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29 Interesting Questions To Ask A Lady While Going On Dates With Her/chatting. by Bigjagga(m): 1:38pm On Mar 29, 2017
Just like my last post, which is totally different from my regular tech post, i want to throw more light on this topic. The idea is that whoever is asking the questions is the one leading the conversation. These questions will elicit more than a yes or no answer. Her responses then can become topics to discuss, when she throws questions back at you, share personal stories of your own in a humorous and short way. By letting her do most of the talking it creates rapport and causes you to remain mysterious:

Intro:- Only 3% of men in general understands women. The 3% man is one of the 3 men out of 100 that a
woman meets and is drawn to because he understands who she is and better yet, understands who he is. In
life, usually the top 3% in any field or area make most of the money, enjoy most of the success, have the
best toys, date the most beautiful people and generally live the kind of lives most people only dream of. Before we proceed further here useful questions you could ask a lady while going on dates with her

Like i said in my last post when you are asking these questions, the idea is not to interrogate him/her with questions like a robot, but to ask questions that elicit interesting and fun answers that can lead the conversation into fun and unexpected directions. Be spontaneous, take her out, you don't have to copy the questions word for word, just ask the question as the conversations flows and ask at the right time.


1. What are you passionate about?

2. What do you love?

3. What is the craziest thing you’ve ever done?

4. What is the most exciting place you ever had sex in public?

5. What do you like to do for fun?

6. Do you remember your first day of school? What was it like?

7. What do you love, but are afraid to admit you love it?

8. What’s unique and exciting about you?

9. What are your guilty pleasures?

10. What do your friends love most about you?

11. What makes life exciting to you?

12. What’s your biggest dream?

13. What are you most proud of?

14. What is the funniest thing that ever happened to you?

15. What’s the most fun you’ve ever had?

16. How do you know when a guy is right for you? What specifically makes him stand out from the rest?

17. What do your friends admire most about you?

18. Have you ever fallen in love just by looking into someone’s eyes? If she says yes, ask her specifically what it was that made them stand out from the rest: Their smile, clothes, body language, how they looked at you, tone of their voice, etc.? What was their “hook” that made them irresistible to you?

19. What makes you really happy?

20. What cracks you up more than anything ( What makes you laugh more than anything)?

21. What is the silliest thing you’ve ever done?

22. What is your favorite memory?

23. What is the funniest movie you’ve ever seen?

24. Have you ever been very mischievous and done things like put Mr. Bubble in a large water fountain, and then came back later to see the bubbles everywhere?

25. Have you ever farted and then blamed it on someone else successfully like an older relative?

26. What is the most fun you ever had on a date?

27. What’s the one thing you can’t say no to?

28. What are you really good at that would surprise me?

29. If you could wake up tomorrow and be anyplace in the world, where would it be? Why?

Hints:

*Every time she gets to ask you a question, give her a short answers and joke(positive jokes)
back and forth with her.

*If a woman asks: Do you have a girlfriend? Be playful. You do not want her to think you haven’t had
a date in 2 years. Respond with indirect or playful answers like: I’m just out dating and having fun. Or:
There is always room for one more. When you come off with confidence, she may further test with: Are
you a player? You could reply playfully: Sure, I play sports. Or: I played sports in secondary school.
If she gives you the: That’s not what I mean. Look at her with curiosity and ask her straight out: What
do you mean? The point is, that no matter what her question, no matter how she tries to test you, you can’t
let her think she can get under your skin. Keep it positive. Keep it playful.

When a woman tells you: Well, I don’t date guys who are players. You can ask her straight out: Who
said I wanted to date you? Or: When I meet someone who is worth my time, I will be exclusive with her.
I haven’t determined whether I want to go out with you or not. At that point start asking her: Why should
I go out with someone like you? Are you hitting on me? Are you fun?
The whole point to these questions is that she may or may not be interested. The lower her attraction
level, the more she will test you. Pay attention to her reactions. Don’t be offensive or angry, but show that
you could care less whether she likes you or not. Have her try to prove to you why she is worth your
time.

Dubbed from "HOW TO BE A 3% MAN
Winning the Heart of the Woman of Your Dreams"
By Corey Wayne. You can download the book and read it, it's very useful if you want to understand women better.

