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Ten (10) Golden Secrets Of Marriage by lawlahbammy(f): 6:35am On Feb 13, 2017 |
*TO THOSE WHO ARE MARRIED AND/OR ARE PREPARING TO GET MARRIED SOON* 1. *EVERYONE YOU MARRY HAS A WEAKNESS* Only God has no weakness. Every rose flower has its own thorns. If you focus too much on your spouse's weakness, you can't get the best out of his/her strength. 2. *EVERYONE YOU MARRY HAS A DARK HISTORY* No one is an Angel, therefore, avoid digging one's past. What matters is the present life of your partner. Old things are passed away. try to forgive and forget. The past can't be changed. So focus on the present and the future! 3. *EVERY MARRIAGE HAS IT'S OWN CHALLENGES* Marriage is not bed of roses. Every shinning marriage has gone through its own test of hot and excruciating fire. True love is proved in time of challenge. Fight for your marriage! Make up your mind to stay with your spouse in time of needs. Remember this is the vow you made on your wedding day! 4. *EVERY MARRIAGE HAS DIFFERENT LEVELS OF SUCCESS* Don't compare your marriage with anyone else's! We can never be equal, some will be far front and others far behind. To avoid marriage stresses, be patient, work hard and with time, your marriage dreams shall come true. 5. *TO MARRY IS TO DECLARE A WAR* When you marry, you must declare a war against enemies of marriage. Some of the enemies of marriage are: Ignorance, Prayerlessness, Unforgivingness, Adultery, Third Party Influence, Stinginess, Stubbornness, Lack Of Love, Rudeness, Wife/husband battery, Laziness, Divorce etc. Be ready to fight to maintain your marriage zone. 6. *THERE IS NO PERFECT MARRIAGE* There is no ready made- marriage anywhere. Marriage is hard work, volunteer yourself and perfect it daily. Marriage is like a CAR with Gear oil, gear box, back axles, etc and If these parts are not properly maintained, the car will break down somewhere along the road and exposing the occupants to unhealthy circumstances. - Many of us are careless about our marriages ... Are you? If you are, pls pay attention to your marriage. 7. *GOD DOES NOT GIVE YOU THE COMPLETE PERSON YOU DESIRE* He (God) gives you, him or her in the form of raw materials in order for you to mold into what you desire. You may desire a woman who can pray for 1 hours but your wife can only pray for 30 minutes. With your love, prayer and encouragement, she can improve and vise versa. 8. *TO MARRY IS TO TAKE A RISK* You cannot predict what will happen after marriage, as situations may change, so, leave a room for adjustment. Pregnancy may not come in the next 4 years. You may get married to her because she's slim but she becomes 100% fatter after a child. He may lose his beautiful job for years that you have to take the financial responsibility of the family until he gets a new job. But with God by your side, you will smile at last. 9. *MARRIAGE IS NOT A CONTRACT, IT IS PERMANENT* Marriage needs total commitment, love is the glue that makes a couple stick together. Divorce starts in the mind. Never think of divorce! Never threaten your spouse with divorce. Choose to remain married! God hates divorce 10. *EVERY MARRIAGE HAS A PRICE TO PAY* Marriage is like a bank account. It is the money you deposit into your bank account that you can withdraw. If you don't deposit love, peace and care into your marriage, you are not a candidate of a blissful home. There is no free love in marriage, You cannot love without giving and sacrificing. May God Give us The Grace And Wisdom To Build A Heaven on Earth Marriage. |
Re: Ten (10) Golden Secrets Of Marriage by Majesticniyi(m): 7:26am On Feb 13, 2017 |
Deep..... |
Re: Ten (10) Golden Secrets Of Marriage by Edwinmason(m): 8:37am On Feb 13, 2017 |
words of wisdom |
Re: Ten (10) Golden Secrets Of Marriage by desoul2004(m): 9:31am On Feb 13, 2017 |
Nice one |
Re: Ten (10) Golden Secrets Of Marriage by chii8(f): 9:32am On Feb 13, 2017 |
True but its never easy at all.... |
Re: Ten (10) Golden Secrets Of Marriage by Nobody: 12:19pm On Feb 13, 2017 |
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Re: Ten (10) Golden Secrets Of Marriage by izuch(m): 4:11pm On Feb 13, 2017 |
Word! Excellent write up, like if you agree, Lala! Do the needful 1 Like |
Re: Ten (10) Golden Secrets Of Marriage by Majesticniyi(m): 7:22am On Feb 14, 2017 |
I'm just hoping all these would come to mind when I eventually get married later this year. I'm so anxious |
Re: Ten (10) Golden Secrets Of Marriage by lawlahbammy(f): 8:02am On Feb 14, 2017 |
Majesticniyi: Lol... Be anxious for nothing bro. |
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