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Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by pally123: 6:52am On Mar 29, 2017 |
Acidosis:o's man, u deserve a first class certificate for this. It actually happened to me. In this case, the cousin stayed abroad and every time he comes home, I no dey sleep for night with thoughts of what could be happening at night since he stays in the family house too with nobody suspecting their movements |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by jordinsparkles(f): 6:52am On Mar 29, 2017 |
MIB1:it doesn't matter if I was incest or not, what matters is the fact that she was very honest to tell you, if she didn't trust you I don't think you'll ever know.....so forget about what happened in the past! You love her and she loves you....abeg don't allow her cousin to come in between...go ahead and marry her and forget about the poo.. |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by hegelian: 6:54am On Mar 29, 2017 |
@op if u ever thinking of backing out kindly hook me up with her. I have been looking for a woman to have total openness with and I av been disappointed over and over again..the truth we all av some crazy deepest secret, and it takes the bold mind to come out.abeg I dey wait for u ooo |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Caseless: 6:58am On Mar 29, 2017 |
MIB1:where's it written that cousins can't marry that having a relationship is already killing you? |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by VanBommel(m): 7:03am On Mar 29, 2017 |
AstuteJay:RUBBISH POST |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by jidobaba(m): 7:07am On Mar 29, 2017 |
Ask yourself - will you take advice from young boys and girls? Or from grown men with years of experience with women. Make no mistake @op, your fiancee told you because she wanted to pass the burden to you. Worked well so far. She's probably sleeping soundly while you obsess over this issue. You have to understand that women in these parts are inherently selfish and until you get a life for yourself, they will continually dump rubbish on you. Imagine if you were a busy guy, busy with work and living a good well rounded life, sure you will want to marry but it would just be another facet of your multicolored life. So this 'revelation' wouldn't be devastating - assuming you even got to this stage with such a manipulative woman in the first place. This is the first of many 'secrets'. Brace up. Gon be a rollercoaster ride. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Fountaincrest: 7:11am On Mar 29, 2017 |
Well sorry to say but a curse is upon her may be childlessness or early widowhood whatever it is if you marry her you guys will carry the curse together. My elder brother slept with our female relative he has since married twice but no issue from any of the women. Though the first wife remarried and had four kids. So the choice is yours. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by paulbets: 7:14am On Mar 29, 2017 |
BiggyBamBam:How can you say Hausas/Fulani behave like animals... it's really derogatory and you should desist from saying so. Besides your argument is wrong, illogical and cannot be substantiated scientifically |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by poik(m): 7:17am On Mar 29, 2017 |
MIB1: Nothing to fear bro. Marry that girl. She loves you. There is nothing like any curse. God has forgiven her. Try to get along with the cousin too, if need be. Cheers. |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by profbabatunde: 7:18am On Mar 29, 2017 |
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Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Nobody: 7:21am On Mar 29, 2017 |
You need time apart from her for as long as you can let go. If you feel you can't be happy without her then take her back. Then will you know you genuinely love her and she's the only woman you want to be with. MIB1: |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by glo4chuks: 7:24am On Mar 29, 2017 |
bros, if u really love ur woman just forgive n forget d sincere confession she made 2 u. some people have done worst DAT they can never in life b proud 2 confess 2 God more or less a human being. 6 yrs is a long time n may b she did DAT out of ignorance as a teenager. there is a saying DAT a bird at hand is better than d thousands in d bush, so is better u know now than later. God bless. |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Shawlambivert(m): 7:27am On Mar 29, 2017 |
LeView1:. Exactly. Like in Islam, It's permissible for one to marry one's cousin. So I can't actually tag that to be Incest |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by olayinkajnr(m): 7:37am On Mar 29, 2017 |
MIB1: I seriously go with what acidosis said. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by extwoo(m): 7:39am On Mar 29, 2017 |
