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Re: I Am Impotent & Frustrated by jomoh: 1:32am On Mar 26, 2017
klevotino:
Alrite noted, shey it just to swallow the garlic with water first thing in the morning and how many a day. Thanks..


You peel out the dried outermost layers to reveal the soft middle the swallow with water. it is more advisable in the night for it to work overnight cos it will later start smelling in your farts and poops and You don't want that during the day. You can do it for between 5 to 7 days.
Re: I Am Impotent & Frustrated by Olayetan(m): 3:18am On Mar 26, 2017
Bro
U no be impotent jare
So far that thing dey jack 60%, 70%, 80% and 100% as u stated den u no be impotent.
Wetin u need nah some motivation to make am perform it's function and nah woman fit give u dat motivation and next time wen u try to have sex, divert all ur mind into it and put all ur energy into the act.
Ur erection go restore fully without fluctuation....
Re: I Am Impotent & Frustrated by apollo13(m): 4:36am On Mar 26, 2017
Lexusgs430:


You don't only contract STD through sex .................................
Abeg wetin be the meaning of STD again? Something is called STD and you are saying something else. I bow to you o.
Re: I Am Impotent & Frustrated by Lexusgs430: 7:32am On Mar 26, 2017
apollo13:

Abeg wetin be the meaning of STD again? Something is called STD and you are saying something else. I bow to you o.

Because it's called STD, does not necessarily mean the only form of transmission is through sex..........
Haven't you ever heard of 3rd party transmission? If you haven't, ask Uncle Google.... I bow to you o!!!!

NB : You need to send me recharge card (etisalat), for this sexual orientation lecture.....
Re: I Am Impotent & Frustrated by AbdulKaybee: 7:57am On Mar 26, 2017
I'd advise you to visit a hospital, and if you don't mind, a teaching hospital is better. Just that you may be attended to in the presence of the students and you shouldn't be shy of that. They are the future doctors, so there's nothing wrong there.

Also, let your mum know about it. Tell her. If anybody doesn't know, it shouldn't be your mum.

Who would be ready to give it whatever it takes apart from your mum? Nobody.

But you should be back from the hospital before letting her know. And if it's resolved in the hospital, then it's not necessary for your mum to know.

But if otherwise, tell your mum.

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helpforever:
I saw a post about a woman complaining that her sister married an impotent man. I smiled, the man probably knew he had an issue and still went ahead and married. I also have this issue and its really bothering me for over 5 years. Mine is complicated and I think its spiritual.

It all started in 2011 when I was 20 and was ready to have sex. I went to a popular brothel in Lagos with a friend to try it out.
Though I was very nervous because I was a virgin and my heart was beating very fast.

We actually went in and two women approached us. A young woman of about 28 and one of about 40.

I am my other virgin friend had eye on the one of about 28 cause she was very beautiful. My friend immediately held on to her. The other one of 40 now held on to me that I should carry her lets go do it. I angrily said "You be my mama mate na", she got angry and left.

Then the younger one said, if I and my friend wants, we can take turns with her.

We left for her room. I entered first and was very nervous and sluggish even in removing my cloth.

She said, "e be like say u be virgin...so na me go disvrigin" you. She started touching my di*k, but it didn't get hard.

Time started to waste and I got tired and asked her to refund my money. She started shouting that its not possible, that the fact that my dick did not rise is none of her business. I asked that my friend should use the money and attempt, she said no. that he must bring his own money.

We left the building and started the arguments outside. Other prostitutes came to her aid and started asking what was wrong. She explained to them that I tried to have sex with her and my thing did not rise and now I want my money back, they started shouting and said its not possible that we should better get out of her.

At one corner, the older woman of about 40 that I earlier rejected started giving me the "ntoor" look and was saying "You see your life"

I got very scared and left for home immediately.

I tried to watch porn to see if it will get up, I can't really remember if it did.

Long and short, I have not been able to have sex since then. I have not even had sex in my life. I have never tried to have sex with a real girl before, so I won't embarrass myself. I have never had a girlfriend. Though girls keep flocking around me, since I am doing well both academically and business wise, but I never attempt to have sex with them and they keep wondering whats wrong with me. One of the unilag girls that seduced me and I did nothing concluded that I was impotent because she feels no man in the world would have resisted her seduction since she was very hot.

I have tried to have sex 3 more times, with prostitutes, but still same thing happens. No erection

In 2012, I spent the whole year going to church everyday. Nothing happened. I have stopped now and accepted my fate.

