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| Will U Wash The Plates And Share The House Chores Equally With Your Wife ? by Nobody: 8:48am On Jan 27, 2017 |
I happen to have a female friend serving in my primary place of assignment(PPA) who is more like a feminist. She always have this mentality that men and women are equal in the society(which I'm not disputing that). But the issue here is, she's also having that mentality towards any man she will settle down with. We got into an argument few days ago and she insisted that when she's married, that the house chores must be shared equally with the husband. And that if at all she want to do these chores, that its shouldn't look as a right to the husband. She even went as far as saying after dining with the husband, that he is expected to clear the table and wash the plates being the fact that she went to the market and she prepared the meal. Some weeks ago she made me believe she will cook for me while I went to watch ManU game against Hull city, but to my greatest surprise, I got home meeting the shiny empty plates I washed earlier on, I would have slept on an empty stomach if not for my garri and beverages that rescued me. Her excuse this morning was that she slept off. I couldn't get angry because she's not my wife yet. So I'm throwing these questions to the guys in the house, will you allow such attitude from your wife ? Will you share the house chores equally with her ? And will you clear the table after dining with her ? To the ladies, do you support her views ? if yes, tell us why. Let's talk NL'dners |
| Re: Will U Wash The Plates And Share The House Chores Equally With Your Wife ? by Nobody: 8:51am On Jan 27, 2017 |
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| Re: Will U Wash The Plates And Share The House Chores Equally With Your Wife ? by ucheHapers(m): 8:57am On Jan 27, 2017 |
I won't even date such a lady... 5 Likes |
| Re: Will U Wash The Plates And Share The House Chores Equally With Your Wife ? by SexyNairalander: 9:02am On Jan 27, 2017 |
booked Nothing dey there |
| Re: Will U Wash The Plates And Share The House Chores Equally With Your Wife ? by Tynasparks(f): 9:06am On Jan 27, 2017 |
Hell No!!! .... Such words shouldn't be heard of.... Some feminist ehn i just cant understand them. |
| Re: Will U Wash The Plates And Share The House Chores Equally With Your Wife ? by Nobody: 9:07am On Jan 27, 2017 |
She is right though I'm not a feminist |
| Re: Will U Wash The Plates And Share The House Chores Equally With Your Wife ? by Nobody: 9:08am On Jan 27, 2017 |
Give them a yard they would ask for a mile! Wash once ... Wash till you die! Cook once .... Cook till you die Sweep once .... Sweep till you die Bang once.............. 3 Likes |
| Re: Will U Wash The Plates And Share The House Chores Equally With Your Wife ? by Sandydayziz(f): 9:15am On Jan 27, 2017 |
That's so wrong... I'd never allow my husband kheengjay do such, I don't see it as a duty buh respect.... Except he's doing it on special a occasion like romantic dinner 2 Likes |
| Re: Will U Wash The Plates And Share The House Chores Equally With Your Wife ? by Nobody: 9:15am On Jan 27, 2017 |
Hmmm |
| Re: Will U Wash The Plates And Share The House Chores Equally With Your Wife ? by Nobody: 9:25am On Jan 27, 2017 |
I love ur comment Tynasparks: 1 Like |
| Re: Will U Wash The Plates And Share The House Chores Equally With Your Wife ? by Mustiboy(m): 9:26am On Jan 27, 2017 |
God forbid.