MIB1: You might need to relocate, take her pretty far away, like out of the country where that cousin can't come say Hi |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Iconquer: 7:39am On Mar 29, 2017 |
on thought that she has repented on it & it's no longer going on with d said causin, u Have got nothing to fear. probably, d causin too has repented of d act. Spiritual implication depends on if it's still going on unrepented, so I think. some people have actually committed that act out of ignorance, it also determine d implications. that I don't know the case with your woman & her causin (were they ignorant of it? why did they do it?) u have got to ensure that they both, (NOT ONLY your wife to be) have TRUELY repented of it & won't do it again. for me truth be told, that she told u told that is not a reason u should trust her like God. you can still disappointed. remember, trust only God your maker. I'm not advising u to go or not to go. put many things into consideration, pray & listen to yourself, then follow ur heart. I can just say that d fear of d implication of d act (spiritual or otherwise) shouldn't be your worry. so I think brother. I wish you luck! Good one! |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Brunel(m): 7:40am On Mar 29, 2017 |
MIB1 please go with the below quoted advice. We all have flaws, the most important thing is that we should be willing to admit and correct these flaws. Life is a continuous learning and improvement process. Majikals: 3 Likes |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Nofuckgiven: 7:45am On Mar 29, 2017 |
OP,truth is you are not ready for marriage. Take it or leave it. Most hypocrites here have done worse than your fiancee but they are advicing you to leave her. Moral of the story: Some secrets are better left untold. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Nobody: 7:58am On Mar 29, 2017 |
It's up to you to decide, whether you want to continue the relationship. |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by emekakingsely(m): 7:58am On Mar 29, 2017 |
Don't make her regret being honest to u she is a good person not everybody can confined such to her man ur lucky Bro u beta rush down and come and marry her before someone dat knows the values over take u |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by divinelove(m): 8:01am On Mar 29, 2017 |
MIB1: Incest aka in breeding is a taboo, if u can't deal with dt her past call it off |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by 123papas(m): 8:01am On Mar 29, 2017 |
Hausa/Fulanis marry their cousins. Dont Fret |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Monk92(m): 8:03am On Mar 29, 2017 |
Joavid: You know this is impossible right? |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by wasolad01: 8:20am On Mar 29, 2017 |
Acidosis: May your source of wisdom never be empty forever. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by destiny4life: 8:23am On Mar 29, 2017 |
Thank God she opened up to you. As for the spiritual consequence ... are you a Christian, if yes discuss with your Pastor and he will tell you what to do |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by vislabraye(m): 8:28am On Mar 29, 2017 |
MIB1: If you want to, go ahead and do it. Marriage is about accepting the good, the bad and the ugly in a person. (Since she confided in you, make sure you don't use it against her in future. ) You have to talk to her about your fears. It will go a long way to help. |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Godpunishdevil(m): 8:30am On Mar 29, 2017 |
Bro pls don't let anything shake your mind since she has confessed to you and said she had prayed and seek for God's forgiveness that shows she is not going back to that mess so move on what of if you are not told. 1 Like |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by KenStranger(m): 8:30am On Mar 29, 2017 |
Acidosis: God bless u sir. Well said 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Tobennz(m): 8:46am On Mar 29, 2017 |
2 telll u d truth, t will be hard 4 u can c an honest spouse, she told u wat u suppose 2 hear nd she has prayed abt t nd u also av don d same, so guy pls i beg u in d name of God....#BELIEVE# |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by Babs24: 8:52am On Mar 29, 2017 |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by tee4lowyeh(m): 8:53am On Mar 29, 2017 |
MIB1: She did the right thing, you should be grateful. She has shown that she has overcome her past, thus you need to be grateful. "If any man be in Christ, He is a new creation. Old things are past and all have become new." She has been forgiven and restored. No curse of the law and of Satan can prevail; Jesus has broken every chain and delivered Her. Move on and be grateful to God for his mercy upon her life. God bless you. |
Re: My Fiancée Had An Incest Relationship With Her Cousin Years Back, I'm Devastated by ammy4goodies(f): 8:56am On Mar 29, 2017 |
Richy4: Lolz... |
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