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Re: 29 Interesting Questions To Ask A Lady While Going On Dates With Her/chatting. by lifecashmoney(f): 1:40pm On Mar 29, 2017
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Re: 29 Interesting Questions To Ask A Lady While Going On Dates With Her/chatting. by FvckShiT(m): 1:40pm On Mar 29, 2017
When are we fûcking ourselves

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Re: 29 Interesting Questions To Ask A Lady While Going On Dates With Her/chatting. by gentlemafia(m): 1:57pm On Mar 29, 2017
Bro dats 4 hollyhood' n possibly sum Indian shit' dw here' we talking money' sex' dats all
Re: 29 Interesting Questions To Ask A Lady While Going On Dates With Her/chatting. by Bigjagga(m): 2:07pm On Mar 29, 2017
Hint: When you are taking her out and you really want to have a good conversation with her, avoid taking her to the movies or very noisy beer parlor/spot.
Re: 29 Interesting Questions To Ask A Lady While Going On Dates With Her/chatting. by thehedge(f): 2:15pm On Mar 29, 2017
gentlemafia:
Bro dats 4 hollyhood' n possibly sum Indian shit' dw here' we talking money' sex' dats all
that's an honest lie, its not true for everybody.

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Re: 29 Interesting Questions To Ask A Lady While Going On Dates With Her/chatting. by DOUBLEWAHALA: 2:30pm On Mar 29, 2017
do u tink dat women answer qus? on a first b4 a lady will try to answer half of dat qus? unless u guys hv bin chatin on fb long tym ago b4 metin
Re: 29 Interesting Questions To Ask A Lady While Going On Dates With Her/chatting. by newmusic: 3:12pm On Mar 29, 2017
I don't know if I should call this a date or an interview, very childish and boring...
Re: 29 Interesting Questions To Ask A Lady While Going On Dates With Her/chatting. by Bigjagga(m): 4:55am On Mar 30, 2017
newmusic:
I don't know if I should call this a date or an interview, very childish and boring...
I guess u didn't read the post properly. Read the post again and be civilized enough to drop reasonable comments.
Re: 29 Interesting Questions To Ask A Lady While Going On Dates With Her/chatting. by hazan041(m): 1:26pm On Mar 30, 2017
Bigjagga:
Just like my last post, which is totally different from my regular tech post, i want to throw more light on this topic. The idea is that whoever is asking the questions is the one leading the conversation. These questions will elicit more than a yes or no answer. Her responses then can become topics to discuss, when she throws questions back at you, share personal stories of your own in a humorous and short way. By letting her do most of the talking it creates rapport and causes you to remain mysterious:

Intro:- Only 3% of men in general understands women. The 3% man is one of the 3 men out of 100 that a
woman meets and is drawn to because he understands who she is and better yet, understands who he is. In
life, usually the top 3% in any field or area make most of the money, enjoy most of the success, have the
best toys, date the most beautiful people and generally live the kind of lives most people only dream of. Before we proceed further here useful questions you could ask a lady while going on dates with her

Like i said in my last post when you are asking these questions, the idea is not to interrogate him/her with questions like a robot, but to ask questions that elicit interesting and fun answers that can lead the conversation into fun and unexpected directions. Be spontaneous, take her out, you don't have to copy the questions word for word, just ask the question as the conversations flows and ask at the right time.


1. What are you passionate about?

2. What do you love?

3. What is the craziest thing you’ve ever done?

4. What is the most exciting place you ever had sex in public?

5. What do you like to do for fun?

6. Do you remember your first day of school? What was it like?

7. What do you love, but are afraid to admit you love it?

8. What’s unique and exciting about you?

9. What are your guilty pleasures?

10. What do your friends love most about you?

11. What makes life exciting to you?

12. What’s your biggest dream?

13. What are you most proud of?

14. What is the funniest thing that ever happened to you?

15. What’s the most fun you’ve ever had?

16. How do you know when a guy is right for you? What specifically makes him stand out from the rest?

17. What do your friends admire most about you?

18. Have you ever fallen in love just by looking into someone’s eyes? If she says yes, ask her specifically what it was that made them stand out from the rest: Their smile, clothes, body language, how they looked at you, tone of their voice, etc.? What was their “hook” that made them irresistible to you?

19. What makes you really happy?

20. What cracks you up more than anything ( What makes you laugh more than anything)?

21. What is the silliest thing you’ve ever done?

22. What is your favorite memory?

23. What is the funniest movie you’ve ever seen?

24. Have you ever been very mischievous and done things like put Mr. Bubble in a large water fountain, and then came back later to see the bubbles everywhere?

25. Have you ever farted and then blamed it on someone else successfully like an older relative?

26. What is the most fun you ever had on a date?

27. What’s the one thing you can’t say no to?

28. What are you really good at that would surprise me?

29. If you could wake up tomorrow and be anyplace in the world, where would it be? Why?

Hints:

*Every time she gets to ask you a question, give her a short answers and joke(positive jokes)
back and forth with her.