Only my best friend knows about this, he keeps saying its not a spiritual condition but medical condition due to the fact that I started
masturbating right since I was 17.

He says I might have had the issue right before the prostitute encounter. Sometimes he says that it is a psychological condition.

But the thing is, how can a young boy of 20 then have Erectile dysfunction due to masturbation.
Many young boys masturbate and nothing happened to them.

I was sad for a while, but now it seems I have accepted my fate. This issue have made me focus on my studies and business and now, at 26. I have finished my BSC, and my MSC

Whenever I am Hot, I masturbate and I think that has worsened my issue. I have been masturbating since 2011 when this happened

Lots of order thing happens in between that confuses me. Like 2 years after the prostitute encounter, when I was in my 3rd year, one beautiful edo girl who really loved me was making out with me and flirting around me and I got a rock solid erection 100%. Very hard. Also, in 2014. A girl who liked me came to my house and she was flirting with me, though she didn't plan on having sex with me. Only the flirting alone made me hard. The erection was 70% hard. But then, those are the only occurrences.

Whenever I watch porn, I get semi erection - say about 60% hard.

Whenever I jerk my joystick, it gets hard - about 80% and within minutes, it deflates again.

Lot of different things have happened along the line which is too much to type. Long and short, I don't get erections when I wakeup again. I used to before all this issues.

Or is it the excess sugar I take, or the belly fat I have gotten due to the way I eat carelessly and spend on myself. (Since I don't have any woman to cater for) that is the cause.

Is it spiritual, medical or psychological?

Is it due to masturbation? Is it an infection?

Because I can remember in late 2012 or early 2013. When I tried to urinate, I had and felt a sharp pain.

I happened for about 2 days and stopped by itself.

I am getting older and my mother is already reminding me about marriage. I don't think I will marry until this issue is resolved. I can't
subject any woman to emotional pain.

At some point, I thought I was gay, but I am in no way attracted to men. But I am attracted to women. I tried watch transgender porn to confirm if I was gay (since I couldn't stand real gay porn). I actually got aroused and had a mild erection. But come on, transgenders are women who just have a joystick.

I have put up my issues on a foreign site (because other people who have put up their problems on nairaland gets abused, mocked, insulted and bullied) and I was advised by the whites to see a doctor and counselor. They didn't even understand what I meant by spiritual issue. But they have been very concerned and helpful

I don't need to see any counselor because my case would confuse who ever I tell.

I have been living in pains. No sex life and no real social life. I keep falling out with female friend because I don't make any move towards them.

I keep falling out with male friends, because they keep wondering "why this their guy no dey nack woman like them". They feel I am weird because they 100% know I am not gay and wonder why a normal guy will be avoiding women like this.

I hope my issue is resolved.

But if its not, I would live the rest of my life like this. Probably keep on masturbating and never get married.

It might actually be my excessive masturbation that might be the cause of this. I don't really know. Only God knows.

I am depressed. But suicide is not an option for me. God forbid.

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Re: I Am Impotent & Frustrated by tpapi: 8:23am On Mar 26, 2017
yemozn:
Eat alot of watermelon with the seed, trust me... It helps alot
hope eatin d seeds wil not cause any health issue
Re: I Am Impotent & Frustrated by viewflux(m): 8:55am On Mar 26, 2017
i am very happy reading this trend and one thing i noticed is that for the first time Nigerians are doing things the right way.
99% of nairalanders were all out to give a meaningful advice to the young man. this is how it is suppose to be and not the other way round where miscreants will start insulting theirselves. even those who are ashamed to come out are learning from your advice. My brother from what i have read, i think all have been said by my follow Nigerians but i will add that you start taking this drugs case will become in 3 months time.
MANIX HERBAL ENHANCERS learn more about it online. 2 capsule morning and 2 capsule evening.

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Re: I Am Impotent & Frustrated by klevotino: 9:15am On Mar 26, 2017
Thanks u very much for the update
jomoh:



You peel out the dried outermost layers to reveal the soft middle the swallow with water. it is more advisable in the night for it to work overnight cos it will later start smelling in your farts and poops and You don't want that during the day. You can do it for between 5 to 7 days.
Re: I Am Impotent & Frustrated by tpapi: 10:19am On Mar 26, 2017
which effective drug can one take for low sperm count
Re: I Am Impotent & Frustrated by manixherbal(m): 6:34pm On Mar 26, 2017
Dear @helpforever,

I am very sorry to read about your ordeal, and indeed you seem a nice and good person with the decision to not marry till this issue is resolved. Some indeed would know they have this problem, go and get married, telling their girl friends it's religious reasons as why they would not want to have sex with her (though I personally feel it is ideal) but knowing they have issues.

