ikp120:
When he asks you a question, give am the answer (plus or minus nothing). If he no ask you, then shut the fvck up!

Of course a guy like me doesn't really care about the goddamn past. But that doesn't mean say me no go ask her o. It's just to keep my database up to date as an ICT expert.

***Strokes my bear bear***

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Benita27:
For one to have a successful relationship i believe there shouldn't be concealment from both parties. But, some people are caught up in the right time to reveal horrible secrets and how such would be perceived and handled by their spouses. Others made the effort to be open, but ended up losing a "loved one", while before some could their spouses have deliberately become inquisitive and dug out some shocking past. Now, these have propelled me to ask...

When do you think is the right time to tell your gf/bf of your horrible past?.

During courtship. Everything should be laid bare.

Benita27:
For one to have a successful relationship i believe there shouldn't be concealment from both parties. But, some people are caught up in the right time to reveal horrible secrets and how such would be perceived and handled by their spouses. Others made the effort to be open, but ended up losing a "loved one", while before some could their spouses have deliberately become inquisitive and dug out some shocking past. Now, these have propelled me to ask...

When do you think is the right time to tell your gf/bf of your horrible past?.

Hmmmm good question for me eh I so much believ in calmer

I don't think there is a right time to reveal your past horrible life.

For me I do mine while we are on the road...!!!

Sometimes you shouldn't even tell them
Some people can't handle it

Martin0:


Hmmmm good question for me eh I so much believ in calmer

I don't think there is a right time to reveal your past horrible life.

For me I do mine while we are on the road...!!!

We're not joking here.

Benita27:
We're not joking here.

Hahahahaha I never sounded whimsical u know Am serious ooo

@op, ikp120's first paragraph is the key. Moreover, your past is in your past. Though if he asks you about a specific thing, event or person you answer specifically with no plus or minus.

Lalas247:
Sometimes you shouldn't even tell them
Some people can't handle it

I think it's best you study your spouse and know if he/she could handle whatever you say to them at that moment or not. There are certain things they ought to know about your past before someone else will do the talking for you which would backfire.

Good morning, and how was your night?.

dia isn't anyone that doesnt have a dark secrets/past. as for me dia are some i would take to my grave. "ygritte keeps telling jon snow about all her awful pasts with a handful of her ex-wilding lovers, what dey had, d aftermaths etc. but jon had to beg her respectfully to stop bcuz he doesnt want to change d way he feels about her" culled from game of throne tv series so3, btw ep5-8

Benita27:
For one to have a successful relationship i believe there shouldn't be concealment from both parties. But, some people are caught up in the right time to reveal horrible secrets and how such would be perceived and handled by their spouses. Others made the effort to be open, but ended up losing a "loved one", while before some could their spouses have deliberately become inquisitive and dug out some shocking past. Now, these have propelled me to ask...

When do you think is the right time to tell your gf/bf of your horrible past?.

I have not done abortion before, never given or accepted a BJ before, I have not snatched anyones' boyfriend....... What is there to confess?

In Front Of Your Pastor

reminiscing:

I have not done abortion before, never given or accepted a BJ before, I have not snatched anyones' boyfriend....... What is there to confess?

and have not had sex before.. Make I complete am for you.. Even sef havnt kissed before .. Not to talk of hug.. Abi. As virgin maria wey you be

Benita27:
For one to have a successful relationship i believe there shouldn't be concealment from both parties. But, some people are caught up in the right time to reveal horrible secrets and how such would be perceived and handled by their spouses. Others made the effort to be open, but ended up losing a "loved one", while before some could their spouses have deliberately become inquisitive and dug out some shocking past. Now, these have propelled me to ask...

When do you think is the right time to tell your gf/bf of your horrible past?.

hmmm Which past self you be Ashawo before abi you don robb b4

dingbang:
and have not had sex before.. Make I complete am for you.. Even sef havnt kissed before .. Not to talk of hug.. Abi. As virgin maria wey you be

All I am trying to say is, there is no confession to make.

That why I always say men should go for virgin to avoid this problem to their sanity men and women should should have self control for the sake of their future husband wife children don't be deceived by telemondo hollyhood nollyhood bollyhood that people just forget about their ugly past accept each other and live happily everafter don't be deceived what ever person sow he reap