YoungBlackRico:
Well, a lot of men are not comfortable with that. It's not something to be proud of, especially for women. Not in a country like ours anyway.

©YBR

kimbra:
You still missed the point. We aren't saying ladies should sleep around. But that when the did has been done, they should freely say the truth to their spouse instead of lying.

Why is that difficult to understand?.

Therein lies the problem, once it exceeds normal, there will probably be no spouse who wan marry olosho. At the end of the day, you still gotta lie

©YBR

Safiaa:
Now, I know that know that not everybody is going to agree with me, but this is strictly my opinion. This is a thread strictly dedicated to the ladies.
If you're a virgin, kudos to you! I applaud you as it takes a lot of self control. However, this thread is not aimed at you.

We all have a past, and as we know most ladies these days are sexual active. A lot of girls are sexual active from the age of 18 +. I don't have time for hypocrisy on this thread, because we all know what happens behind closed doors. We live in a society where women are not allowed to be sexually liberated. We are shamed for talking about our sex lives and labelled with derogatory names for having more than the average sex partners in our lives. This needs to stop and it starts from us.

The reality is that women enjoy sex just as much as men do. Probably even more. If you like to have sex, make yourself happy and do you! If you have slept with more than 5 men in your life, so what? Now i'm not promoting women to sleep with every tom dick and harry, but stop with the lies! Stop lying to your partners about sleeping with 1 or 2 guys when you know its 6 or 7. Be real and live in your truth. I'd rather someone judge me for my truth than for my lies. Stop with the pretense. If we accept our sexuality more, we could be looking at a positive change. Its okay to like sex, it doesn't make you a hoe! It's okay if you've had more than 1 or 2 sexual partners, doesn't make you promiscuous. STOP TRYING TO FIT IN WHAT SOCIETY WANTS YOU TO BE, BE YOURSELF!!!!

There's someone out there, who will love you for you.

YoungBlackRico:
Therein lies the problem, once it exceeds normal, there will probably be no spouse who wan marry olosho. At the end of the day, you still gotta lie

©YBR

AfroSamurai:
Now this I totally concur. I love me a woman who isn't afraid of her sexuality.

You know, sometimes, when I read you posts, tears form

kimbra:
Some men pick their wives from the brothel. Haven't you heard of that before?.

What's the percentage?

©YBR

YoungBlackRico:
What's the percentage?

©YBR

kimbra:
I wouldn't know. What's the percentage of virgins to none virgins out there?.

YoungBlackRico:
Don't expect you to know 'cause it's almost non-existent.

kimbra:
"Almost" that's to say nearly, then you still arrived at my point.

YoungBlackRico:
Lol, okay then.

©YBR

TrapHedges:

yo bro.. I like yo name fam..etwil make a good moniker for a trapper..u trap?

Asegzy:
the last time I checked, it is countries like ours that still have a sizeable number of marriage institutions.
So if people still believe in marriage and want to offer a healthy family for our children, body count matters amongst other things. A woman has a major impact on the marriage iinstitution

Safiaa:
Yes it's very possible. I'm 22 and I've been in 4 relationships in my life. They're times in life where you end up meeting a guy and you have a connection with him. You end up having sex, but it doesn't end in a long term relationship. Things like this happen all the time. That doesn't necessarily mean the girl is sleeping around with anything that comes her. That is not what I'm trying to promote.

pryme:


Kudos Op don't mind Nigerians with their hypocrisy.

mrDvO:
Mahn wen i find a chick that's really cool n i want to make my wife, hell I wouldn't even wonna knw her body count...I don't think it matters honestly. True it might bother me if i knew it was high(just like i knw it ll bother her if she knew mine). So I won't bring it up. U could meet a girl with a "high" body count who wud hv an excellent heart, smart, supportive, loved by ur mom n fam, never nags and shii. Then i ll leave and marry a virgin or mayb body count 1 or 2(prolly lied abt it)that ll pretend to be good and then show u pepper at home wen u marry? Nah fam. Anyway thats not even op's point. Her point to d ladies is not to lie abt their body count. Own dat shii. cos since most f our brothers here marry for body count, wen it ll come out it ll b wahala. Those of u saying must u hv sex in a relationship ll be d first to yab ur G if a girl is putting him through that, n ask him weda dat 1 is even relationship; that she's prolly fucking anoda guy. I pity girls sha, esp in dis part of d world. Of course as always, just my opinion.

AfroSamurai:
Now this I totally concur. I love me a woman who isn't afraid of her sexuality.

Durentmoney:
asslicker spotted. Go wear makeup dey catwalk. Mtcheww

AfroSamurai:
Butt fucker_ spotted. Go fuck_ your father and butt rape your mother.

You twisted wanking_ sodomized nematode.

AfroSamurai:
Butt fucker_ spotted. Go fuck_ your father and butt rape your mother.

You twisted wanking_ sodomized nematode.

Easy with the kid baby
Now he's going to cry to momma poor child who is the heartless soul that gave him access to the internet?? He's just spraying his stupidity everywhere. Its becoming offensive.

vedah:

Easy with the kid baby
Now he's going to cry to momma poor child who is the heartless soul that gave him access to the internet?? He's just spraying his stupidity everywhere. Its becoming offensive.

Durentmoney:
useless nincompoop. Dey here dey asslick. "I love me a woman who is not afraid of her sexuality"

Do u even know how silly u sound saying that? No u dont, run along faggit.

Keep asslicking, u won't get toto here

Durentmoney:
lady u fine. How much u dey charge per night?
No mention big money oo bcuz we all now say na borehole dey down there.

See this kid that exchanged his brain for cheap data I can't do this with you boy. That's child abuse.

Durentmoney:
lady u fine. How much u dey charge per night?
No mention big money oo bcuz we all now say na borehole dey down there.

vedah:

Easy with the kid baby
Now he's going to cry to momma poor child who is the heartless soul that gave him access to the internet?? He's just spraying his stupidity everywhere. Its becoming offensive.

AfroSamurai:
From Benue with love.

AfroSamurai:
You're more than a foolish dipsh1t. Only a certified scallywag will mistake a compliment for asslicking.

Now, you bastardize son of perdition. What's your deal? Don't tell me after you've been sodomized by your father and made to eat your mother's sh1t you now pass as an under-fed mentally unstable palaeolithic b1tch ass?

An uncivilised piece of used toilet paper like you will forever be a sodomized mosquito with the mental ability of an acrid, invalid caveman.

Bastard!!!.