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Re: Advice For Single Successful Guys by josite: 9:37am On Mar 19, 2017
do a stress test for the woman u will marry.pretend u dont have money,pretend u are very sick and pretend u will always have the last say and note how she reacts.and more importantly pretend to divulge some secrets to her .sucessful men are the ones who cant afford to marry just any girl,poor people can.

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Re: Advice For Single Successful Guys by JeffreyJamez(m): 9:38am On Mar 19, 2017
BoleynDynaSTY:
lol so your point is that pretty girls aren't wife materials but the ugly ones are? cheesy.... Oya guys over to y'all

And of course someone will always read out of context

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Re: Advice For Single Successful Guys by GodblessNig247(m): 9:39am On Mar 19, 2017
Medunah:
Yes, don't mind them...

They will leave responsible and well trained girl like me to go after beauty and curves that will break their heart at the end of the day. cheesy

Well, I think they deserve each other....the guys want them as trophy wives cos they beautiful & all and the girls also want their money!!

I "partially' agree with the Op, be wise and stop chasing physical appearances.......

Drop me ya pm if u are very sure of ur claim grin
Re: Advice For Single Successful Guys by Diplomaticbeing(m): 9:39am On Mar 19, 2017
@OP

Your parochialness stinks. . . I don't envy you at all. Virtuousness doesn't discriminate, so uglyness or beautifulness shouldn't be a subject of discussion.

In summary, either sexes should always endeavour to lookout for a virtuous partner. . . So long as one is virtuous too, because it's a taboo to aim for what you didn't earn.
Re: Advice For Single Successful Guys by Nobody: 9:40am On Mar 19, 2017
Medunah:
Yes, don't mind them...

They will leave responsible and well trained girl like me to go after beauty and curves that will break their heart at the end of the day. cheesy

Well, I think they deserve each other....the guys want them as trophy wives cos they beautiful & all and the girls also want their money!!

I "partially' agree with the Op, be wise and stop chasing physical appearances.......

Physical attraction is first before anything.If your man does not have a hard on just know you are not attractive.
Re: Advice For Single Successful Guys by 2kurupt(m): 9:41am On Mar 19, 2017
Medunah:

I am not saying there aren't beautiful and curvy girls who re responsible.......but most times, these guys are actually marrying them for their physical attributes so if they eventually end up with gold diggers, serves them all right!! Same thing goes to girls who marry guys for their money while overlooking the fact they he might be a serial cheat or woman beater!

And No, I am neither beautiful or curvy and that doesn't mean I am not a gold digger or I am not bitchy..... was only kidding with that part..

True, physical attributes can't always be used to preempt someone's personality. Your last paragraph though undecided
Re: Advice For Single Successful Guys by DLGUY: 9:41am On Mar 19, 2017
josite:
do a stress test for the woman u will marry.pretend u dont have money,pretend u are very sick and pretend u will always have the last say and note how she reacts.and more importantly pretend to divulge some secrets to her .sucessful men are the ones who cant afford to marry just any girl,poor people can.
Gbam!
I have a case of a pretty girl who probably has been smashed several times by the boss who gave her a new job while her hubby at home probably thinks the mother of his child is faithful to him.
SMH!
Re: Advice For Single Successful Guys by smartty68(m): 9:42am On Mar 19, 2017
Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholdergrin
Flashy or no flashy, what's paramount in a relationship is UNDERSTANDING and PATIENCEwink as younger generation do not have any of those two factors this dayskiss
Re: Advice For Single Successful Guys by savagefinder: 9:42am On Mar 19, 2017
Medunah:
Yes, don't mind them...

They will leave responsible and well trained girl like me to go after beauty and curves that will break their heart at the end of the day. cheesy

Well, I think they deserve each other....the guys want them as trophy wives cos they beautiful & all and the girls also want their money!!

I "partially' agree with the Op, be wise and stop chasing physical appearances.......

you really have a nice akin colour..I will have to say..am tripping..wink
Re: Advice For Single Successful Guys by chronique(m): 9:51am On Mar 19, 2017
Good advice. Just go for a lady who is at least, a little bit attractive. Most extremely pretty ladies tend to be promiscuous and I don't know why. Even the average looking ones aren't different either. But there are a few decent ones. I think one should get to look at the lady's family, to know what kind of woman she would be. If she's from a dysfunctional family, you gotta really be careful.

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Re: Advice For Single Successful Guys by buffalowings: 9:58am On Mar 19, 2017
so I should not marry a beautiful girl


continue

mine must be pretty cool
Re: Advice For Single Successful Guys by jmoore(m): 10:00am On Mar 19, 2017
So we can't find a very pretty lady who is also virtuous ?

