Okwyjesus:


Run ! he will overwork you if you marry him. But you have to work on improving him before you run.

Filashade:


ahahah loool. I havr ran away from him. I have given him motivational words to help him and told he needs to grow up but its over and I wish him luck at whatever he does.

Ahhh me marry him, no way!!!! That is not the kind of man I want and also marriage seems miserable these days so I am unusure about that area although I want to marry my soul mate one day but for now, I want to enjoy being single and enjoying my own company and life in general coz I have never done that and I need to build my self esteem. I hv been taking care of everyone but not myself. I want to breathe and live.

boiz2men:



Hey there is a bird in the sky. It's been flying around in the sky for a while now. No one is looking at it.

Be a good girl and stop reading (stop looking down) and say hello to the bird.


The bird doesn't bite and it doesn't hurt to be nice to the bird

Filashade:


Loool who is the bird that I should say Hi to?

Filashade:


Okay......I know the post was long but wanted you guys to know everything first hand. This is why I don't like posting or don't post anything on nairaland but thanks.....

captainmichaelo:
My dear @Filashade, I was very weary to read the whole story cos of the length, but from your tone I could tell u wrote it all in pain. More like u can't phantom how a 23 year old lad would stay at home all day playing Vid games and u as a female will b out there grinding trynna make things work out for u. One thing I want u 2 know is it regardless of Wat people might write here, been determined to make it in life against all odds is a choice. We all make choices, and we are all results of the choices we make either good or bad. Choices of who we r, what we become, even whom we date. Now your relationship issh, your guy is a result of what he made himself to be ( his choice?) . A guy that cannot go out and struggle to fend for himself and his immediate family or wife or gf is not worthy to be called a man or a bf. He is just a baby regardless of his age. What happened to Royal Mail? Tesco, farm fresh, aldy, KFC and the rest? These guys take applications all the time. If he doesn't have papers Its another situation.
Wen I was in college back in d day, I was living in Newcastle, would go and wash dishes as far as leeds town center and still get back to Newcastle at night just to save up money for college and still send money to folks in naija. I washed dishes to the point that my fone couldn't recognize my fingerprint anymore lol...and weekly Ild still pocket about 250 pounds. Even though I wasn't proud of d hustle back then, it was a means to an end as my education continued, could easily afford alot of things for myself and could easily date anyone but that wasn't a priority at the time, had to Send things home to folks too. I am proud of d kind of man I hv become now, a captain Oluwaseun.That's the pride of a man!!!
Ditching his ass isn't a bad idea TBH. Uld meet great hardworking guy, and u will be fine. Just finish well and bag a good grade and u will meet someone of your class.

Filashade:


ahhhh u r in the UK My fellow british brother!!! How u dey na?

Lool. Yes I was really shocked that at his age he wass still misbehaving. But I thought it was just a little phase he was going through and needed guidance to bring him back up.

Thanks for advice and yes I hope to meet someone in my class one day as I really am a nice girl who isnt materialistic but try telling that to guys and they think ur lying

Filashade:


That is why I am here coz he is a nice guy and I don't want to give up on him. But I have tried to but he changes then goes back to his old ways. I want him to be man and not a boy, I want him to grow or of his childish in asking me to do things for him and instead do things himself.

But what suggestions can you give to motivate him?

Filashade:


ahhhh u r in the UK My fellow british brother!!! How u dey na?

Lool. Yes I was really shocked that at his age he wass still misbehaving. But I thought it was just a little phase he was going through and needed guidance to bring him back up.

Thanks for advice and yes I hope to meet someone in my class one day as I really am a nice girl who isnt materialistic but try telling that to guys and they think ur lying

Bossman17:

Hello dear. I'm same Gentlenaaz dat has been following you on nairaland. I'm interested in a serious relationship with you, that will lead to marriage within a few months or as d time may be needed.
Quote me to drop ur contact, I will call or chat with you as soon as possible.

cummando:

She say the boyfriend no dey work
She say the boyfriend;
He dey craze
He dey mad
He dey gbongbolo cigar
He no go marry sis I
He go marry orkpolo....
And she go soon kee am

.....summarized

boiz2men:


If you looking for an ambitious person. Maybe we should give each other a chance. I love skinny girls and can you cook? If yes, send me a pm.

Chances are you gonna tell ya friends the weird story of meeting ya Mr right after this post.

I'm outta school and self employed.

JustinSlayer69:


Don't be shameless.... Seen some of your pathetic posts.

Is this how low your self-esteem is, begging a girl for a hookup when she needs advice?

Guys like you are an embarrassment to mankind!

JustinSlayer69:
Hi Filashade,

Life is too short for one not to enjoy it.

