wizzyrich:
just imagine after spending much money on her head for dowry and marriage, she'll now be telling you to equal the house chores.


She and her parents will just have to return my money and take their daughter.

Oyind17:
Stop that already! You mean men should fold their hands and watch their wives work from morning to night cos they are help meets... Hian!
I'm not saying chores should be shared equally but guy fold your blokos come wash plate if need be. Woman should respect her man and try as much as she can to please him. Sometimes we give bjob just to make him happy.

wizzyrich:
at the bolded, what if she marries someone that is naturally lazy as a husband, wouldn't she take up the responsibility or should she just fold her hands aswell and let things get messed up ?

Don't also forget we go down their with our tongues just to make her happy too, not all guys can do that you know

Oyind17:
If she marry a lazy guy, let her teach him house chores.

I know but we are good singers

Benita27:
RuggedArab, good day.

I don't know what's wrong, was unable to quote.

How are you?.

RuggedArab:


I am fine dear. How have you been?

Benita27:
Very well, thanks.

RuggedArab:


where have you been all this while? I just found out that you are my wifey.

Someone can actually love me for not knowing house chores.

Benita27:
Lol.
That's minor, i don't see the big deal.

RuggedArab:


Please, kini big deal? lets start from there.

Benita27:
Sure!.

RuggedArab:


Oya start talking....... I am waiting.

wizzyrich:
I happen to have a female friend serving in my primary place of assignment(PPA) who is more like a feminist. She always have this mentality that men and women are equal in the society(which I'm not disputing that). But the issue here is, she's also having that mentality towards any man she will settle down with.


We got into an argument few days ago and she insisted that when she's married, that the house chores must be shared equally with the husband. And that if at all she want to do these chores, that its shouldn't look as a right to the husband. She even went as far as saying after dining with the husband, that he is expected to clear the table and wash the plates being the fact that she went to the market and she prepared the meal.


Yesterday she made me believe she will cook for me while I went to watch ManU game against Hull city, but to my greatest surprise, I got home meeting the shiny empty plates I washed earlier on, I would have slept on an empty stomach if not for my lovely garri and beverages that rescued me. Her excuse this morning was that she slept off. I couldn't get angry because she's not my wife.

So I'm throwing these questions to the guys in the house, will you allow such attitude from your wife ? Will you shares the house chores equally with her ? And will you clear the table after dining with her ?


To the ladies, do you support her views ? if yes, tell us why.

Let's talk NL'dners

Benita27:
What am i talking about again?, tell me.

Tynasparks:
Hell No!!! .... Such words shouldn't be heard of.... Some feminist ehn i just cant understand them.

RuggedArab:


hehehe..... never mind.

I hope you are good?

Benita27:
Yeah, just bored here...no light.

RuggedArab:


So sorry for that. Was your area affected due to the rain that destroyed electric poles the other day?

Benita27:
Not at all, we've not had it this afternoon.

RuggedArab:


Where is your location?

wizzyrich:
I happen to have a female friend serving in my primary place of assignment(PPA) who is more like a feminist. She always have this mentality that men and women are equal in the society(which I'm not disputing that). But the issue here is, she's also having that mentality towards any man she will settle down with.


We got into an argument few days ago and she insisted that when she's married, that the house chores must be shared equally with the husband. And that if at all she want to do these chores, that its shouldn't look as a right to the husband. She even went as far as saying after dining with the husband, that he is expected to clear the table and wash the plates being the fact that she went to the market and she prepared the meal.


Some weeks ago she made me believe she will cook for me while I went to watch ManU game against Hull city, but to my greatest surprise, I got home meeting the shiny empty plates I washed earlier on, I would have slept on an empty stomach if not for my garri and beverages that rescued me. Her excuse this morning was that she slept off. I couldn't get angry because she's not my wife yet.

So I'm throwing these questions to the guys in the house, will you allow such attitude from your wife ? Will you share the house chores equally with her ? And will you clear the table after dining with her ?


To the ladies, do you support her views ? if yes, tell us why.

Let's talk NL'dners

wizzyrich:


Dem plenty. Infact only little touch on their heads, they are ready to carry a house on their heads.