O ife i na acho igwa m? undecided

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Re: Advice For Single Successful Guys by Sike(m): 10:10am On Mar 19, 2017
Advice noted
Re: Advice For Single Successful Guys by seunmsg(m): 10:13am On Mar 19, 2017
It doesn't matter if the lady is pretty or not so pretty. If she's irresponsible and not fit for marriage, she's irresponsible and not fit for marriage.

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Re: Advice For Single Successful Guys by LagosIkd(m): 10:14am On Mar 19, 2017
BoleynDynaSTY:
lol so your point is that pretty girls aren't wife materials but the ugly ones are? cheesy.... Oya guys over to y'all

Hehehe. Wch one you dey for seff
As for me nd my success, na beauty n brain we follow.
Ugly n character can wait for the guy below me.
I go humble any babe, I no wan knw whr u learn ur character from. Na today

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Re: Advice For Single Successful Guys by amdoyin82(m): 10:15am On Mar 19, 2017
My wife is very beautiful and she is not the wayward type. We have had two cute and handsome sons together. Not all beautiful and married lady are bad.

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Re: Advice For Single Successful Guys by Mountbatten: 10:23am On Mar 19, 2017
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Re: Advice For Single Successful Guys by Ezionye(f): 10:28am On Mar 19, 2017
tspun:
Thanks, is almost as if that advice is for me.

All my life I have always wish to marry a slim girl with height. But now I am face with a short beautiful fair decent lovely girl who has showed me love more than anyone as ever done.

I love everything about her except her height. Am just praying for God to give me the grace to see pass that because I am tire of searching and i really want to settle down.

Lolz

Nobody can be 100% perfect u know? So if its just d height, then I dnt think ders a problem. Just enjoy ur relationship
Re: Advice For Single Successful Guys by wahles(m): 10:28am On Mar 19, 2017
Medunah:
Yes, don't mind them...

They will leave responsible and well trained girl like me to go after beauty and curves that will break their heart at the end of the day. cheesy

Well, I think they deserve each other....the guys want them as trophy wives cos they beautiful & all and the girls also want their money!!

I "partially' agree with the Op, be wise and stop chasing physical appearances.......

cheesy claps#
Re: Advice For Single Successful Guys by repogirl(f): 10:32am On Mar 19, 2017
I wanted to say good advice but then the OP mentioned side chicks and spoilt everything. Mtcheww!
Re: Advice For Single Successful Guys by Ezionye(f): 10:34am On Mar 19, 2017
[quote author=fineboynl post=547321

women can sleep with 20 men a day if she is eating well. but men cannot. this shows they are lustful and will likely demand more of it.[/quote]

Oh really? undecided
Re: Advice For Single Successful Guys by Pain(m): 10:35am On Mar 19, 2017
zed7:
This i consider to be my free advice to young men who are single and successful.
Please stay away from a trophy wife. I know that it may seem cool to flaunt that beautiful girl around as your wife and you desire beautiful kids but most times, these flashy girls have too much attention and wouldn't hesitate to follow the next man even after marriage.

Marrying a beautiful girl does not in anyway guarantee a happy marriage. Most of these ladies don't care being single mothers because they know that they are beautiful and would always attract men.

The trend now is for ladies to get married, get a child and move on to the next man. They know your funds will guarantee their kids will have a decent life while they have the freedom to taste all the perks of singlehood. We should stop falling for these tricks.

There are many responsible women out there who might not be so attractive but they are willing to be married and stay married. Wealthy single guys should go for these girls, they guarantee a more stable home and peace of mind.

For the randy guys who can't keep it in their pants, after getting married to that decent girl, you can keep the flashy gold diggers as side chicks if you like. Like they say, you can't turn a ho to a house wife.

This is my free advice to all successful young dudes. Be wise, stay wise.

Very Candid Practical Advice. Far better that what most Pastors and Churches can offer these days. Due must be very experienced

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Re: Advice For Single Successful Guys by Horlawoomey(m): 10:36am On Mar 19, 2017
Medunah:
Yes, don't mind them...

They will leave responsible and well trained girl like me to go after beauty and curves that will break their heart at the end of the day. cheesy

Well, I think they deserve each other....the guys want them as trophy wives cos they beautiful & all and the girls also want their money!!

I "partially' agree with the Op, be wise and stop chasing physical appearances.......


Make I apply ? grin
Re: Advice For Single Successful Guys by MrSly(m): 10:39am On Mar 19, 2017
DLGUY:

God bless you OP.

