enshi:


She is aware i have some money in my account which was meant for something by next month but surprisingly she asked Me to help her from the money..

enshi:


I hold the bible to be Sacred besides i love(d) her more reason i did it

Then lastly it made me a better person... Brother i was more than a fvckboy Before that oath

kennygee:


Since both of you are not cheating, you don't have anything to worry about.

If you still love her, you should try to work it out. It takes too tho.

If you know any man she respects, maybe an elder brother or an uncle or a pastor of hers. Someone she listens to, talk to them about the issue you're having.

Your gf isn't mature yet to handle financial matters and she's still bent on having her way, relationships don't work that way.

The fact that she can go to the extreme of letting you travel all the way to see her, yet she refused to answer ur call and let u travel back without seeing you is very scary.

She needs a lot of maturity.

Who still make oaths in this century sha?

enshi:
Some days ago i sought help concerning my gf who is a Social media freak.. Especially with posting slaying pics.

We actually got over the misunderstanding and tried to move on but it was after then that the unthinkable happened.. . She needed to move to a new apartment and therefore wanted me to suport her in raising some money...

She is aware i have some money in my account which was meant for something by next month but surprisingly she asked Me to help her from the money..

I tried giving her reasons why i shouldnt risk taking out money from the account but she refused to understand..

Recall that we stay in differnt states?? So i traveled to her state so as to explain things face to face but to my surprise she refused to see me though she earlier warned me not to try coming cos she would intentionally avoid seeing me but i took the risk just to see how mean she could get..

After waiting for hours and she didnt show up, i returned back to my state and yet i tried to fix things but this time she said things will go her way, and she mated out some rules to me...

These rules are evidently pointing out that she wants to start touring the state with her friends.. And believe me she will surely cheat..

We fell out on phone that sunday night and since then i have blocked her on my fb, whatsapp, and even deleted her number. She noticed it and sent me a text telling me that i was mean and heartless..

Since sunday she has been calling me but cos her number is barred on true caller i only see it as missed calls..

I really dont know if she wants us to make up or she is calling for the money..

The worst is we had an oath with the bible to stay fidel with each other and sincerely i think she had kept to the oath until now and like wise have i...

Pls what do i do cos i am not ready to touch the money meant for something serious and i cant continue with her based on the rules she gave then lastly we are on oath..

adaksbullet:
Things fallen apart- shinu anichebe

Freewoman:
You swear with bible abi?, na mad you dey go so, beta repent, now, now, ok, see, find out why she require to change her apartment, she can't be homeless while you are saving the money for something so important according to your explanation, accommodation is important too, if the change of apartment is as a result of a quit notice from the property owner, please help her secure shelter first, if not, you may be right to save your money, please note that homeless girls do anything to survive , yes, anything, so deal with today and leave tomorrow to take care of itself



She's not homeless, she just wants a change of apartment and then go on an inter-state tour....

xqzytchyca:
Chakpiii!!! Wooooo!!!

ZarZar:


OK. Doesn't she have parents? Better still, rent something smaller & cheaper, like those I face you, you face me type places. It's not by force to live large when you can't afford it. There are so many other options like staying in a commune while she saves for the deposit, lease & rent money.

Freewoman:
You swear with bible abi?, na mad you dey go so, beta repent, now, now, ok, see, find out why she require to change her apartment, she can't be homeless while you are saving the money for something so important according to your explanation, accommodation is important too, if the change of apartment is as a result of a quit notice from the property owner, please help her secure shelter first, if not, you may be right to save your money, please note that homeless girls do anything to survive , yes, anything, so deal with today and leave tomorrow to take care of itself

ZarZar:


I can. TBH, I cannot handle lukewarm anything. I like everything to be extreme. My nature is don't do at all or do it all the way until it bursts into flames.