The end goal of many relationships is often marriage, settling down together, or cohabitation, depending on which one suits both partners.

No matter how the relationship started- with or without a clear indication of this intention – a time will come in the relationship when a deeper level of commitment will be required;
when one or both partners will demand something more from the relationship and if one partner feels he or she is not ready, the relationship faces the possibility of breaking apart.

Though men are more likely to say no to serious relationship commitments, experience has shown that women are not exempted from the fear of commitment; and in the situations where this happens, here are some of the reasons why women run:

1. Unresolved issues
Sometimes, women are comfortable with the level of their relationship and want nothing more because they are at a phase of building themselves, moving on from unhealed pains from the past, and generally coming to terms with stuff in their lives.

Adding the extra commitment to a relationship might be too much to handle at that time, and it is common to hear such women say stuff like “I’m not ready.”

2. Uncertainties
When a man proposes moving to the next phase of a relationship and the girl refuses, the reason could be because she still has reservations, fears, worries, uncertainties about the guy.
Sometimes it’s about the man, not the woman.

3. Someone better
Some other women would refuse to commit to their partner because they are holding out for someone better – in loving, finances, etc - to come along.

4. Exes
Being hung over an ex is what prevents certain other women from pledging more commitment to their present relationship.

Some babes use a certain boyfriend as a standard for all others and no matter how long it takes, or how many relationships they enter, they still remain tied to that former ex and keep hoping that he comes back.

Some women belong in this category and if there is any faint hope of that boyfriend coming back, they’ll keep everything on hold – including their present relationship with you – and wait for him.

5. She's playing
Best believe that there are ladies who refuse to commit because they’ve been in the relationship all along to only catch cruise, have fun, maybe spend your money.

http://www.kikiotolu.com/2017/03/5-reasons-why-women-are-scared-to.html

Lalasticlala Mynd44 seun Dominique

Na so my sister.

Alot of ladies don't know what they want. Very confused set of people...

The guy showers them with gift, he is a mugu. He doesn't he is stingy.

If a guy fücks them well, he is a dog. He doesn't, he don't care about her.

A guy dates lady for a while, she wonders if he really loves her , reminding him all her friends are getting married.. Dude pulls out a ring, the relationship goes haywire... She is not ready

A guy always want to met at an eatery, she wonders why wouldn't he take her to his house. He takes her to his house, oh he wants to fûck her.

But the one that pains me the most is the kind of ladies that checks with their friends and roomate about the relationship. I am thinking, I am dating you or dating all your friends

ok

Only insecured women do such

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Keep quiet,, naija ladies all want already made guys .. They don't want to suffer with a huzzlin guy...
All of una dey mad

On point.

ok

One of the reasons why Ladies do not want to be committed in a relationship is because of too many side boo and the thought of their boyfriend having a serious side chick,Ladies assumes too much and they always want to know what goes on in a mans thought, and most times their assumptions of his thought is totally different from what is he is thinking,They are looking for Mr perfect, a good relationship is never in exclusion of problems and challenges,it is rather built in spites of theses challenges, The key to a successful relationship is not finding the right person,its you becoming the right person to be with.Any relationship that is going to work and that has ever worked required commitment;Whenever problems arises, couple should strives to solve it rather than using it as an excuse to abandon the relationship,We all have our character flaws,when spouses has a sense commitment they feel secured and they trust each other.

Noted

some feminists just wont commit

Sometimes they r not sure if d guy really loves dem, so dy dnt get so committed to avoid so much hurt.

Very true but all the same, we all have to be committed to get the best out of our partners.

Psychological trauma from abuse.

Hmmmm so true

Tazmode:
True

How do you know Are you in a woman's shoes Just asking don't quote me wrongly

Commitment to a woman is a big deal. However, when we commit, we go all the way

Pearly255:
How do you know Are you in a woman's shoes Just asking don't quote me wrongly

modified I just booked a slot on the FP. And I'm size 45

Cogent reasons though





5/10

Life is all about choices.

LAFO:
Na so my sister.

Hahahhahaahahahahahahaha
Like you?
Oya deny it!

her cup of heineken.

Gten:
Psychological trauma from abuse.

That your photo na wa ooo!

orimipe:
Commitment to a woman is a big deal. However, when we commit, we go all the way

True talk sis...

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BrainnewsNg:


Hahahhahaahahahahahahaha

Like you?

Oya deny it!

I'm not denying truths and facts

No be so oooo. Tell any girl from 25 and above in Nigeria that you want to marry her. She will jump at the offer quicky.

Very true

Why would I just commit to someone when there's a possibility that I'll get a better person

Marriage is a lifetime commitment!