1. Be secure
The key to accepting your partner’s success is by being secure in what you do. Have faith in your work, your contribution to your work and in your talent. Being secure will require you to accept who you are and what you are. It will mean accepting your capabilities, abilities and being happy with who you are. Not too difficult a feat for a man’s man we think!

2. Be happy for her
Seriously, why wouldn’t you be happy and proud of your partner’s success? In fact you must celebrate her success and appreciate her efforts and hard work. Wouldn’t you expect the same from her?

3. Channel the jealousy
You are going to be jealous of your partner. You need to accept this negative emotion and channel it in the right direction. Face it, communicate this feeling with your partner without diminishing her success and ensure that something good comes out of it.

4. Involve yourself
The chances of a rift are higher if you distance yourself from your partner and don’t participate in her success. Therefore, get involved. Be an active listener and participant in her success, her journey, her work. This will help bring you’ll closer together and strengthen your relationship.

5. Get inspired
You can analyse your partner’s success and learn from it. Get inspired and try and incorporate her success mantras in your daily routine and work regimen. For all you know, success will knock on your door sooner than you imagined.
To be honest, you shouldn’t have to learn to ‘deal’ with your partner’s success. You need get past your ego and embrace her success and celebrate it just like she would yours.


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Be happy for her and pursue your own goals.

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Be happy for her and pursue your own goals.

That smile looks like the Joker's