I will recommend that you visit https://www.manixman.com.ng and get a full course therapy of three months dosage and you will see positive results. The cytochemicals (plant chemicals) combined in Manix herbal Capsules have proven clinically and scientifically to increase libido, sperm count and also boost natural testotrone production. This hormone is the male sexual hormone.

I have good sources that show erectile dysfunction may also arise as a result of too much ejaculation by masturbation, masturbation techniques that are too rigorous or put pressure on the penis and watching of too much porn.

Still my friend, please go to https://manixman.com.ng and get your full course therapy of manix. Use it religiously as described and I look forward to reading your positive feedback on this forum.

There are useful articles and materials also published periodically on www.manixman.com.ng.
Re: I Am Impotent & Frustrated by tpapi: 4:13pm On Apr 01, 2017
CHARLOE:

Started with a lab test, moderate growth of staph was discovered, low sperm count, low testosterone level etc. Had to treat n work on these.
Then I noticed my erection improved, morning hard on was more regular but was still having problem when will a woman, my heart beat increases, panic set in n phew, my guy go shrink.
So my lab guy recommended a libido boosting drug, purely herbal (no side effects). It helped my confidence n that was it, fire down!
For those suggesting/using viagra, plz be careful, it has side effects n does not work naturally, that is, even if you're not with a woman, ur JT go stand @ attention, even after 1 round u may still have a hard on. U don't need a prophet to tell u its not healthy. Its meant for old men wit serious ED prob.
Also, plz cut off sugar totally: no sotfdrink/beer, no sugar in garri/tea. When d issue started reoccurring I later found out sugar was d cause, I was addicted to coke, replaced my addiction with water Mellon.
Bitters also help to detoxify n reduce sugar in d body

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Re: I Am Impotent & Frustrated by tpapi: 4:14pm On Apr 01, 2017
CHARLOE:

Started with a lab test, moderate growth of staph was discovered, low sperm count, low testosterone level etc. Had to treat n work on these.
Then I noticed my erection improved, morning hard on was more regular but was still having problem when will a woman, my heart beat increases, panic set in n phew, my guy go shrink.
So my lab guy recommended a libido boosting drug, purely herbal (no side effects). It helped my confidence n that was it, fire down!
For those suggesting/using viagra, plz be careful, it has side effects n does not work naturally, that is, even if you're not with a woman, ur JT go stand @ attention, even after 1 round u may still have a hard on. U don't need a prophet to tell u its not healthy. Its meant for old men wit serious ED prob.
Also, plz cut off sugar totally: no sotfdrink/beer, no sugar in garri/tea. When d issue started reoccurring I later found out sugar was d cause, I was addicted to coke, replaced my addiction with water Mellon.
Bitters also help to detoxify n reduce sugar in d body
go to a lab for proper analysis
Re: I Am Impotent & Frustrated by chi4ik(m): 4:58pm On Apr 01, 2017
bro, I'm 100% sure that it's a psychological problem:

(1) the detest u had with that old prostitute is giving u phobia about sex.

(2) Over masturbation is another issue here because u are already use to yourself not with a woman.

(3) The anxiety of failed first attempt is another problem.

Remedies:
(1) stay away from masturbation
(2) stay away from porn videos
(3) Remove your mind from that old prostitute, failed first attempt & it been a spiritual problem
(4) tell yourself that u can do it & try to love someone. if u love big boobs, go for a girl with big boobs, if u like fair girls, go for a fair girl etc, for sex is a thing of the mind.
(5) see a doctor if possible
(6) and above all, ask God for his help because without him, we can do nothing.

try these and thank me later.

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Re: I Am Impotent & Frustrated by CHARLOE(m): 9:04pm On Apr 01, 2017
tpapi:
wat is d name of d bitters u used to clear d staph infection
Beta Bitters
Re: I Am Impotent & Frustrated by tpapi: 12:04am On Apr 02, 2017
CHARLOE:
Beta Bitters
can I get it in d pharmacy
Re: I Am Impotent & Frustrated by CHARLOE(m): 1:14am On Apr 02, 2017
tpapi:
can I get it in d pharmacy
A few have it. If you're in lag check around Ogba. Note: I advise u do orthodox treatment first b4 taking d bitters n stay away from all appearance of sugar!

