather make a plan than ask for a man to assist. even if she cant afford something, she would rather wait till she can afford it. she and this man have been dating ever since they were kids and he is planning on marrying her. the only thing is that she is not ready emotionally, to be someone's wife and needs to be a little bit matured and ready first. And the other ladies ( a group ), was against her and they were saying she is either stupid or bewitched. They said that in their lives they had never bought phones for themselves, and whatever their man buy, their man have to register by their names ( by the ladies name), they say it is stupid of her to want to move in with the guy only when her bride price has been paid and she has worn her white dress. they say she should rather take her bag and move in with the guy, because they had been dating long. they are saying she is stupid that she would rather focus on studying towards degrees, because she should rather focus on making a baby because her bones will make it harder for her to make a baby in the future. she argues that she can do yoga in order to make labour easier ( for the future birth and not anytime soon), she argues that her brain will also make it hard for her to study, if she waits till she is old in order to pursue her degree. now they all got in to a heated debate and it was basically one lady against 4. she says she is not a gold digger and not a prostitute and she would rather wait till she is officially his wife before she allows him to spend for her. she says she wants him to spend for his family ( wife and kids), rather than just a girlfriend. she is an independent humble lady and her friends think she is stupid for wanting to do things her way. she and this man practically raised each other, and these ladies had been in may different relationships before and they are not married. the only married one stays with an unemployed husband and she is a cleaner by profession, and the other one who is married smokes weed and looks very rough. she is the one who says whatever her man buys, it has to be on her name and she always tells her husband that should they divorce, she will take everything and leave him with just the bad. All the 4 ladies are cleaners, and this lady is Quality Analyst. Who is wrong here and who is right. is she stupid? r they gold diggers? what is going on. please give your views.

When u summarise you will get better answers.

jamb question

amnesty7:
When u summarise you will get better answers.

well assist me because I do not know how to

slimthugchimee2:
jamb question

what is a jamb?

Op please modify abeg

Space it out ! Don't even know what we should be reading here

Kikikiki gold digger takes and offers you nothing, the other ones take and offer you a service.

ZeeAfrica:


well assist me because I do not know how to

I didn't read the whole of your post but i know there's a very mundane, i mean gigantic and cumbersome difference between a "prostitute" and a "golddigger"

iamDaisy:
Kikikiki gold digger takes and offers you nothing, the other ones take and offer you a service.

really? which category of both are you?



just asking, no offense!

Park01:
really? which category of both are you?



just asking, no offense!

ask those at home first, no offense iranu.

iamDaisy:
ask those at home first, no offense iranu.

your home? drop your address

firstking01:
I didn't read the whole of your post but i know there's a very mundane, i mean gigantic and cumbersome difference between a "prostitute" and a "golddigger"

so give the difference then

Bumbae1:
Op please modify abeg

Space it out ! Don't even know what we should be reading here

dear if u don't wana read don't read. no one is forcing u to

iamDaisy:
Kikikiki gold digger takes and offers you nothing, the other ones take and offer you a service.

ooh, okay. I see

The person hovering with the moniker "Theslyone2" has already done justice to that question....screw up and view it.



Cc zeeafrica, see this...

DeepFriedPuff:
Simple sex worker = getting hustled

GoldDiggger = hustler

hmm, okay.

ZeeAfrica:


dear if u don't wana read don't read. no one is forcing u to

Just trying to help you dear , its a good topic but if you space u can get more comments maybe even FP who knows

TheSlyone2:
Prostitution is contractual, In that nothing goes for nothing. She offer her body, you pay her up, no strings attached.

A gold digger is certainly after what you have. Most times, one of the parties involved is usually at the receiving end.

Prostitution is a profession, gold digging is a modernise theft.

hhmm okay, I hear ya

iamDaisy:
Kikikiki gold digger takes and offers you nothing, the other ones take and offer you a service.

Gold diggers also offers sex .. they dont just get Gold they dig too same thing just that Gold diggers dont always offer sex , company , trophy chic, some even offer marriage to clean the man out then move on .. both of them are hustlers non are good

They just need to get a Job ! And free these men

Bumbae1:

Just trying to help you dear , its a good topic but if you space u can get more comments maybe even FP who knows

m not looking for fp, and I am not writing for a masters degree here, I am writing for a social network. no need for u to "help" me. stick to the topic and don't try to shift the focus DEAR

Every prostitute is a gold digger, not all gold diggers are prostitutes.

ZeeAfrica:


m not looking for fp, and I am not writing for a masters degree here, I am writing for a social network. no need for u to "help" me. stick to the topic and don't try to shift the focus DEAR

Didnt change the topic , just constructive criticism you should be open to everyone's opinion when creating topics for all anyway. ^^^ i don ans Dear

Bumbae1:


Didnt change the topic , just constructive criticism you should be open to everyone's opinion when creating topics for all anyway. ^^^ i don ans Dear

M sooooooo not in the mood for all this. whatever rocks your boat hey.

GOLDDIGGERS: they work as manual labourers at gold mine digging gold.
PROSTITUTES: they work company that is known globally, and in that company, almost everybod is a boss. Some of them make it big and retire to quitely while some die on the line of duty. It is the only company that have branches in every cities in the world.

Theslyone2 is indeed a sly being

TheSlyone2:
Prostitution is contractual, In that nothing goes for nothing. She offer her body, you pay her up, no strings attached.

A gold digger is certainly after what you have. Most times, one of the parties involved is usually at the receiving end.

Prostitution is a profession, gold digging is a modernise theft.

Modernised theft indeed...lolz

Nma27:
Modernised theft indeed...lolz

You sound like you are advocating for them?

TheSlyone2:

You are so wrong auntie. The contrary is true.

All gold diggers are prostitutes, not all prostitutes are gold diggers

Hmmmm... Ok