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If Ur Bf Or Gf Forgets Ur Birthday,is It Enough To Call It Quits? by FunspoT(m): 7:42pm On Mar 16, 2017
Ladies and Gentlemen of this forum,I will like to pose a question to you guys and I hope to get good feedbacks from you,thanks in advance;

A friend of mine just told me that his girlfriend of a year plus says she is no longer interested with their relationship again.When I asked for her reasons,he told me that he was very busy and forgot her birthday was the day before(this is the first time it will be happening),and when he remembered,her immediately called her to apologise and wish her a happy birthday,only for her to say she was breakingup with him,all efforts to make her change her mind proved abortive;he is distraught and very sad because he loves her so much,buh she does not want to hear of that.

So romancelanders, this is what made me to seek your opinions on this matter,if it really is enough reason to breakup a relationship for something like that...if you ask me, I suspect something else about the girl as theirs is a long distance relationship.
Re: If Ur Bf Or Gf Forgets Ur Birthday,is It Enough To Call It Quits? by professorfal: 7:43pm On Mar 16, 2017
undecided

nope!
Re: If Ur Bf Or Gf Forgets Ur Birthday,is It Enough To Call It Quits? by veinless(f): 7:44pm On Mar 16, 2017
nairalanders and this my friend syndrome. ..

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Re: If Ur Bf Or Gf Forgets Ur Birthday,is It Enough To Call It Quits? by Cutehector(m): 7:45pm On Mar 16, 2017
Well its ok to vent your dissapointments on him/her but its childish to call it quits..


Something must have made them forget.... So you have to first of all hear their own reason

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Re: If Ur Bf Or Gf Forgets Ur Birthday,is It Enough To Call It Quits? by Flexherbal(m): 7:46pm On Mar 16, 2017
No
Re: If Ur Bf Or Gf Forgets Ur Birthday,is It Enough To Call It Quits? by Nobody: 7:47pm On Mar 16, 2017
It depends on the kinda guy I'm dating... There are people that are not good with keeping dates. If he's one of them then his offence is forgivable but if I'm sure he isn't one them... I wee breakup angry embarassed

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Re: If Ur Bf Or Gf Forgets Ur Birthday,is It Enough To Call It Quits? by Nobody: 7:49pm On Mar 16, 2017
I can't breakup with him if he forgets. Although I will throw a tantrum so that next time he will remember but breakup? Hell no! angry

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Re: If Ur Bf Or Gf Forgets Ur Birthday,is It Enough To Call It Quits? by dollyjoy(f): 7:51pm On Mar 16, 2017
I think that isn't enough reason to call a relationship quit.
Re: If Ur Bf Or Gf Forgets Ur Birthday,is It Enough To Call It Quits? by LuvSwollenPussy(m): 7:57pm On Mar 16, 2017
Two things are overlapping here. Is the matter about

1. being too busy that he hardly have time for her let alone remembering her birthday or

2. he's been having time for her but just forgot her birthday.

If it is 1 then the matter has been piling up and her decision was based on a combination of lots of faults but because the "no birthday call" is the peak ppl will think its bcus of d birthday alone.

If its 2 then she has probably found succour with another guy or shes just been too childish for a mature relationship. However considering how long shes been in the relationship(a year plus), she wouldnt be a child in matters like this. Shes probably yielding to some other guys attractive advances.

Life is more than taking drastic decisions on issues such as this. Even mothers forget thier childrens birthdays, wives forget husbands, husbands forget wives birthdays etc. All she had to do is express disapproval of his forgetfulness and accept his offer to make it up to her. Shikena.

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Re: If Ur Bf Or Gf Forgets Ur Birthday,is It Enough To Call It Quits? by Nobody: 7:58pm On Mar 16, 2017
Never.
Re: If Ur Bf Or Gf Forgets Ur Birthday,is It Enough To Call It Quits? by FunspoT(m): 7:58pm On Mar 16, 2017
Aderola15:
It depends on the kinda guy I'm dating... There are people that are not good with keeping dates. If he's one of them then his offence is forgivable but if I'm sure he isn't one them... I wee breakup angry embarassed


He says he does not forget her important days but this particular incident just happened as he was very busy at work and did not even have the time to check his social medias till the next day.
Re: If Ur Bf Or Gf Forgets Ur Birthday,is It Enough To Call It Quits? by FunspoT(m): 8:01pm On Mar 16, 2017
veinless:
nairalanders and this my friend syndrome. ..



