udumosam23:
Bros dis your grammar too much. summarize what you meant in English, then we can discuss it.

Dey people wey dey speak dis kind grammer don port comot naija because of the recession. Na we remain.

So if wan communicate, better forget grammer talk wetin person go fit read comprehend without reading it again. If not, this tread no matter how important it looks, will be unpopular.

OP, even lalasticlala would develop headache reading this. How do you now want him to answer you?

PaperLace:
This your grammar no be small. What I understand;

1)It's only natural that humans yearn for companionship. Societal beliefs (which has its positives) being of high influence has entrenched marital fanaticism in us. Marriage seems like the sole purpose of existence in this part of the world _which is 'oldschool'.

2)Marriage is a good thing. It's dreamworthy_ a thing of prestige to not only the couple but their family at large. This prestige believed to come with being married has pressured people to jump on the bandwagon. They assume it's the very essence of their life, which is a blunder.

3)Women are the worst hit. They spend their lives dreaming of the fairy tale wedding and 'name change'. Technically pausing their lives in pursuit of the perfect man, who is expected to press play. We should be more concerned in making ourselves of value, that way we know what we seek/want in a partner.

Summary: The mindset of perceiving marriage as the all and all without corresponding prioritisation to one's individual importance shows lack of wisdom. If you can't get the best out of yourself, how would you get the best out of your partner?

Kayceenaz:


My dear, God bless you! That's the overview. Its supposed complexity wasn't intentional. I simply thought aloud. Thanks for assisting.

udumosam23:
Bros dis your grammar too much. summarize what you meant in English, then we can discuss it.

Dey people wey dey speak dis kind grammer don port comot naija because of the recession. Na we remain.

So if wan communicate, better forget grammer talk wetin person go fit read comprehend without reading it again. If not, this tread no matter how important it looks, will be unpopular.

DarkRebel101:


Your write-up was brilliant! You struck a crucial chord especially when you touched on women who would rather be self-effacing and flush their life aspirations down the plughole all in the name of getting married.

I had a conversation with two co-workers last week (both married women) who both told me that I knew nothing all 'cause I was adamant in my stating that a woman ought not to sacrifice her career all for the sake of getting a ring on her digits.

Marriage is overrated.

Kayceenaz:


My dear, God bless you! That's the overview. Its supposed complexity wasn't intentional. I simply thought aloud. Thanks for assisting.

TheSonOfMark:


The author/original writer's verbiage is as simple as interactive articles go; certainly not grandiloquent or flowery. Just 'cause the average young person in contemporary times chooses to communicate with the most banal, simplistic and inarticulate sentences doesn't mean everyone should lower their literary standards. Scurry back and get sucked into your blackhole of ignorance and stop infecting folks in this 'corner' of the cyberspace with your unintelligence!

Benita27:
Op, help me tell them. This is the best have read on here this week.

Like someone said. At every stage of our lives there are certain kind of persons who would want to identify with us. When you tell an average Nigerian guy that there are things you would want to accomplish as a lady before thinking of marriage...They go... "We know your types". You can't give what you don't have. Some are comfortable at the level they are, waiting on a rich prince charming to drop and take care of their burdens, not adding extra value to their person.

RuggedArab:


Because of this statement...... Will You Marry Me?

Make it remarkable on your bday!

I can't deal with block heads. Beauty without brain is useless like lifeless sperm.

Benita27:
I am a work in progress. Can't afford to get married now. So you're aware today is my bday?...terrible you!.

RuggedArab:


I'm not really aware. I saw some random post this night that's how I got to know. You know what? I will prefer doing the shout out Personal and private not in this platform.

You still owe me that mail though. But wait o! Where have you been hiding since?

Benita27:
I used my alternate for a while. This one was on ban.

Benita27:
Op, help me tell them. This is the best have read on here this week.

Like someone said. At every stage of our lives there are certain kind of persons who would want to identify with us. When you tell an average Nigerian guy that there are things you would want to accomplish as a lady before thinking of marriage...They go... "We know your types". You can't give what you don't have. Some are comfortable at the level they are, waiting on a rich prince charming to drop and take care of their burdens, not adding extra value to their person.

Nature has made it inevitable for humans to live in the company of their kith and kin. The result of this phenomenon, society, to a large extent plays an irreplaceable role in sustaining and improving this relation. Society's conditioning power is profound, as it ranks highly alongside personal and biological influences. Although considerable merits emanate from it which positively shape our orientation, there are undoubtedly ones that are anomalous and seriously in need of modification. The overemphasis on marriage and fanaticism with which it is handled in this part of the globe, which blurs individuals' essence as well as purpose is implausible.


Marriage is a good thing and this is authenticated by the very fact that it entails a deeper level of relationship between humans (man and woman), wherein they purposefully journey through life together and possibly have additional companions (children) en route their destination (hopefully they have one). Its associated prestige enjoyed by the couple and their family make it dream-worthy. This culture has been entrenched herein and many persons today permit pressure to jump on the bandwagon, because they assume that their lives depend on it. Such people erroneously intertwine marriage with their essence, equating the relevance of their lives with getting married. A big blunder!