INTROVERT:
This is one side of the story.... We need to hear the husbands side and the schools side before we conclude.

northvietnam:




Aunty I just asked u a simple question...

I have seen women been through worse and still kept their Cool...

buchilino:


HONESTLY BRO, I WILL ADVICE MOST YOUNG MEN NOT TO MARRY, COS MOST GALS OF NOWADAYS DON'T NO WAT BEING COOL MEANS

adorablepepple:

Did you read everything up there at all?

Chiebunigom:

Nawao.... How old are you? Mr BAD Adviser

adorablepepple:
Disobedience is the root of all these problem, and madam couldn't manage with Oga since he is retired....... women these days everything is domestic violence mtceeew

Berbierklaus:
A man that feels threatened by his wife's success is he worst man to marry,a man that wouldn't allow his wife achieve something with her life but will always want to oppress and suppress her is the worst to marry.

Young girls that feels he loves them when he says I don't want your to work I pity you people.
Some men will not be able to cater for all the responsibilities of the family but will feel threatened if their wife decides to work.
God bless Ngozi Okonjo's husband and very other man that stood behind great women we know today.

@ story,let the court decide,hope she has enough money to fight for justice,if not let her run to Facebook and search for FIN,they will help her

Sunnymatey:
I wont blame the man. Wives should submit to their husbands no matter what. My business is crumbling today cus l granted my wife permission to work in a distance of about 6-7 hours journey after she refused to be persuaded. I pay my rent and hers, send money for feeding weekly cus her salary is way too small and most time not even paid for a period of 7 months. If l had stopped her, the whole world would have heard and blamed me. Now to even afford my rent is a problem. My advice to wives is, if a man ask u not to work, ask him for reasons and if they're cogent enough then go with him.

adorablepepple:
Disobedience is the root of all these problem, and madam couldn't manage with Oga since he is retired....... women these days everything is domestic violence mtceeew

buchilino:


HONESTLY BRO, I WILL ADVICE MOST YOUNG MEN NOT TO MARRY, COS MOST GALS OF NOWADAYS DON'T NO WAT BEING COOL MEANS

CellTabRepairs:


You understood the root cause of the story. She had no realistic reasons as far as marriage is concerned. God who created us does not tolerate disobedience. He instituted marriage and established order that the woman should submit to authority, not giving reasons for disobeying a man's rule. What crap is she saying about finance being her reasons when the man was still in active service? We agree money can never be enough but if his order is not to work it should be obeyed. Moreover aside God's marital order, with your eyes open you married a man in an institution where only "yes sir!" is the norm from those below your level and you are flexing muscles with him. Se ori e correct so?

northvietnam:



just imagine... 21 years of marriage..

and she walks away..

uttermost wickedness..

that's why the man restricted her access to the kids..

northvietnam:



just imagine... 21 years of marriage..

and she walks away..

uttermost wickedness..

that's why the man restricted her access to the kids..

DickDastardly:

Every marriage is unique, just like our faces are all different. You can only know much about yours. Man knows his wife better and reasons he didnt want her to work. Woman should have pushed her case than outrightly disobeying hubby to start that work. There lies the root of their marital crisis. If God bless you with a virtuous wife, remain thankful to him. Most women nowadays see marriage as Status but are not ready to stick to its age long tenets. They only drag men into it for bragging rights. You cannot go against the head of the family and expect peace.I am yet to see where i wrote what warranted your line of response though. Unless you believe man and woman are equal heads of a family, i then advice you go for baby mamas if you havent dabbled into matrimony already. Its people like you that give men and marriage bad name.

samtol4:
A wife is not housemaid or school pupil ,a woman is a co pilot i n a marriage .The man is wicked

tartarus:

Mr man, if you have a sister or daughter and she's being abused in her marriage advice her to endure you hear cos if she leaves she's very wicked.

tartarus:

Mr man, if you have a sister or daughter and she's being abused in her marriage advice her to endure you hear cos if she leaves she's very wicked.

Apina:

Sorry to say but your comment is somewhat absurd. The money she's gonna earn, isn't it gonna be used within the family? So why should the husband be threatened in anyway. What amount of money or going by ur logic, success is worth more than family unity? Its not the case that the husband couldn't feed, cloth or put a roof over her head, so what more does she want after 21 years? Contentment is a virtue, greed its opposite.

buchilino:


UR GETTING D POINT. LET ME ASK U DIS QUESTION. DID UR MOTHER IN ANY WAY, DISRESPECT UR FATHER. MOST TIMES UR FATHERS DECISION WEREN'T D RIGHT ONES BUT I BELIEVE UR STILL DIDN'T DISRESPECT HIM. DER SO MANY WAYS FOR WOMEN TO ACHIEVE DER GOALS WITHOUT BEING DISRESPECTFUL.

adorablepepple:
Disobedience is the root of all these problem, and madam couldn't manage with Oga since he is retired....... women these days everything is domestic violence mtceeew