I wouldn't consider myself successful until I hit my first Billion.
But until then, I'm not even considering marrying any of these Olosho's.
Thank God I have some finess in my gene so I won't be worried about producing beautiful kids.

tak
The woman who gave birth to me was and still is a damsel. kiss

Thanks OP FOR this advice.

I bless God I never went on a date with that witch.
Apparently, there's a blessing in every dissappointment.

You truly can't turn a ho to a wife.
take hrt bro. I can see did it but luckily you are not yet very much into it. nevertheless she broke ur hrt. take hrt.
Re: Advice For Single Successful Guys by IamaNigerianGuy(m): 10:39am On Mar 19, 2017
Mountbatten:
Smart men don't get married in this day and age due to how messed up modern women have become. In today's society, marriage only benefits women with the divorce laws, child support and alimony.

I am yet to meet someone who can tell me the point of getting married. If it's for having kids, you can either adopt or get a surrogate without getting married.

A single man can chose how to spend his money and time. If you can't keep your little head down then there's escorts or women of the night to take care of that. Most women today aren't worth marrying hence the high divorce and cheating rate.

Cristiano Ronaldo and Leonardo Di Caprio are examples of smart men.

It pains me to say so but I agree with you.

Many women especially Nigerian women are not worth the stress. They are money minded, undisciplined and lack home making skills. Imagine a lady who cannot cook!
All they do well is go around flaunting the only asset they have - their bodies.
I have not encountered one example of a modern marriage to convince me that the contract represents a value proposition

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Re: Advice For Single Successful Guys by DLGUY: 10:42am On Mar 19, 2017
MrSly:

take hrt bro. I can see did it but luckily you are not yet very much into it. nevertheless she broke ur hrt. take hrt.

How can someone I've never met before break my heart.

You all must be disillusioned to think ing such.

How do you even love or obsess over someone you've never met?

I wish you knew me better, you'd know I'm not even easilly impressed with women.

I only showered her with too much attention which got to her head and ofcourse she bailed out when she realised she wouldn't get what she wants from me.

The only thing I felt bad about was the fact that she was using my weakness against me.
Little did she know I'm way more than she thought I was.

I wish you knew how easy it is for me to get a girl but I choose not to waste my time and energy on them.

I was only trying to save the friendship we had but now I've realised she's not even worth the effort after seeing her.

Don't be fooled by the pictures, most of them don't look anything near the photo filters.


Heart broken my foot.

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Re: Advice For Single Successful Guys by Merceline(f): 10:46am On Mar 19, 2017
TheSlyone2:
Make the money and see girls flock around you like bees...


Money over Bitches
you will definitely have bitches. but not true love or respectable ladies with class and intelligence. you will have yahoo girls and gold diggers

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Re: Advice For Single Successful Guys by lanre88(m): 10:46am On Mar 19, 2017
This is real reason why I am yet to marry. No real gal yet.

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Re: Advice For Single Successful Guys by Merceline(f): 10:49am On Mar 19, 2017
Suprnov3r:



You are the textbook case of a "trophy wife"...
hahahaha lmao
Re: Advice For Single Successful Guys by Nobody: 10:50am On Mar 19, 2017
zed7:
This i consider to be my free advice to young men who are single and successful.
Please stay away from a trophy wife. I know that it may seem cool to flaunt that beautiful girl around as your wife and you desire beautiful kids but most times, these flashy girls have too much attention and wouldn't hesitate to follow the next man even after marriage.

Marrying a beautiful girl does not in anyway guarantee a happy marriage. Most of these ladies don't care being single mothers because they know that they are beautiful and would always attract men.

The trend now is for ladies to get married, get a child and move on to the next man. They know your funds will guarantee their kids will have a decent life while they have the freedom to taste all the perks of singlehood. We should stop falling for these tricks.

There are many responsible women out there who might not be so attractive but they are willing to be married and stay married. Wealthy single guys should go for these girls, they guarantee a more stable home and peace of mind.

For the randy guys who can't keep it in their pants, after getting married to that decent girl, you can keep the flashy gold diggers as side chicks if you like. Like they say, you can't turn a ho to a house wife.

This is my free advice to all successful young dudes. Be wise, stay wise.

Well said. Even Linda ikeji is a side chic.

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Re: Advice For Single Successful Guys by stanmshel: 10:50am On Mar 19, 2017
True talk
Re: Advice For Single Successful Guys by tunesoft(m): 10:52am On Mar 19, 2017
Check it....a larger number of the beauties are empty headed. Anyways good advise... Noted

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