Have you ever been snubbed by a lady in public? Did you ever see a lady you like so much in a public place and did not know how to approach or start a conversation with her? Then this article will teach you one or two things you will need to do right any time you see a lady you like in public and you will get good response from her. It is really embarrassing to be snubbed in public by a lady. The idea behind this article came as a result of an incident that happened in our office in 1997. A young lady of about 24 years old working with one of the leading financial institutions in Nigeria burst into our reception and started narrating a story of a young man whom she met in a bus on her way to the our office.
The lady in story made a lot of uncomplimentary comments on how the man like so many others like him lack the right wooing skills that make women respond positively to their advances. I took that as an opportunity to do some works on how to approach a lady in public places and I did a study to know more about the mistakes most men make when approaching a lady and what can be done to correct them. Some of the findings of the study make up this write-up. As discovered during my discussion with ladies and men of all age groups, there is no fast rules as to how you can approach a lady and get a good response but there are some general and cunning ways to go about it and you will get good and encouraging response from her. Whenever you are in a public places like bank, in a bus, at a post office etc and you see a lady that you like try any of the following to start up a good conversation with her.
1. Ask her to lend you something you know she has e.g. a pen, a magazine, a novel etc. If she gives you, use it and return it to her, but when returning it to her, make sure you give her a compliment. If she is receptive introduce yourself by telling her your name and ask after her own. If she tells you her name, think of a topic for discussion that will be of interest to her e.g. the bank’s service, bus service, post offices service etc, anything she would have something to say about. From your interactions with her she will be more relaxed and receptive to you as a person. Take that opportunity to ask for what she does, her place of work or school, her phone number and address depending on her responses.
2. Use eye contact to register your presence in her mind. Using eye contact to flirt with lady is one good way to register yourself in a woman’s mind positively. This is done by making eye contact with her and look away. Make eye contact with her and look away again. Do this for three or four times. Look at her eyes again and let her meet your eyes herself. After that, make a move toward her and ask her to lend you something you know she has and continue as for one. This approach is good if you don’t have the courage to start with the first tip above. Please, know that an interval of about 3 or 4 minutes is needed before the next eye contact movement is made.
3. If it is a club house or restaurant, ask her if you can join her table. She may be sitting with her friends, don’t worry, ask for their permission to join their table, if you are, welcomed to the table offer to buy her a drink or pay for the ones that she has bought before you join her table. Note that if she is in company of her friends you must buy drinks for them too. Then start a good conversation with her. Think of a good topic to discuss with her, something that will be of interest to her such as the table setting, the club services, women fashion trend and other burning life issues that you know women love to talk about, anything that will be of interest to her. Then continue as in one above.
4. Tell her you know her somewhere, tell her, her face looks familiar to you. This approach is useful when you meet a lady in a social place and you do not know of any other way you can approach her. If she says she is not the one tell how much she looks like the person. Link that subject to another subject of discussion based on that subject of introduction then move to any other ones you think is going to be interesting to her and wait for the right time to introduce yourself to her by telling her your name, and then ask after her name. Continue as in one above.
5. Help her in one way or the other. This is one of the best way to link up with a lady easily. This is one best way to approach a lady I can always recommend to anybody. If you meet a lady in a bus pay for her fare i.e. if you can, that will put you in a good position before her, help her pick something that falls from her hand, help her carry something she wants to carry. All these will make her become receptive of your moves and advances. Women easily like anyone who helps them, no matter how much they pretend.
6. If none of these opportunities present itself, ask somebody that knows her introduce you to her. This is another good way to successfully link up with a lady.
Caution: The tips above are some of the ways you can approach a lady if she doesn’t know you before. But never try to approach a lady while she is walking in the street unless she knows you before. It never works because every lady takes this as an insult. Ladies see this to mean that you take them to be one of those easy girls around that you can just make use of. Honestly, except she is a call girl, she will not respond to any of your advances. Unless she is desperately in need of someone to hook on to, only few ladies will bother to answer you a stranger on the road.
If you use any of those approaches above as directed, the chances are very much that any woman you approach will be receptive of your advances. Whatever the approach you use, do not forget to ask after her number. If she gives you her name, address and phone number, you must know that the ball is now in your court, it is all left to you to play it well by linking up with her later and start a lasting relationship with her. If you try any of the tricks above and she is not giving you good response, it is either that your appearance is not compatible with her own i.e. your appearance does not appeal to her or she is already in a serious relationship that she doesn’t want anything to rock it is boat. Try your luck elsewhere.

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Thank you for these tips.

very healthy articule

wud definately put this 2 use 2mrw~

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It's amazing! I luv it.

nice post. thanks for the g8 tips

No 4 is a cliche i really hate to hear from guys