*If a woman asks: Do you have a girlfriend? Be playful. You do not want her to think you haven’t had
a date in 2 years. Respond with indirect or playful answers like: I’m just out dating and having fun. Or:
There is always room for one more. When you come off with confidence, she may further test with: Are
you a player? You could reply playfully: Sure, I play sports. Or: I played sports in secondary school.
If she gives you the: That’s not what I mean. Look at her with curiosity and ask her straight out: What
do you mean? The point is, that no matter what her question, no matter how she tries to test you, you can’t
let her think she can get under your skin. Keep it positive. Keep it playful.

When a woman tells you: Well, I don’t date guys who are players. You can ask her straight out: Who
said I wanted to date you? Or: When I meet someone who is worth my time, I will be exclusive with her.
I haven’t determined whether I want to go out with you or not. At that point start asking her: Why should
I go out with someone like you? Are you hitting on me? Are you fun?
The whole point to these questions is that she may or may not be interested. The lower her attraction
level, the more she will test you. Pay attention to her reactions. Don’t be offensive or angry, but show that
you could care less whether she likes you or not. Have her try to prove to you why she is worth your
time.

Dubbed from "HOW TO BE A 3% MAN
Winning the Heart of the Woman of Your Dreams"
By Corey Wayne. You can download the book and read it, it's very useful if you want to understand women better.


What if she's not interested in answering the questions?
Re: 29 Interesting Questions To Ask A Lady While Going On Dates With Her/chatting. by Bigjagga(m): 1:26am On Apr 17, 2017
hazan041:


What if she's not interested in answering the questions?

It simply means her level of attraction towards you is very low, don't waste your time, move on.
Re: 29 Interesting Questions To Ask A Lady While Going On Dates With Her/chatting. by tensazangetsu20(m): 2:29am On Apr 17, 2017
Bigjagga:


It simply means her level of attraction towards you is very low, don't waste your time, move on.
Not necessarily. I have been in Ghana for 4 years and most Ghanaian girls are so boring to talk to or chat with. The first time it happened I thought the girls weren't interested in me at all and I just left them but after a while they still came back chasing but still boring to talk with and chat with. The girl can like you but she could just have a boring personality.

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Re: 29 Interesting Questions To Ask A Lady While Going On Dates With Her/chatting. by bobnatlo(m): 5:56am On Apr 17, 2017
hazan041:


What if she's not interested in answering the questions?
.

Must u quote d dammm whole stuff op!!
Re: 29 Interesting Questions To Ask A Lady While Going On Dates With Her/chatting. by hazan041(m): 9:50am On Apr 17, 2017
bobnatlo:
.
Must u quote d dammm whole stuff op!!
It giv u an headache?
Re: 29 Interesting Questions To Ask A Lady While Going On Dates With Her/chatting. by hazan041(m): 1:42pm On Apr 17, 2017
tensazangetsu20:

Not necessarily. I have been in Ghana for 4 years and most Ghanaian girls are so boring to talk to or chat with. The first time it happened I thought the girls weren't interested in me at all and I just left them but after a while they still came back chasing but still boring to talk with and chat with. The girl can like you but she could just have a boring personality.
How do I handle her? So far she's d boring type
Re: 29 Interesting Questions To Ask A Lady While Going On Dates With Her/chatting. by tensazangetsu20(m): 2:02pm On Apr 17, 2017
hazan041:

How do I handle her? So far she's d boring type
You can continue being persistent and gradually she might start opening up or just walk away. Life is too short to spend with a boring woman.

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Re: 29 Interesting Questions To Ask A Lady While Going On Dates With Her/chatting. by Bigjagga(m): 4:50pm On Apr 17, 2017
hazan041:

How do I handle her? So far she's d boring type
Take her out at least once in two weeks and a maximum of once each week sometimes when you take her out you can take her to two or more places in one evening, play with her, tease her, tell her positive jokes, avoid calling her everyday, call her to fix dates not to discuss about your life history . Like i said earlier on your dates, you should also let women do 70 to 80% of the talking by simply asking her questions about herself, or things about her that are of interest to you.

"You must let her come to you at her own pace. Women are more attracted to men whose feelings are unclear. Since women are emotional beings and not mostly visual creatures like men are, you must give them the space, time and freedom for their feelings for you to grow.

If you try to rush it, it’s like taking a cake out of the oven before it has had enough time to cook into a fluffy cake from a liquid batter mix. Trying to force a woman to like you more, and want to see you more before she feels it internally, is just like taking a cake out of the oven before it is fully cooked. If you pursue her too much, she will lose interest and want to see you less and less over time. If you back off too much, she will think you really don’t care about her"

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