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Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by timbs001(m): 3:49pm On Mar 16, 2017
Cutehector:
Oya who are those people shouting sex before marriage is bad.. Come leme give you a big slap
Whether you like it or not. God's standard remains unchanged.

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Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Jahblessme: 4:37pm On Mar 16, 2017
She can move on,no point dragging the inevitable.
He knew he had the problem but kept.quiet about it.
Best solution is they love each other from a distance and go their separate ways unless she wants to start being Mrs fix it from day one.

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Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 5:22pm On Mar 16, 2017
If your sister can withstand the heat and has patience to wait a while for children, she can stay and help solve the issue. After all, if the tables were turned and your sister was frigid or unable to conceive on time, you guys would expect her husband to stay and try to solve it.
Its not easy though. May God grant your family wisdom. If she can't withstand it, let her leave quietly without humiliating the man in private or in public. Its a big ego problem for menfolk we all know.

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Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 10:51pm On Mar 16, 2017
I was just laughing while reading op write up.

I can bet with every thing in me that your husband knows his impotent. But just wickness in him that made him not to disclose to your sister.
I had dated a guy suffering from diabetic for some years, which as a result affected his manhood. Although we were into no s e x relationship, but still yet I make sure I seduce him with my woman power just to know if he was OK health wise. Guess what? this guy thing refuse to rIse. I play my prank a week later. Still got the same answer. Right there, I told him to forget sister or brother thing we are doing, that his body must raise just for .me to be assure of what am about entering oh.
When he saw the fire in my eyes, this guy had to open up to me that, he had diabetic which had affected his manhood as well. The next day he came with all the drugs and the equipment he uses to measure his sugar level. At that point I knew what was ahead if I continue with the relationship.
Honestly speaking what piss me of with this guy was why he had to hide such vital Information from me.

Although I still practice no s e x till marriage, but am not that dump not to carry out my search just the way I did previously with the other guy.

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Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 12:28am On Mar 17, 2017
LaDivva:
She should leave that marriage ASAP, he knew his problem and tricked her into such marriage. 3months of being married yet no sex, thank God she's still intact, she should just leave that marriage before that man ruins her life.

Why did she not found out about this problem before she said I Do, especially for an engagement she knows it's for a lifetime


What happens to the slogan "For better For worse " or have it suddenly changed ?


when was that you bought a shoe without checking if it's your size
.

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Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 12:41am On Mar 17, 2017
Godchild2015:
I was just laughing while reading op write up.

I can bet with every thing in me that your husband knows his impotent. But just wickness in him that made him not to disclose to your sister.
I had dated a guy suffering from diabetic for some years, which as a result affected his manhood. Although we were into no s e x relationship, but still yet I make sure I seduce him with my woman power just to know if he was OK health wise. Guess what? this guy thing refuse to rIse. I play my prank a week later. Still got the same answer. Right there, I told him to forget sister or brother thing we are doing, that his body must raise just for .me to be assure of what am about entering oh.
When he saw the fire in my eyes, this guy had to open up to me that, he had diabetic which had affected his manhood as well. The next day he came with all the drugs and the equipment he uses to measure his sugar level. At that point I knew what was ahead if I continue with the relationship.
Honestly speaking what piss me of with this guy was why he had to hide such vital Information from me.

Although I still practice no s e x till marriage, but am not that dump not to carry out my search just the way I did previously with the other guy.

you guys agreed for no sex before marriage and you still went ahead to seduce him...hmm


you are lucky to have meet a man with low self esteem
.

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Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 3:11am On Mar 17, 2017
teemy:
i recommend a cock ring. deflation happens when the blood rushes back. the ring stops that.

Ok I will tell her. She is the shy type but in such matters she will have to be brave. I am taking panadol for my sister's headache but I shall gladly take it to find a solution for her marriage problems.

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Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 3:13am On Mar 17, 2017
sasko:


Why did she not found out about this problem before she said I Do, especially for an engagement she knows it's for a lifetime


What happens to the slogan "For better For worse " or have it suddenly changed ?


when was that you bought a shoe without checking if it's your size
.

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My sis is a virgin. How would she suspect someone would play such a cruel trick??

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Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 3:17am On Mar 17, 2017
LaDivva:
She should leave that marriage ASAP, he knew his problem and tricked her into such marriage. 3months of being married yet no sex, thank God she's still intact, she should just leave that marriage before that man ruins her life.