I can only do it when I feel like. 1 Like |
| Re: Will U Wash The Plates And Share The House Chores Equally With Your Wife ? by DozieInc(m): 9:28am On Jan 27, 2017 |
Tynasparks: |
| Re: Will U Wash The Plates And Share The House Chores Equally With Your Wife ? by Nobody: 9:36am On Jan 27, 2017 |
Is that a must |
| Re: Will U Wash The Plates And Share The House Chores Equally With Your Wife ? by Diplomaticbeing(m): 9:43am On Jan 27, 2017 |
Wannabe feminists do amuse me. Exhibition of rude, selfish, domineering and conceited attitudes aren't what real feminists are made of. The lady was just being petty - she doesn't deserve a responsible man in her life. Real feminists aren't demanding for authority and avenue of disdain over men instead they are opposed to the idea of "petty" men treating them like serviles rather than equals. They're against any form of psychological oppression. They are propagating live and let live philosophy. A man is only a first between his equal (woman) in marriage/romantic relationship, and must show same in actions - this is simply what the real feminists are asking for. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Will U Wash The Plates And Share The House Chores Equally With Your Wife ? by Nobody: 9:58am On Jan 27, 2017 |
With that mentality she's not ready to get married. The house chores are not meant for the men but ladies, if he chose to help out on few it's his choice and shouldn't be mandatory...infact, i love men who know nothing about house chores. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: Will U Wash The Plates And Share The House Chores Equally With Your Wife ? by kheengjay(m): 10:03am On Jan 27, 2017 |
Sandydayziz: awwwwn! how sweet #smiling from ear to ear bae get ready to ger spoilt then..... am not the one to brag but emmm am an awesome cook n romantic candle light dinner will be like an everyday thing p.s missing you like kilode |
| Re: Will U Wash The Plates And Share The House Chores Equally With Your Wife ? by ikp120(m): 10:05am On Jan 27, 2017 |
Why not? Kini big deal? But any girl who claims to be a feminist must foot 50% of the bride price and marriage rite bills.  6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Will U Wash The Plates And Share The House Chores Equally With Your Wife ? by Sandydayziz(f): 10:14am On Jan 27, 2017 |
kheengjay: Ehhehehhehe.... M so blushing right now!! Miss u more baby!   3 Likes |
| Re: Will U Wash The Plates And Share The House Chores Equally With Your Wife ? by DonGalilo(m): 10:55am On Jan 27, 2017 |
Don't be surprised, there are mumu men out there that will gladly accept it. |
| Re: Will U Wash The Plates And Share The House Chores Equally With Your Wife ? by Nobody: 11:51am On Jan 27, 2017 |
Benita27:This your love ehnnn  Mama d Mama  |
| Re: Will U Wash The Plates And Share The House Chores Equally With Your Wife ? by Nobody: 11:56am On Jan 27, 2017 |
Aderola15:Lol, in the cause of seeking for gender equality some women have forgotten their sole responsibilities. How are you love?. |
| Re: Will U Wash The Plates And Share The House Chores Equally With Your Wife ? by onyeezeigbo: 11:58am On Jan 27, 2017 |
| Re: Will U Wash The Plates And Share The House Chores Equally With Your Wife ? by Nobody: 12:02pm On Jan 27, 2017 |
Benita27: Covering laziness with feminism  I'm good Twinnie, can't wait to drop my pen and end this yeye exam fah  You've been good, yeah? |
| Re: Will U Wash The Plates And Share The House Chores Equally With Your Wife ? by Nobody: 12:10pm On Jan 27, 2017 |
Aderola15:Thing one the exams are "yeye exams" hope you've written well?. I am just bored here sha. |
| Re: Will U Wash The Plates And Share The House Chores Equally With Your Wife ? by Nobody: 2:11pm On Jan 27, 2017 |
cummando:my brother you are very correct about that cooking and banging aspect. I don tire for the girl no be small. |
| Re: Will U Wash The Plates And Share The House Chores Equally With Your Wife ? by Nobody: 2:18pm On Jan 27, 2017 |
wizzyrich:You dey talk your own . if I talk my own ehhhnn. I don leave fully equipped and furnished house for woman because she wan turn me to okon. I even dey mop. U know wet in dem dey call sare-ile for inter House sport? Relay......run |
| Re: Will U Wash The Plates And Share The House Chores Equally With Your Wife ? by Nobody: 2:23pm On Jan 27, 2017 |
Benita27:just imagine after spending much money on her head for dowry and marriage, she'll now be telling you to equal the house chores. She and her parents will just have to return my money and take their daughter. 1 Like |
| Re: Will U Wash The Plates And Share The House Chores Equally With Your Wife ? by Nobody: 2:27pm On Jan 27, 2017 |
cummando: You did the right thing. Me self go begin give her space from today, I no dey for that kind punishment. |
| Re: Will U Wash The Plates And Share The House Chores Equally With Your Wife ? by Nobody: 2:34pm On Jan 27, 2017 |
Oyind17:but do you know that God created women to be helpers and also be submissive to their men and not to share the chores equally ? |
| Re: Will U Wash The Plates And Share The House Chores Equally With Your Wife ? by RuggedArab: 2:36pm On Jan 27, 2017 |
Benita27: Here I am, one of the men who know nothing about house chores. Now tell me why I won't love Benita27. Baby(Benita27), you are mine . #InAugustAlsina'sVoice |
| Re: Will U Wash The Plates And Share The House Chores Equally With Your Wife ? by Nobody: 2:39pm On Jan 27, 2017 |
wizzyrich:Stop that already! You mean men should fold their hands and watch their wives work from morning to night cos they are help meets... Hian! I'm not saying chores should be shared equally but guy fold your blokos come wash plate if need be. Woman should respect her man and try as much as she can to please him. Sometimes we give bjob just to make him happy.  |
| Re: Will U Wash The Plates And Share The House Chores Equally With Your Wife ? by Nobody: 2:41pm On Jan 27, 2017 |
DonGalilo: Dem plenty. Infact only little touch on their heads, they are ready to carry a house on their heads. |
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