AktorLee:
being reserved doesn't mean u are quiet. it means u just don't talk anyow or act anyow esp in public. But when you are with bae, d beast in u comes out.

My experience though. She even complains i talk too much when we are alone.

robotix:
You are the only wise lady among the idiots that have commented so far. REAL relationship goes beyond boring and it takes some really deep feelings to overcome them.

ekems2017:
Pls run away from that quiet guy. He will deal with you after quietly planning you for decades.
The lousy one in quote will call you to order immediately you offend him.

2buffagain:


Introverts can be funny.
Humour is not an exclusively extroversive trait. There are also extroverts that are not funny.

But I've seen enough to know that girls really need to be taught certain things about relationships.
Firstly your guy is not your TV.
Your life should have other ways of validating its existence that don't involve some other person constantly entertaining you.

Most girls don't know what to do with "silence".
They have this thing in their head that 2 people in a relationship should ALWAYS have something to be constantly talking about, otherwise that relationship is dying.

Most girls need to get hobbies
No your relationship or activities that perpetuate constant attention-seeking are not hobbies.

robotix:
You are the only wise lady among the idiots that have commented so far. REAL relationship goes beyond boring and it takes some really deep feelings to overcome them.

DozieInc:

Yeah, that's how we roll .

Floxyluv:
Personally, i don't really like quiet people. Lively, fun and out going works for me. I don't think i can relate with a quite guy, the whole thing will be boring.

Nomfanelo99:
more like finding somebody who can compliment u. besides, personality is only one aspect of a person .

geekybabe:
Mature. Really mature guys. I'm not talking about age. Emotional and psycological maturity.

I have seen both signs of the coin. That he is reserved doesnt mean he is nice. That he is outspoken doesnt mean he is lousy.
Outspoken and outgoing guys are spontaneous. Fun to be with. They bring excitement.
The reserved ones are cool but getting through to them is always like breaking through a bee hive to get honey.

Just really smart guys, who love to have fun and are emotionally intelligent and mature.

..a fit body is definitely a nice to have.

robotix:
don't mind all the stupid ladies saying boring. I am an introvert myself and I don't talk any how. An ex who left me will do any sacrifice to have me back now... but it's too late. Just like the idiots who have think quiet and reserve introverts are boring, she thought too.

I don't like people who see introverts are misfit.

Most of these people don't even know the amount of work done mentally by an average introvert and they almost always solve problems before them.

skywalker001:
if introvert marry introvert they will born imbeccccile
#TeamExtrovert

Prettyenit18:
Quite, reserved, simple and intelligent guys

geekybabe:
Seen both signs of the coin. That he is reserved doesnt mean he is nice. That he is outspoken doesnt mean he is lousy.
Outspoken and outgoing guys are spontaneous. Fun to be with. They bring excitement.
The reserved ones are cool but getting through to them is always like breaking through a bee hive to get honey. You will get bitten or hurt in the process

Just really smart guys, who love to have fun and are emotionally intelligent and mature.

..a fit body is definitely a nice to have.

Prettyenit18:
Quite, reserved, simple and intelligent guys

geekybabe:
Seen both signs of the coin. That he is reserved doesnt mean he is nice. That he is outspoken doesnt mean he is lousy.
Outspoken and outgoing guys are spontaneous. Fun to be with. They bring excitement.
The reserved ones are cool but getting through to them is always like breaking through a bee hive to get honey. You will get bitten or hurt in the process

Just really smart guys, who love to have fun and are emotionally intelligent and mature.

..a fit body is definitely a nice to have.

ekems2017:
Pls run away from that quiet guy. He will deal with you after quietly planning you for decades.
The lousy one in quote will call you to order immediately you offend him.

ghostmist:
As in ehn...this one now na sumtin else.

All in a bid to get husband, you see them dating 4-5 guys at the same time. They have no idea what love and loyalty means...just waiting for who be stupid enough to propose first. Almost all of them play this same game. Somehow, the media is only focused on the men .

2buffagain:


Introverts can be funny.
Humour is not an exclusively extroversive trait. There are also extroverts that are not funny.

But I've seen enough to know that girls really need to be taught certain things about relationships.
Firstly your guy is not your TV.
Your life should have other ways of validating its existence that don't involve some other person constantly entertaining you.

Most girls don't know what to do with "silence".
They have this thing in their head that 2 people in a relationship should ALWAYS have something to be constantly talking about, otherwise that relationship is dying.

Most girls need to get hobbies
No your relationship or activities that perpetuate constant attention-seeking are not hobbies.

Darkseid:
So ladies which category do you prefer; [b]the quiet reserved guys who prefer to stay on their own and talk only when it's necessary [/b]or the loud outgoing guys?

skywalker001:
if introvert marry introvert they will born imbeccccile
#TeamExtrovert

robotix:


I don't like people who see introverts are misfit.

Most of these people don't even know the amount of work done mentally by an average introvert and they almost always solve problems before them.

geekybabe:
Seen both signs of the coin. That he is reserved doesnt mean he is nice. That he is outspoken doesnt mean he is lousy.
Outspoken and outgoing guys are spontaneous. Fun to be with. They bring excitement.
The reserved ones are cool but getting through to them is always like breaking through a bee hive to get honey. You will get bitten or hurt in the process

Just really smart guys, who love to have fun and are emotionally intelligent and mature.

..a fit body is definitely a nice to have.