Hmm... I don't want to seem as if I am trying to break them but if she continues suffering, this may be the solution to her troubles. How can someone be so wicked??
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Bigsteveg(m): 4:13am On Mar 17, 2017
FortuneTeller:
I am coming today with tears in my eyes for my little sis. She is kind, sweet, and a very nice young lady. She met a 35 year old man last year who courted her and convinced our family of his sincerity. He is a nice guy and very handsome. They went for medical tests before the marriage and were told everything was fine. They have now been married for 3 months without sex. My sis has cried to me for the past 2 weeks. She says he has tried some herbal supplements and even saw a pastor, but nothing has changed. They did not have sex before marriage, but she says she has seen him with an erection before and after the marriage. However when he is about to insert himself, he loses the stiffness. I don't know what to do. Someone from our area says he is known to visit many prostitutes. I don't believe he is seeing them now because he has been with our family for some time now and even working in the family business. As they have not consummated the marriage, we are thinking of returning the things he bought so she can be free. How can a 35 year old man be impotent?? My sister shall not suffer.

You need to start minding your business and not bring your sister's family issue here.

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Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 6:30am On Mar 17, 2017
FortuneTeller:


Hmm... I don't want to seem as if I am trying to break them but if she continues suffering, this may be the solution to her troubles. How can someone be so wicked??

There is no wickedness here. Let's assume she is the one having issue with getting pregnant? You all will want the guy to be patient and God's time is the best storyline. She must not leave the marriage. This is a problem with solution. Thank God is not HIV.

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Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by teemy(m): 7:00am On Mar 17, 2017
FortuneTeller:

Ok I will tell her. She is the shy type but in such matters she will have to be brave. I am taking panadol for my sister's headache but I shall gladly take it...
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Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by bomasek(m): 7:22am On Mar 17, 2017
Cc flexherbal
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by YesNo(m): 7:29am On Mar 17, 2017
Your sister is nice, she is sweet and good and don't deserve this. she came crying to you e.t.c... Please what advice have YOU given to her before YOU come here and shout to the world that your sister's husby is impotent.?

is your sis just another BASIC chic in bed? she just opens her legs and lie down on her back and expect the guy to act like a vibrator and automatically DO HIS DUTY ? this can put pressure on the man and kill his VIBE.

is she the type that expects sex to be totally the man's effort?

does she even know how to touch a man and ginger him with her touches and MOVES ? some guys need more motivation than others.

let's see... have u told her to get active with HER HUSBAND and do things like bathing with him, giving him good gentle handjob, give him good head till it gets real hard and till he cums right there and then... or she feels it is only for porn stars and demons?

tell us what exactly has she tried before you start talking about herbs and spiritual problems?

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Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Flexherbal(m): 7:48am On Mar 17, 2017
bomasek:
Cc flexherbal

Boss!

I have responded to her.

The issue is not that difficult.
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by bomasek(m): 8:05am On Mar 17, 2017
Flexherbal:
y

Boss!
Did u read what the Op posted?
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Flexherbal(m): 8:13am On Mar 17, 2017
bomasek:
Did u read what the Op posted?
The "y" was a typographical error, boss.
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 9:07am On Mar 17, 2017
sasko:


Why did she not found out about this problem before she said I Do, especially for an engagement she knows it's for a lifetime


What happens to the slogan "For better For worse " or have it suddenly changed ?


when was that you bought a shoe without checking if it's your size
.

.



For better for worse? Seriously? It doesn't apply in this scenario my dear.
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by dangotesmummy: 9:40am On Mar 17, 2017
Certitude:

Your sister's pvssy is unappealing.
The story looks unreal though
anything can befall a man's penis at anytime particularly if he has been patronizing proustites many of them use juju when they're fighting amongst each other for who took the others customer hence they can do jazz on his manhood that the thing will not work for any other woman except them

That man needs to examine himself and the past life he has lived

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Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 10:18am On Mar 17, 2017
LaDivva:


For better for worse? Seriously? It doesn't apply in this scenario my dear.

Like seriously....


I didn't know it only applies to male folks


if reverse is the case I bet you will edit your posts and change your tunes


atleast I know a couple of guys whose wives are yet to conceived after about four years and more

of course I have knowledge of a particular lady with medical complications for her inability to conceive but that did not deter her husband in showering her love
.

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Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 11:15am On Mar 17, 2017
[quote author=sasko post=54663297]

you guys agreed for no sex before marriage and you still went ahead to seduce him...hmm


you are lucky to have meet a man with low self esteem
.[/quote
There are several way to get what you want without touching each other body to warrant doing the do.
I just needed to avoid future sorry, so whatever ways you interpreted it does not relate.

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Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 11:37am On Mar 17, 2017
[quote author=Godchild2015 post=54673558][/quote]
hmm...you must be a magician then

and lucky enough to come across the kind of men that are easily manipulated .