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Re: I Am Impotent & Frustrated by dukeprince50(m): 10:39am On Apr 02, 2017
sweetwuraola:
This is not a spiritual attack, all you need to do is to see a doctor, you will be back to normal within couple of months.. cheers
its a spiritual attack yet you want him to see his doctor? Lol. I think its spritual problem, he should see the mechanic
Re: I Am Impotent & Frustrated by uboma(m): 7:03pm On Apr 02, 2017
@ helpforever,
What is the outcome following your proposed visit to the hospital?

Don't tell me, you are yet to see a Doctor?

Hey, it is okay though if you want to keep it confidential.
Good health to you
Re: I Am Impotent & Frustrated by TheAziz: 8:10am On Apr 03, 2017
Trust me, you're not impotent, visit a trusted urologist and read this ebook "The Penis Power" by Dudley Seth Dandoff. it has to do with mindset
Re: I Am Impotent & Frustrated by helpforever: 12:25pm On Mar 18, 2018
uboma:
@ helpforever,

What is the outcome following your proposed visit to the hospital?


Don't tell me, you are yet to see a Doctor?


Hey, it is okay though if you want to keep it confidential.

Good health to you
It was a psychological issue. Then I worsened it with my excess masturbation. Recovering steadily smiley

Sorry for replying after a whole year

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Re: I Am Impotent & Frustrated by Kinggnicole(f): 1:01pm On Mar 18, 2018
EternalBeing:
Tackle it medically first, and spiritually. Go for medicals and if they said it not a medical problem, the earlier you go to MFM Church for Deliverance to fire that arrow of impotence back to the sender the better for you.
Excesive mastubation caused this permanent damage. Sex is addictive and it has been scientifically proven that excesive sex make people duller and less productive. devil knows this and use this to waste so meny glorious Destinies. There are 2 bloods in Man; the red blood cell erythrocytes carries life-oxygen, the white blood cell lymphocytes carries your protection and defence (spiritually too). Spam is cells; white blood cell. The more you waste it unnecessarily, the more defenceless you (and your Glory) become to microbes and even spiritual scavengers.
I've not seen any one that genuinely totally submitted to GOD and regret it later, unless those self-deceiving Christians.
Like myself, most of my genuine Christian mates are doing fine now.
Unless you are married, abstainance makes you spitually Strong and invincible.
To run away from sin is not a favour to GOD but a sure protection for your Glory and Destiny.
sperm white blood cells kwa?!
Re: I Am Impotent & Frustrated by uboma(m): 5:56pm On Mar 18, 2018
helpforever:
It was a psychological issue. Then I worsened it with my excess masturbation. Recovering steadily smiley

Sorry for replying after a whole year



It is good to learn that you are recovering steadily.

Good health to you.


No worries, my friend.

Cheers

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Re: I Am Impotent & Frustrated by Nobody: 6:12pm On Mar 18, 2018
yaqq:
the way u calculates ur erection per percentage leaves me Rotfl

I thought I was the only one who noticed this cheesy cheesy
Re: I Am Impotent & Frustrated by Henitan24(f): 6:46pm On Mar 18, 2018
helpforever:
It was a psychological issue. Then I worsened it with my excess masturbation. Recovering steadily smiley

Sorry for replying after a whole year

I'm very happy to hear this. You'll surely have more reason to happy.

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Re: I Am Impotent & Frustrated by wait: 7:37pm On Mar 18, 2018
Good that you recovering, the analysis you took on the erections into percentages was hilarious
Re: I Am Impotent & Frustrated by Zenklaud: 7:45pm On Mar 18, 2018
I think the issue is both medical and psychological. Medical in the sense that there might be some discrepancies in your reproductive system. That can be fixed no matter how long it has been. I can help you with that.
Psychological in the sense that you have started to lose confidence in your self due to events that have taken place in the past. I can only suggest a thing or two that can help.
But let's start with the medical, cos I believe once you get a solution to your problem, every other thing will fall in place.
Call me 08103191097... Or whatsapp
Re: I Am Impotent & Frustrated by twentyk(m): 8:50pm On Mar 18, 2018
Is there a way to increase the lenght of the something...i heard there are some cream and pills,are there herbal ways....
Also i think (i have low libido)i dont know what to call it but that excitement is not there anymore when im about to cum....you know wah im saying...i think there is a disconect somehwere,maybe a slacking i dont know but what i know is sex aint that great for me no more and its kinda drab nowadays,more like i have masturbated the life outta my D....
The stigma be making me not come out before but who stigma help abeg....i need to have a great sex experience......pls help a lil bro out...

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