I am indifferent bout this

Babamide:
A lady with more than one partner would be called a slut. A guy with more than one partner is called a player. It is just our culture. It can only work out if the female population is extremely lower than the male population

are u saying our ladies do not double date?

Xaos:
Actually, there is something sensible in this. I've know women who dated and stayed faithful to their men for almost 2 years but only be heartbroken and dumped at the end of the line. And there are also those that dated for less than 6 months and got married. So I think the idea is to talk to your partner and get a clear picture of where the relationship is heading off to so as not to waste anyone's time.

even guys double date

kimbra:
I couldn't have agreed more with her. Provided the lady's biological clock is ticking and your man isn't showing signs of seriousness.

Key word.

Keep it casual. You mustn't sleep with all of them. it's all about being open to other suitors instead of sticking with one time waster.

well said

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kimbra:
I couldn't have agreed more with her. Provided the lady's biological clock is ticking and your man isn't showing signs of seriousness.

Key word.

Keep it casual. You mustn't sleep with all of them. it's all about being open to other suitors instead of sticking with one time waster.

But after one year you should know where your relationship is heading to. In younger couples it may not be so clear but in couple 30+ it becomes clearer. Several times I noticed a woman will want to force a square peg in a round hole. A guy who is clearly not into you for the long ride and she keeps reassiring herself that things will change .

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Lol Women.....

Babamide:
This won't work in Africa. The reason behind it is competition. Logically, a man would want to do everything in his power to get the woman and show superiority among other male folks, hence he would propose marriage. But we Nigerian men would just tag the lady olosho.

This is WHAT HAPPENS EVERYDAY in Africa.

Good Morning

lies from d pit of hell

First come first serve.

End time Expert, if he knew his wife was dating four men d same time with him ,am so sure he wouldn't have married her

HungerBAD:
Lol.

This expert is not only encouraging Olosho-ism,but the distribution and re-distrubution of all kinds of diseases.

Fake expert.

Ooooh God, u talk too much bros mi.

If women are advised to date multiple men, men should date un countable ladies at once. Shikena.

Aderola15:
Haaaaaa

Shey ori expert yii gbale nii?

All this brainless advisors and ladies will be buying into it.

My dear nobody likes a used condom and with the way this world is interconnected dating several men is not a smart idea.

I know some "lady" that has done, father and two sons ....

This guy is more ignorant than a novice in relationship-related issues. Come on ,I will always end any stupid relationship when I notice cheating from my partner. I can share anything with another man, not my woman .At least for my health's sake.

Is this how we control HIV knowing well that condoms break and many don't like condoms.... yes many. and the Mods allow this kind of topic on FP. Smh

Ooooshe! I have seen the memo

Whats all this

engrMikemd:

pls read the article b4 u conclude sire

Yes, the "expert" suggests that he doesn't recommend sleeping with everyone.

But I think he is assuming humans are objective robots that cannot get entangled EMOTIONALLY.

For instance, let's say while the lady is playing "rotational dating", she starts having feelings for Dayo.

But alas Bro Kunle is the one who steps up first with The Ring.

You expect her to AUTOMATICALLY switch off all her feelings for Dayo?

This just goes to show that we should always do our own thinking, no matter what the "experts" say.

True but wrong.

Nice one from the op
This is the bitter fact!

kimbra:
I couldn't have agreed more with her. Provided the lady's biological clock is ticking and your man isn't showing signs of seriousness.

Key word.

Keep it casual. You mustn't sleep with all of them. it's all about being open to other suitors instead of sticking with one time waster.

Casual or not, it's not encouraged..
Cheating is cheating..

He is right. Multiple dates and partners will grant you multiple proposals.


What he forgot to mention is that multiple everything will translate to multiple marital problems.

And who is this useless expert? Take this suggestion at your peril.

Satanic expert and advice

MrBrownJay1:
Useless ignorant bloggers who turn into experts/counselors overnight. NONSENSE!!

You can just imagine the message

Xaos:
Actually, there is something sensible in this. I've know women who dated and stayed faithful to their men for almost 2 years but only be heartbroken and dumped at the end of the line. And there are also those that dated for less than 6 months and got married. So I think the idea is to talk to your partner and get a clear picture of where the relationship is heading off to so as not to waste anyone's time.

The end goal is getting married and not staying married. Yes, they got married after 6 months. What's their marriage like? All these get married principles is trash, key points should be staying married.

Xaos:
Actually, there is something sensible in this. I've know women who dated and stayed faithful to their men for almost 2 years but only be heartbroken and dumped at the end of the line. And there are also those that dated for less than 6 months and got married. So I think the idea is to talk to your partner and get a clear picture of where the relationship is heading off to so as not to waste anyone's time.

what u are say in g is different from the expert. the expert suggests cheating and lies while u suggest communications and honesty.. abeg which sincere guy will agree to share girlfriend. .even from religious side multi partner is backed by Quran and Bible

Nice one

kimbra:
Where did you see money there on what I said?. Must you broke NL guys always bring money into everything?.

It doesn't matter how rational this sounds, no sensible guy will b serious with a lady he knows is seeing other guys.

I mean, wat sort of rubbish idea is dat? I don't double date n can't date a lady to whom I'm one of her lab rats....

Ladies, obey d yeye xpert at yhur own peril.