Yeah,can be tiring,buh can you give an opinion on the topic.
Re: If Ur Bf Or Gf Forgets Ur Birthday,is It Enough To Call It Quits? by Nobody: 8:04pm On Mar 16, 2017
Its not enough. I almost forgot my dad's birthday last year.
Re: If Ur Bf Or Gf Forgets Ur Birthday,is It Enough To Call It Quits? by FunspoT(m): 8:07pm On Mar 16, 2017
LuvSwollenPussy:
Two things are overlapping here. Is the matter about

1. being too busy that he hardly have time for her let alone remembering her birthday or

2. he's been having time for her but just forgot her birthday.

If it is 1 then the matter has been piling up and her decision was based on a combination of lots of faults but because the "no birthday call" is the peak ppl will think its bcus of d birthday alone.

If its 2 then she has probably found succour with another guy or shes just been too childish for a mature relationship. However considering how long shes been in the relationship(a year plus), she wouldnt be a child in matters like this. Shes probably yielding to some other guys attractive advances.

Life is more than taking drastic decisions on issues such as this. Even mothers forget thier childrens birthdays, wives forget husbands, husbands forget wives birthdays etc. All she had to do is express disapproval of his forgetfulness and accept his offer to go extra mile to make it up to her. Shikena.



I follow their relationship as much as possible form a distance,and I know the guy is committed to her and keeps incontact with her as much as he can on phones,etc(its a long distance relationship)
Re: If Ur Bf Or Gf Forgets Ur Birthday,is It Enough To Call It Quits? by McBrooklyn(m): 8:12pm On Mar 16, 2017
cry
Re: If Ur Bf Or Gf Forgets Ur Birthday,is It Enough To Call It Quits? by Nobody: 8:12pm On Mar 16, 2017
The guy had a lot in his head. Since this was the first time it's happening she shouldn't have ended the relationship.
Re: If Ur Bf Or Gf Forgets Ur Birthday,is It Enough To Call It Quits? by firstking01(m): 9:17pm On Mar 16, 2017
GirLs and birthdays.
Re: If Ur Bf Or Gf Forgets Ur Birthday,is It Enough To Call It Quits? by LePrezident(m): 10:05pm On Mar 16, 2017
Yes! Why will you even forget the birthday of someone dear to you? It's a different thing if u are unable to afford a gift on that day but at least remember the day and acknowledge it... I even remember the birthday of some of my exes.
Re: If Ur Bf Or Gf Forgets Ur Birthday,is It Enough To Call It Quits? by thehedge(f): 10:13pm On Mar 16, 2017
LuvSwollenPussy:
Two things are overlapping here. Is the matter about

1. being too busy that he hardly have time for her let alone remembering her birthday or

2. he's been having time for her but just forgot her birthday.

If it is 1 then the matter has been piling up and her decision was based on a combination of lots of faults but because the "no birthday call" is the peak ppl will think its bcus of d birthday alone.

If its 2 then she has probably found succour with another guy or shes just been too childish for a mature relationship. However considering how long shes been in the relationship(a year plus), she wouldnt be a child in matters like this. Shes probably yielding to some other guys attractive advances.

Life is more than taking drastic decisions on issues such as this. Even mothers forget thier childrens birthdays, wives forget husbands, husbands forget wives birthdays etc. All she had to do is express disapproval of his forgetfulness and accept his offer to go extra mile to make it up to her. Shikena.
honestly, even I forget my own birthday. I seriously dont think the birthday thing is the only issue.
Re: If Ur Bf Or Gf Forgets Ur Birthday,is It Enough To Call It Quits? by refiner(f): 10:32pm On Mar 16, 2017
It depends tho...my dad dont even know any of our birthdays talk more of remembering it...talk less of a guy forgetting d birthday of his galfriend not even his wife...

Its never a good reaaon to quit a relationship... undecided
Re: If Ur Bf Or Gf Forgets Ur Birthday,is It Enough To Call It Quits? by ELShehzad: 10:51pm On Mar 16, 2017
refiner:
It depends tho...my dad dont even know any of our birthdays talk more of remembering it...talk less of a guy forgetting d birthday of his galfriend not even his wife...

