Sike:
I trust my guys. them don already finish the op before I come. nice one!

Safiaa:
Alright. That's understandable. Thank you for your input.

FelixFelicis:
you for no understand make i plank your brain

Sike:
I trust my guys. them don already finish the op before I come. nice one!

princessayesha:
Lol. Why insult the OP? are you what she is warning us against? Rich guys will not be pissed by this post.

funmisticqueen:
may two of you not experience stories that touch in jesus name

BoboYekini:

P.S.
Do you think the rash of 'broke, unambitious' men happened overnight? It didn't. It happened slowly over years with more females like you craving the very few moneyed (old)men and leaving all the regular guys holding their dìcks.
So men slowly gave up the hustle. Who wouldn't? Now they literally just 'go for broke'. Get rich quick or forget it. No scrimping and saving(working) on some nebulous vision.
Really sad.

cooldood:

True. That's why to be a man in this 21st century ehn, no be yamz. The pressure is simply crazy!So as a man, you have to keep going at it, dont ever relax and think becos you are meeting your babe's current needs,she'd stop at that..oh no!gals expectations always grow, give a babe an inch, she'd soon start demanding for a mile.A man needs serious wisdom in dealing with a woman.If she's motivating you to work harder,excellent, but if she's only demoralizing you n damaging your God-given ego, pls let her be.21st century men have so so much to worry about than to add a "trash-talking" babe to it, instead, face your hustle n ignore, if she's truly into you, i bet you, she'd come around.

funmisticqueen:

all i have seen so far is men complaining, the economy this , the economy dat, let me leave that aside. If you give a lady an inch and she then asks for a mile, it is because she believes you can get it, when women nag, argue and demand, it is to push men out of their comfort zone to achieve more, how do you think obama did it. Next time when she demands for the mile see it as a blessing in disguise and get it,if you can get the mile, you can get the world but no you will complain. And who told you ladies dont have visions of their own, after going to school we will now come and sit in your house looking pretty while our brain rots. God forbid. If ladies were not around i think we would still be trapped in the dark ages. But you men bring calamity on yourselves. Instead of you to go after a homely girl with good character, no you want slay queens that you cant afford to shine her congo and hold as arm candy to show off and stroke your ego and later you will come to cry here when she dumps you for a higher bidder. Clap for yourselves.

naijaboiy:

Lies from the pit of sambisa!

You can only lie to yourself not everyone around.

kkins25:

ask for mile ke?? so many life now should be about going the extra mile because of a wife abi??

funmisticqueen:
how is it a lie, just check the number of single mums increasing because God didnt make men to carry pregnacy. Check the number of women in the workforce, it is increasing and men are her complaing no job! No job! How many single fathers can you count, please supply me with ten, no five. Good day

funmisticqueen:
really, you dont say, how do you think the moneyed old men got the money. See ehn no lady will go for a man who hasnt proven himself worthy, we are like wifi we stick to the strongest connection, if you are disheartened about this situation, get your vision, work smart, make that money, meanwhile use vaseline and you will later see ladies flock you. No lady wants to star in an africa magic film where she suffered with the man then when he becomes rich,he says she is below his level and kicks her out of his house to suffer. Our mothers and grandmas made that mistake, we the ladies of this generation are smarter than that

kkins25:


So the solution to the above mentiond problem is to be chasing already made men. Because the already made men are different abi?? lady youre in a trance.... hav you not heard of cases where the man goes the mile for the woman she still betrays him... don't paint a picture of men been the whole problem of d world. BTW it wae eve that ate the fruit. nd why?? na longer throat... im done with you too.

kkins25:


which source did you get this from... im sure its not WHO. its WTF..

funmisticqueen:
really, you dont say, how do you think the moneyed old men got the money. See ehn no lady will go for a man who hasnt proven himself worthy, we are like wifi we stick to the strongest connection, if you are disheartened about this situation, get your vision, work smart, make that money, meanwhile use vaseline and you will later see ladies flock you. No lady wants to star in an africa magic film where she suffered with the man then when he becomes rich,he says she is below his level and kicks her out of his house to suffer. Our mothers and grandmas made that mistake, we the ladies of this generation are smarter than that

tobianthony:


These are specific instances where this does happen ...however not generally .