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Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by ezugegere(m): 2:26pm On Mar 17, 2017
The guy just has anxiety problem. Your sister is not good in bed. He put too much pressure on the guy. Even though we live in men's world, when it comes to the bedroom, women have to perform their own duty too.

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Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 2:47pm On Mar 17, 2017
jaszplus12:
Here we go again! Everything that happens to us we say its spiritual!
All this hullabaloo will make sense if we trace the poor guy's sexual history and follow medical procedure and counselling....
Why was he interested in olosho all the while?
What psychological reasons had he for patronizing them?
Does he have a history of sexual offence?
Was he affected by some sexual perversion etc?
Even if your sister consented to no sex before marriage did she make any attempt to find out physically the quality of his erection?
What's her own sexusl orientation? Na jus lie down make my oga fvck? Does she wear clothes to attract his desire or just looks like "mama chiboy"? Does she cuddle him in bed or feels that's for "adulterers"? Does she entwine his hands in hers or feels that's for teenagers? So many questions she needs to answer...
Bring this couple together and gently coax them into generating sexual pleasure between themselves and see what happens....
The guy may just have burned out feelings about sex and needs encouragement.
There are counselling offices in hospitals I guess, they should go there first. Of course prayers help but if no desire burning to make love is lit in them then faith without work is dead!!

He visits prostitutes. Them don use this guy sperm do rituals. Its more like a joke, but its a likely possibility. These prostitutes can be very diabolical... Nothing good comes out from an encounter with them

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Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by jaszplus12(m): 2:59pm On Mar 17, 2017
myking95:


He visits prostitutes. Them don use this guy sperm do rituals. Its more like a joke, but its a likely possibility. These prostitutes can be very diabolical... Nothing good comes out from an encounter with them
Yea but I still think he's burned out and needs to recover with new ideas and refresh his memory on how pure sex is enjoyed in marriage.
I really wish I met him one on one it would have been really worthwhile.
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Nobody: 3:27pm On Mar 17, 2017
jaszplus12:

Yea but I still think he's burned out and needs to recover with new ideas and refresh his memory on how pure sex is enjoyed in marriage.
I really wish I met him one on one it would have been really worthwhile.

I can't imagine seeing a naked woman I'm attracted to and not having an erection. I remember one morning I woke up without morning wood...I jx suffered a severe heartbreak the previous night...likena shot to the heart. I was 21 at the time. Mehn I jx kukuma assume say e don happen o...no be serious prayer...no room for forming in dat area o...jx happened that I was too too stressed. White onions, zinc and blood tonic did the trick. Took me close to a year to get back to full strength. Since that episode... I've sworn I no go carry anybody matter for head.

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Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by jaszplus12(m): 6:24pm On Mar 17, 2017
myking95:


I can't imagine seeing a naked woman I'm attracted to and not having an erection. I remember one morning I woke up without morning wood...I jx suffered a severe heartbreak the previous night...likena shot to the heart. I was 21 at the time. Mehn I jx kukuma assume say e don happen o...no be serious prayer...no room for forming in dat area o...jx happened that I was too too stressed. White onions, zinc and blood tonic did the trick. Took me close to a year to get back to full strength. Since that episode... I've sworn I no go carry anybody matter for head.
Better o!! No joy if joystick no dey stand o!! No enjoyment dey pass that one I tell you. That guy better go see dokinto fast!!!
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by Ishilove: 7:06pm On Mar 17, 2017
FortuneTeller:
I am coming today with tears in my eyes for my little sis. She is kind, sweet, and a very nice young lady. She met a 35 year old man last year who courted her and convinced our family of his sincerity. He is a nice guy and very handsome. They went for medical tests before the marriage and were told everything was fine. They have now been married for 3 months without sex. My sis has cried to me for the past 2 weeks. She says he has tried some herbal supplements and even saw a pastor, but nothing has changed. They did not have sex before marriage, but she says she has seen him with an erection before and after the marriage. However when he is about to insert himself, he loses the stiffness. I don't know what to do. Someone from our area says he is known to visit many prostitutes. I don't believe he is seeing them now because he has been with our family for some time now and even working in the family business. As they have not consummated the marriage, we are thinking of returning the things he bought so she can be free. How can a 35 year old man be impotent?? My sister shall not suffer.
Experts in the house, does viagra work for this kind of situation?
Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by iSufferFools: 7:10pm On Mar 17, 2017
Ishilove:

Experts in the house, does viagra work for this kind of situation?
Not really, since he can even have an erection_ I believe it's a matter of his mind.
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Re: My Sister Married An Impotent Man by jenny21(f): 1:04am On Mar 18, 2017
It's simple ...... he is gay duh

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