nkb:

@ Amebo,
word don finish for your mouth?
Thank God real women are in the house

otukpo:

U really make me laugh.

I can see that u really have time on your hands.
So my saying that i will pick my kids first suggest that i don't have a husband? I guess that its same with all the pple here who have maintained the same position with me.
Or can it it be also correct to say that those that say they will choose their their kids over the husbands are childless? U see, your arguement holds no water.

And when i go defending husbands, no body will ask if am actually married. I am a very realistic person and i don't move just because others are moving. 1 out of 50 is not a good percentage and i base my assessment on the majority.

Go back and read my position on that thread u lifted that quote and see whether i was for or against husbands.

I hate to go personal on anything on the net and i can assure u, your husband cannot in any way be better than mine cos i know who am married to.

otukpo:

your husband cannot in any way be better than mine cos i know who am married to.[/color]

!amebo no1:

You are a psychotic lunatic , if your type that has been used and dumped by agberos is what you call a real woman, then i'd rather remain unreal

@ Amebo,
thats why ur name is amebo, cos, u keep talking even when ur not making sense,
women that are used and dumped by ur agbero boyfreinds dont usually talk about kids and husbands, because they ve no place for love in their heart,

again carefully read my posts on this to know where am coming from, i will recap for amebos in the house, both are very important, but i am more attached emotionally to my kids

nkb:

@ Amebo,
thats why your name is amebo, cos, u keep talking even when your not making sense, 
women that are used and dumped by your agbero boyfreinds dont usually talk about kids and husbands, because they ve no place for love in their heart,

again carefully read my posts on this to know where am coming from, i will recap for amebos in the house, both are very important, but i am more attached emotionally to my kids

nkb:

Since you resorted to calling me names, i think i have to ignore you now,  I dont usually comment becuase of pple like you, i will rather observe and move on, but this is a thread i love thus i ve been active right from page one, but at this point i think i should move on, from your responses and utterances , I bet your not half the woman i am, so i leave you now, never to dignify any of your sensless comments with a response. byeeeeeeeee

woletsn:

Your husband is most important b ecause if there is no husband, there can't be children and for all you know him before you have your kids.

Not really! Because, if there is no husband/wife there would still be children not necessarily from both of you but from other sources should you choose to seek elsewhere.  It all boil down to 'freedom and choice' e.g. the man can choose to marry another woman instead, or the woman can go after other men if she's not happy with you/the arrangement in the household.

Also, in this modern times, she can seek to do it alone by going for sperm donor/IVF so, you can see anything is possible these days with a 'husband or without'.  Therefore, there's no such thing as "If there's no husband, there can't be children" because. there can!

codelady:

Interesting thread. You cannot underestimate the love a woman has for her children - you need to have kids to find this out! However, ladies NEED to understand that the HUSBAND is the one you have the COVENANT with. Next to God, he is your HEAD. This means that next to God, he is the MOST important person in your life. It is true that men are not perfect. I won't come on here making a case for the perfect man - because he simply does not exist! But guess what? Neither does the perfect lady exist. No one said the road would be easy, as a wife or mother, for any lady. But YOU made a promise to stick to your man, for BETTER or WORSE. Many do not realize the import of those words - we stick around when the going is good, but he makes a mistake and POOF! We're off! We are custodians of these kids - the family arrangement is so that kids can be brought up in an enabling environment. but who are the stars? YOU, dears, and your HUSBANDS. I haven't seen anyone say that if their kids misbehave they will leave them, hmm, yet they are NOT the ones you have a blood covenant with! Let's think about it, Imagine those kids are 25 years older than now and married with their own families, would they leave their spouse/kids for you? NO! I LOVE LOVE LOVE my kids, but my husband is PART OF ME. For as many husbands as have messed up, there are many wives who stood by them and forgave them (and vice versa!). They are not super human. Hillary Clinton. Can you imagine the pain and anguish she must have felt? Is she a fool for sticking to Bill? Just do your own part, ladies, leave God to judge all of us separately for our actions! (P.S. If you need inspiration, read the story of the Biblical Hosea and the harlot he married!). Cheers!

michelin89:

Amebo, tell these fake married women jor. These types irritate the sh!t out of me. Just because they are married they think they are matured enough to spill every crap that passes through their head.

And they always have the best men.

Why me sef nor dey see these kind bobos now?

!amebo no1:

you no dey shine ya eyes well well ,look further prince charming fit be your neighbour

if na so rich men full, i dey go divorce mine, find bill gate

H2O2:

That's where you go wrong. You start attaching trivial weights to the parties involved in your family.

Who's more or less important. Why can't they all be equally important

Stop it!

michelin89:

Abeg jor. Nigerian men here are ignorant and illiterates.

!amebo no1:

i schooled in europe and i must say i agree with you, esp my fellow igbo men

"nne how naaaa"

michelin89:

Gosh they are lazy thinkers. And did you notice they are the worst mummy's boys?

My ex at his age was still saying MY MUMMY. Even me nor dey say MY DADDY. Are you a kid?

!amebo no1:

na naija him be? e get one wey see me come tell me say him go like me to take a pic so that him go show him mama to get approval for marriage, like say i promise am marriage before