I doubt if this your boyfriend has serious plans for himself not to talk of you.

Romantic separations are always very hard, break off contact completely with him.

If you believe in a God, pray hard and all will be well eventually.

You deserve much better...good luck!

boiz2men:



Speaking of embarrassment to mankind..




You had to give an advice on a situation that is over 2 months solved. All these you did to be on the girls good book. You probably thought she was waiting for your advice before she moves on.



Nice guy.


Isn't that what you want her to know you by

DESPERATION IS NEVER ATTRACTIVE. That's why you are already friend-zoned...you aren't ever getting any

JustinSlayer69:


LMAO.... i actually laughed till tears came into my eyes with this

Good advice is good advice. It's a life lesson she would always find useful when she sees pathetic losers...e.g YOU

Sorry i made you cry, here's a hanky and change your diapers.

I don't go around begging girls to be noticed and your pathetic attempt to take advantage of her was revolting to see.

See a psychiatrist, boy. Your desperation is sickening and hilarious




DESPERATION IS NEVER ATTRACTIVE. That's why you are already friend-zoned...you aren't ever getting any

You have been severally accused of ass licking in the past & your single defense every time when shamed is that you're trolling. It's time to work on your self esteem, boy. Begging for online hookups really sucks.

boiz2men:



Bros.. I see you like chatting with me. I would grace your appetite. I mean, isn't that what most religions teach? To help the needy at all times. You desperately need my attention.



Bro.. I don't beg girls ooo. Abeg when you see my post begging any gal, please mention me quick. Even in real life, I nor dey send girls.. Na NL I go Kon dey form humble. Maka y.


My guy, I suspect that I haf finish you b4 while trolling. So you create another account to get at me.


I didn't bother checking if your account is new or not... . The attention you Worth from me never reach that level. I ll check your profile when u worth more.

Also.. I'm excited I made you laugh. I mean how else can one define trolling if you don't laugh and get a bit angry.


Savagefinder gave me gold medal for my savagery skills. So, you are welcome

JustinSlayer69:



LOL. I see you have eaten the humble pie.

As I said before, you have subzero self-esteem, hence you seek validation online by forming a tough guy e.g. “ whether she PMed me is another story”… “ got a gold medal for savagery”… Are these your life achievements?

My initial grouse with you remains the same. You don’t shamelessly beg ladies and then claim you are trolling after yet an umpteenth failed romantic proposal.

And I agree with you when you said your mother & siblings unanimously say you are a failure and a layabout. Find something more useful doing instead of groundbreaking discovery that exists only in your micro brain.

And PLEASE…stop your pathetic begging and wanking.

Ciao, boy!

boiz2men:



[s]What an interesting troll you are



Bro, in real life.. I am probably more successful than you. I practice as a medical consultant at weekend and during the day I work with an IT company. By may, I would be outsourced to fcmb where I would become an IT consultant. If you had these opportunities, you would think you are made. But no, I still consider them as failure for myself. I should be my own boss by now. I should have my own hospital and It company. I'm 25 bro.


On a serious note, what is your other account that I destroyed? You seem pained. If you stay in Lagos, send me a pm. My IT startup would commence in may. You would function as a foot soldier. Send me the pm and I will send you a briefing.

If your aims to get me irked, then I'm not ya guy. Online comments don't get me angry.





Since you have taken the role of a troll. I should tell you this.



Trolling is fun when it is short lived. Your troll on me is becoming boring. For about 2 months now, I stopped commenting on NL..
U made me comment again

That's an achievement for you bro. Put it in a diary

Blah...blah...blah.

You are 25? Act like it. This sounds like the ranting of a 5 year old.

When i was 25, your father can only dream of 1/2 what i already achieved. Difference between you & i is that, i don't boast.

Sorry i made you cry, someone had to just make you stop behaving like a wank3r and stop these pathetic desperado stuff.

IT SUCKS

Ciao, boy!, it's time to grow up!

JustinSlayer69:
[/s]

Blah...blah...blah.

You are 25? Act like it. This sounds like the ranting of a 5 year old.

When i was 25, your father can only dream of 1/2 what i already achieved. Difference between you & i is that, i don't boast.

Sorry i made you cry, someone had to just make you stop behaving like a wank3r and stop these pathetic desperado stuff.

IT SUCKS

Ciao, boy!, it's time to grow up!

boiz2men:


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Aderola15:

boiz2men:


Yeye mosquito. So u have been reading and keeping quiet. See your owl eyes.

Aderola15:


Kikikikikikiki

Mumu rat . Yeah, have been reading and I'm glad you decided to ignore him.

boiz2men:


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