Its never a good reaaon to quit a relationship... undecided

Re: If Ur Bf Or Gf Forgets Ur Birthday,is It Enough To Call It Quits? by Freeman50(m): 11:01pm On Mar 16, 2017
There is need for quit.....
Re: If Ur Bf Or Gf Forgets Ur Birthday,is It Enough To Call It Quits? by Freeman50(m): 11:11pm On Mar 16, 2017
I broke up with my ex just cause of this and vice versa. it has been continuously.....(not once or twice). Have been in a position of correcting same mistakes every time. Sorry has been the order of the day each time such comes up. Although I love her very much buh I can't take it any longer so I decided to quit the relationship. It wasn't easy buh man gat to do what he gat to do. Provides with what she desires......what else does a woman want from a man.
Apparently, she is still a student (MSC).(Just to do the needful and show concern.....gifts not attached. Even ordinary text messages or calls am okay wid that buh didn't get any).

If your partner is emotionally attached to you and loves you very much....I see no reason why he or she should forget your birthday or vice versa. if such happens.....it simply signifies that he or she doesn't desire or love you as you do or into another relationship.

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Re: If Ur Bf Or Gf Forgets Ur Birthday,is It Enough To Call It Quits? by LePrezident(m): 7:08am On Mar 17, 2017
Freeman50:
I broke up with my ex just cause of this and vice versa. it has been continuously.....(not once or twice). Have been in a position of correcting same mistakes every time. Sorry has been the order of the day each time such comes up. Although I love her very much buh I can't take it any longer so I decided to quit the relationship. It wasn't easy buh man gat to do what he gat to do. Provides with what she desires......what else does a woman want from a man.
Apparently, she is still a student (MSC).(Just to do the needful and show concern.....gifts not attached. Even ordinary text messages or calls am okay wid that buh didn't get any).

If your partner is emotionally attached to you and loves you very much....I see no reason why he or she should forget your birthday or vice versa. if such happens.....it simply signifies that he or she doesn't desire or love you as you do or into another relationship.

I concur
Re: If Ur Bf Or Gf Forgets Ur Birthday,is It Enough To Call It Quits? by Nobody: 7:19am On Mar 17, 2017
LePrezident:
Yes! Why will you even forget the birthday of someone dear to you? It's a different thing if u are unable to afford a gift on that day but at least remember the day and acknowledge it... I even remember the birthday of some of my exes.
GBAM

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Re: If Ur Bf Or Gf Forgets Ur Birthday,is It Enough To Call It Quits? by Maxi112: 7:41am On Mar 17, 2017
Aderola15:
It depends on the kinda guy I'm dating... There are people that are not good with keeping dates. If he's one of them then his offence is forgivable but if I'm sure he isn't one them... I wee breakup angry embarassed
did you get my mention?

I have got no reply in regards to that. Please do and get back to me.
Re: If Ur Bf Or Gf Forgets Ur Birthday,is It Enough To Call It Quits? by Nobody: 7:43am On Mar 17, 2017
Maxi112:
did you get my mention?

I have got no reply in effect to that. Please do and get back to me.

I didn't get it... Maybe you should mention me somewhere else or let's talk on the otherside wink

Goodmorning Maxi Okafor grin cheesy tongue
Re: If Ur Bf Or Gf Forgets Ur Birthday,is It Enough To Call It Quits? by Nobody: 7:50am On Mar 17, 2017
Call it quit nba? undecided
Well, depends on the level we been dey before sha. grin
If comm had been constant before then, i can forgive her for that but if not, Maybe there's another "Tuham" somewhere for her sad
Birthdays are the little big thing partners shouldn't forget 'bout themselves (my opinion though)
Re: If Ur Bf Or Gf Forgets Ur Birthday,is It Enough To Call It Quits? by LePrezident(m): 8:41am On Mar 17, 2017
Aderola15:

GBAM

I am, do you wanna toast me? wink
Re: If Ur Bf Or Gf Forgets Ur Birthday,is It Enough To Call It Quits? by babyfaceafrica: 8:42am On Mar 17, 2017
All this childish people indulging in relationship, let her wait till she gets married,then she will divorce her husband because he forgot to buy pepper.......the guy should go to church for Thanksgiving... Karashika has left
Re: If Ur Bf Or Gf Forgets Ur Birthday,is It Enough To Call It Quits? by dacovajnr: 8:52am On Mar 17, 2017
Well the girl has seen another guy...The birthday issh is just an opportunity for Her to get outta the Relationship...Some girls can be dumb and crazy, U can't expect us to av your birthday as memory verses when we can always think of something else that brings money..Who your birthday Help? undecided undecided
Re: If Ur Bf Or Gf Forgets Ur Birthday,is It Enough To Call It Quits? by Maxi112: 7:08pm On Mar 17, 2017
Aderola15:


I didn't get it... Maybe you should mention me somewhere else or let's talk on the otherside wink

Goodmorning Maxi Okafor grin cheesy tongue
grin

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