However when a lady leaves a guy (or vice versa ) because they feel the person won't make it financially please do not go back when the person makes it to ask for money .

funmisticqueen:
really, you dont say, how do you think the moneyed old men got the money. See ehn no lady will go for a man who hasnt proven himself worthy, we are like wifi we stick to the strongest connection, if you are disheartened about this situation, get your vision, work smart, make that money, meanwhile use vaseline and you will later see ladies flock you. No lady wants to star in an africa magic film where she suffered with the man then when he becomes rich,he says she is below his level and kicks her out of his house to suffer. Our mothers and grandmas made that mistake, we the ladies of this generation are smarter than that

BoboYekini:
I know this is meant for the men in your family, not me.

funmisticqueen:
Good day, pls i would like to know how to open a small scale restauant business, the materials and personnel i would need, the steps to take and the amount of money i would need. It has always been my dream to open one and i presently earn 100k salary

BoboYekini:
You have a mouth on you though. With your sub-100k per month salary.
I don't know why I bother.

funmisticqueen:
who told you ladies are dong the chasing, the men are the ones chasing period. Eve ate the fruit abi,but not because of long throat, but because she was deceived. on the other hand, if eve gave adam the fruit, couldnt he have said no, and he had the guts to blame it on eve, that will always be men's problem, blaming their inadequacies on women. read genesis 2 and 3 very well. Let me ask this question why didnt the devil go to adam and convince him to eat the friut, because adam knew the consequences of eating the fruit but eve didnt hence making it easy for the devil to deceive her, i hope you know that the tree in the garden isnt really a tree right. If you want to know more, send me a mail

funmisticqueen:
how is it a lie, just check the number of single mums increasing because God didnt make men to carry pregnacy. Check the number of women in the workforce, it is increasing and men are her complaing no job! No job! How many single fathers can you count, please supply me with ten, no five. Good day

Lol...so because it's increasing means more women are taking the place of men in the homes now right?

Do you know how many responsible men we have out there? Do you know the number of men who still go out to hustle everyday for their family while their wives sit at home doing nothing?

The fact that single mothers are increasing daily is not enough proof that more women are taking up men's role in the society. You all want to make it look as if every man out there is no longer responsible and is running away from his duties. Please if that's how the men you've met are you should change the men you meet. There are bilions of responsible men and fathers out there.

Please stop being ignorant and stop lying to yourself. All these misandrists claiming to be feminists!

funmisticqueen:
bros no need to insult my family, ALL the men in my family have proven themselves worthy and are doing well. I learnt from and grew up around good examples and expect nothing less but when i look around and see men of this generation like you, i am dissapointed.

mctowel01:
Many of you here are unintelligent, both guys and girls. That's why you fail to realize that the root cause ofthe argument stems from the fact that in society today, male and female are judged by different unequal standards. I hear broke guy broke guy, why is there no thread on broke girls? Many unemployed girls spend lot of time on social media, yet feel its still okay to call someone broke. The OP is well aware that there are way way more girls than guys who lack vision, yet she never cared to open a thread about it. No man likes being broke. Afterall, are there not many female university students getting married. Many married girls than guys in nysc... Who exactly is broke? Why didn't you open a thread on why the broke female students shouldn't be getting married? If you are intelligent enough, you will realise that the economic situation of a country will reflect the caliber of men you will meet. No matter how much you rant, you will keep encountering many struggling guys and a certain percentage of rich ones, as far as the economic situation remains.
I think Nigeria today is experiencing what we call social expectation imbalance, where the media heightens our expectations such as "type of weddings, restaurants to visit, phones to use, places to stay, dresses to wear... etc... But the economic reality, the purchasing power, remains different. Your expectations cannot change reality.